Which arrangement is better?

[Qster]

In light of the pandemic, I have been narrowing my service providers and repeating a lot more. I am curious about what you all think about the two scenarios:

1. Business as usual, go see a different RMT (with benefits) every week, enjoy the variety.
2. Accept an exclusive offer, go see one RMT exclusively, exclusive both ways (but really no way to enforce it), enjoy certain exclusive benefits.

Financially, the cost to me is about the same; the one RMT's ask is not high at all.

 

[Owenglasses39]

In light of the pandemic, I have been narrowing my service providers and repeating a lot more. I am curious about what you all think about the two scenarios:

1. Business as usual, go see a different RMT (with benefits) every week, enjoy the variety.
2. Accept an exclusive offer, go see one RMT exclusively, exclusive both ways (but really no way to enforce it), enjoy certain exclusive benefits.

Financially, the cost to me is about the same; the one RMT's ask is not high at all.

Exclusivity! Is that a word. Oh well. I'm going to a few chosen few and going around trying new people all the time. It's not worth it especially if the ones your seeing are worth it for you. This new omircon sounds shitty even for the vaxxed.

I like your exclusive arrangement better

 

[Albertaman]

My own approach has become more focused. Directing my spend on a therapist who gets about 65% of my total monthly spend. Serious massages, with more personal and mutual pleasures. We try to make some sessions for serious MT, and others for personal interactions. Trying to create hybrid sessions are not as effective. Those who knew Miss V or Angela understand the idea.

Edmonton has more home based therapists, so you guys are more fortunate than those of us in Calgary. However, serious massage shops could possibly be the gateway to discovering a great therapist who is willing to moonlight with you in a private setting. I posted on this subject on the Calgary thread. So that search takes up the remaining 35% of my monthly spend. 0% of my spend goes to the spas where there is only oil rubbing, and the providers are into high frequency FS services.

As for Omicron, no real concerns, as it is nature's vaccination program for most of humanity that have no access to fancy big Pharos vaccines. All respiratory epidemics eventually end the same way... it fizzles out with faster spreading, weaker strains. In wealthy nations, there is no excuse for people to not be vaccinated. But Omicron is good news, the end of the pandemic that never was.


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[baklava]

I will go with the second option: Accept an exclusive offer, go see one RMT exclusively, exclusive both ways (but no way to enforce it), enjoy certain exclusive benefits. I did before going around seeing different RMT, enjoy varieties. With the second option, I got better VFM. I got more than I expected. How long it will last, I don't know.

 

[Bob the Knob]

Generally I go to a regular and as some have said, the benefits pay off. We tend to become friends and dating and overnights become common in this case

However this year my activity has curtailed since April when I unfortunately got Covid. The recovery has been extremely difficult with a couple of symptoms still lagging.

Diet and energy have been severely affected, so desire to get out and at them, has reduced a lot. Hopefully 2022 sees improvement and I can get back to my favs

 

[Deleted member 72001]

In light of the pandemic, I have been narrowing my service providers and repeating a lot more. I am curious about what you all think about the two scenarios:

1. Business as usual, go see a different RMT (with benefits) every week, enjoy the variety.
2. Accept an exclusive offer, go see one RMT exclusively, exclusive both ways (but really no way to enforce it), enjoy certain exclusive benefits.

Financially, the cost to me is about the same; the one RMT's ask is not high at all.

Personally, I was floating between both scenarios.

When cases were low in the summer, I would feel more comfortable playing the field.

Once they stated to climb, I narrowed my view and stuck to a few I felt were safer. It wasn’t exclusive, but the cleanliness was evident and prevalent.

Not sure my financial output would allow me to keep a provider as an exclusive. (On her end anyway)

 

[Deleted member 72001]

My own approach has become more focused. Directing my spend on a therapist who gets about 65% of my total monthly spend. Serious massages, with more personal and mutual pleasures. We try to make some sessions for serious MT, and others for personal interactions. Trying to create hybrid sessions are not as effective. Those who knew Miss V or Angela understand the idea.

Edmonton has more home based therapists, so you guys are more fortunate than those of us in Calgary. However, serious massage shops could possibly be the gateway to discovering a great therapist who is willing to moonlight with you in a private setting. I posted on this subject on the Calgary thread. So that search takes up the remaining 35% of my monthly spend. 0% of my spend goes to the spas where there is only oil rubbing, and the providers are into high frequency FS services.

