Okay,
For months, if not years now I have been trying to figure out you guys and your ridiculous standards that you judge women by. Not just on this board, but on the others that I have visited as well. Many have picked out major flaws, not to mention countless minor ones that (in my opinion) have nothing to do with the beauty, attractiveness, or personality of the women that are being judged.
Cases in point...
1. Attractive women are stuck up and won't date an average guy.
Jeezus, look at the standards you hold them to, and the criteria by which you rate them. Perhaps they are just holding the same standards that many of the men here have. Can you blame them? However, personally I have not found this to be the case. I have found that women prefer an average looking (with a rocking good personality), who is self sufficient, caring, loyal, can take home to mom type.
2. She has big hips, is thick, thunder thighs...
That is called 'normal'. Women like men come in all shapes and sizes, and there is far more than one type that I would consider attractive. The women who hit the gym 3 hours a day are very few and far between, just like us men. Most of us have bellies, balding, the odd zit, grey hair... This is NORMAL people.
3. Women are not honest
Are you?
Guys, they are trying to 'sell' themselves to you to get a date, just like you are to them. We all put our best foot forward hoping that they will like our personalities enough to overlook our flaws. Suck it up, this is dating. I'm not saying there is not a difference between a white lie or a half truth, and a great big one. Just take it at face value and look in the mirror yourselves.
Jeezus, there are times I'm really ashamed to have a penis. It is many of the above types of attitudes that make it hard for a guy to get a date. (Even if one is not looking, the attitudes that are conveyed on these boards seep into our daily lives).
So, the question arises... Why are so many women this way? Probably because WE made them so.
For months, if not years now I have been trying to figure out you guys and your ridiculous standards that you judge women by. Not just on this board, but on the others that I have visited as well. Many have picked out major flaws, not to mention countless minor ones that (in my opinion) have nothing to do with the beauty, attractiveness, or personality of the women that are being judged.
Cases in point...
1. Attractive women are stuck up and won't date an average guy.
Jeezus, look at the standards you hold them to, and the criteria by which you rate them. Perhaps they are just holding the same standards that many of the men here have. Can you blame them? However, personally I have not found this to be the case. I have found that women prefer an average looking (with a rocking good personality), who is self sufficient, caring, loyal, can take home to mom type.
2. She has big hips, is thick, thunder thighs...
That is called 'normal'. Women like men come in all shapes and sizes, and there is far more than one type that I would consider attractive. The women who hit the gym 3 hours a day are very few and far between, just like us men. Most of us have bellies, balding, the odd zit, grey hair... This is NORMAL people.
3. Women are not honest
Are you?
Guys, they are trying to 'sell' themselves to you to get a date, just like you are to them. We all put our best foot forward hoping that they will like our personalities enough to overlook our flaws. Suck it up, this is dating. I'm not saying there is not a difference between a white lie or a half truth, and a great big one. Just take it at face value and look in the mirror yourselves.
Jeezus, there are times I'm really ashamed to have a penis. It is many of the above types of attitudes that make it hard for a guy to get a date. (Even if one is not looking, the attitudes that are conveyed on these boards seep into our daily lives).
So, the question arises... Why are so many women this way? Probably because WE made them so.