As for Omicron, no real concerns, as it is nature's vaccination program for most of humanity that have no access to fancy big Pharos vaccines. All respiratory epidemics eventually end the same way... it fizzles out with faster spreading, weaker strains. In wealthy nations, there is no excuse for people to not be vaccinated. But Omicron is good news, the end of the pandemic that never was.


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The first two paragraphs were a good read…..the third……….???
With the acception of “…….there is no excuse to not be vaccinated” I think we may have to agree to disagree.
Reading about Bob’s long haul left overs, I’m not sure I can take the same relaxed view with Omicron. Not yet.

 

[Fcktheids]

I like variety better, although I’ve yet to have an exclusivity arrangement

 

[Albertaman]

An exclusivity arrangement with a therapist will NEVER happen. Period. Unless you become the spouse or the significant other at a personal level. Older aunties may be interested in more security with an assurance of marriage without a pre-nuptial agreement. There are a lot of posts about turning an innocent therapist into one with lesser innocence. All fantasy. I appreciate for the blue moon events when a therapist steals my innocence. Remember these workers, even the low frequency workers have at least three guys on the table every day. They have experience. Even the most experienced of us guys are naive souls. So if we are chosen to be taken advantage of, and you like the situation, just surrender, enjoy. Eventually the Dream will end. But forget about Exclusivity. Unless you are an Arab sheikh with old fashioned oil money bursting your bank accounts. Wind and solar power wealth... take a back seat


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[Owenglasses39]

An exclusivity arrangement with a therapist will NEVER happen. Period. Unless you become the spouse or the significant other at a personal level. Older aunties may be interested in more security with an assurance of marriage without a pre-nuptial agreement. There are a lot of posts about turning an innocent therapist into one with lesser innocence. All fantasy. I appreciate for the blue moon events when a therapist steals my innocence. Remember these workers, even the low frequency workers have at least three guys on the table every day. They have experience. Even the most experienced of us guys are naive souls. So if we are chosen to be taken advantage of, and you like the situation, just surrender, enjoy. Eventually the Dream will end. But forget about Exclusivity. Unless you are an Arab sheikh with old fashioned oil money bursting your bank accounts. Wind and solar power wealth... take a back seat


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Ayooo that's me! But with less money

 

[massageyeg]

try the exclusive relationship for a month or two. If you don't like it, you can let her know and change it up

 

[Albertaman]

try the exclusive relationship for a month or two. If you don't like it, you can let her know and change it up

One way exclusive relationships are widely available. You spend on her only. She maintains 10+ other customers like you. . Are you going to monitor her work life for compliance?

Exclusive relationships are realistic with a therapist, as a normal girlfriend, wife relationship, where they are true professionals devoted to their professional code. But in
Ontario, a RMT is forbidden to touch any client in any way that might be intimate. So
husbands, boyfriends.. you are out of luck


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[Albertaman]

Possibly, we need to introduce the idea of Limited Exclusivity. From both parties. I expect that my therapist will treat several customers each and every day. But if our activities progress to include sexual activities, I need to know that these services are only extended to a very select few of her clients. If not, I do not return. Advertised FS service providers are not that interesting.


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[bigbill]

I go back and forth. I find someone I really click with, see them exclusively for quite a while, then begin craving someone new to see.

 

[michael garrett]

Possibly, we need to introduce the idea of Limited Exclusivity. From both parties. I expect that my therapist will treat several customers each and every day. But if our activities progress to include sexual activities, I need to know that these services are only extended to a very select few of her clients. If not, I do not return. Advertised FS service providers are not that interesting.


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do you really think they are going to tell you ??? i have loved every lady i have met but i am fully aware that they are in the trade to make money and i admire them for that..but for honesty and exclusivity i dont think that happens too often

 

[Rubmegood]

You're not marriage material, eh?!

 

[Albertaman]

do you really think they are going to tell you ??? i have loved every lady i have met but i am fully aware that they are in the trade to make money and i admire them for that..but for honesty and exclusivity i dont think that happens too often

Exclusivity from therapist end, Never. Unless, as I had joked before, they happen to be hired full time into an Arab sheikh's harem.

However, limited exclusivity does happen time to time with a therapist who may have many clients that receive happy endings, but FS and other more intimate exchanges are limited to very few clients.


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[cali99]

You're not marriage material, eh?!

if she's ready to leave the biz, then you are a lucky guy@!.
but maybe she has 1 year left.. make you mark.. and let the chips fall where they be...
o married a sw from lb when she was just getting out.. she was a horny girl to say the least!
2 kids later!
if you want a a relationship with a high quality sw, she must be willing...
to your equalities!
she has her ways, and respect.... but for those moments. she tells!