What makes you pick an attendant?

[Bo P]

Ok, I have a question for you that I have been trying to answer for some time now...

I have been observing how you, valued hobbyists, decide which attendant to pick. What strategies do you employ? You basically have a split second to make your decision, so I am curious what motivates or prompts you at settling down with your choice.

Based on my experience on working with various girls, it is simply baffling sometimes when you fail to pick -objectively speaking as much as possible- a screamingly hot attendant over a less eye catching one? There is no prior experience with any of them in question. Do very attractive girls with aggressive sexuality intimidate you? Are you taking into consideration a possibility of lower mileage and a bit higher tips? Or do you go by signals sent from "arousability detector/device" in your pocket (is that a case at all actually)? Insights, please.

 

[Bonkers D. Bobcat]

possible scenarios for picking an attendant...websites contribute somewhat when looking for a certain type of lady based on physical attributes...

I like exotics and tend to look for attendants who I normally wouldn't associate with too often...this is much more appealing for me...

mileage is a personal issue with the attendants and you can't judge an attendant on looks and mileage...(this board helps big time)...but I would think that most would stay away from that "hot" attendant until they got some idea of her technique from other attendants (I've been referred to other attendants by attendants I've already seen)...

I think some clients are looking to fulfill some kind of fantasy and maybe picking a girl who may be less attractive reminds them of someone or some kind of scenario...

seeing a girl for the first time may bring on that "in the pocket "decision but repeating with her takes on all the answers to the questions you asked...

 

[katie.]

I pick them based on appearance, reviews on the board, and in one case, talking to her here on massageplanet.net. I just basically take a guess and hope for the best.

 

[Lois20]

Alanis, in many cases MILEAGE is a huge factor. A lot of the best looking girls won't get outta bed for anything less that a nr or bs (the masage may still be mechanical). The less attractive girl tend to deliver more mileage at cheaper prices. To get certain mileage off the top girls...well you need to mortgage your house. It would be cheaper to just get an SP in some cases!!! Note:I understand that anything under nude is bad for the girls since the door fees are eaten up by the owners.

Another big factor is ATTITUDE. Attitude is the key..we work on the pain pleasure principle. A lot of the girls are 8-10s in the looks department , and most of the clients are not. These clients are used to rejection from your "level" of attractiveness in the real world and perhaps some of that carries forth in their minds. Many of the best looking girls do have poorer attitudes than the lesser attactive ones...since THEY CAN. The lesser attractive ones must give good service just to compete.

Attitude and fantasy are the key. Treat the guy as if he is on your level even if it is very obvious he isn't anywhere close. The gfe experience is important. A bit of dirty talk at the right times is good. Btw Alanis where you work?? The boot might give a visit.

cheers,
Booty

 

[KatManDingo]

Personality is front and foremost
Confidence is second and just as important
Cleanliness should be tops, but I value the other two just as much
Appearance, a hot bod with the other three really gets my mojo running but is not all important.

In other words, you are charming, natural (the less makeup the better and no perfumes please) and bristling with energy to make my day.

 

[HavinFun]

Thank you gentlemen so far for your contributions.

Now I need to print it out and bring to a spa for the girls to read it. This will help the girls to be less harsh on themselves when they get ignored by customers. Also, it might reduce silent cat fights and undercurrent animosities among some girls, which tend to flare once in a while.

 

[Bluebell]

Arlene from Ambrosia (massage) had a great look. Blonde hair, blue eyes, well dressed ... almost business like. She was also very well versed. She spoke intelligently and knew how to take care of a man. Sorry to say she' gone now.

 

[blinky42]

Tits and Ass baby. Tits and Ass!

 

[Samantha K]

Once while waiting (quite a while) in the waiting room for an appointment, there was a cute girl who kept checking on me to see if everything was okay and kept smiling and generally helped to make the time pass. I chose her the next time simply becuase she showed some concern for me while I was sitting there bored.

Sometimes it's just little things like that, that will sway a decision. And she's been wonderful ever since, a real pleasure to know.

 

[devan_dev1]

Looks like the 'clock struck 2'.

BOOYAH!

Exciter

 

[Poop]

In situations where I can talk to one or more attendants, I select based on how they greet me and how they talk to me. Do they view me as a customer and a person with feelings? Or do they see me as an annoyance? How you're greeted can vary greatly.

If I can't talk to the attendants, it's a tougher choice, and then I have to go with looks - pretty face, nice legs, .... Short skirts are great.

My situation is probably different from most since I can only rarely afford extras. It's usually just a massage and "stress releasing" (as they call it) finish for me. At times, attendants will turn quite cold and mechanical if no extras are requested. At times like these you get to see their true character and it is sometimes miserable. Having said that, there are many who treat even less well off clients such as me with friendliness and compassion.

We're all in the same rat race, trying to make an honest living and getting a few simple pleasures. Having thoughtful attendants is a huge plus.

 

[dark bubble]

Alanis is back! Where have you been baby?



Why would the girls look to US to reflect their self-esteem? They are ALL gorgeous. Please tell them that from us. I personally love and seek a girl who is wantonly exploring her 'dark' side! You still have it; as I can see in the lounge. You know how to cut like no other, to the quick that is. You still hurt sooo goood! Now I am dying to give you a good tongue-lashing. Yum yum.

 

[Sno]

There is no defined analysis, or 1,2,3 checklist IMHO, it seems to start with the eyes, and how much interest or zest for life they have when I first see these remarkable creatations. I must say that every women is beautiful in there own way (contray to some of my previous posts) Women are the gas and we are the match.

We all share the same vice, women, all shapes, each different, beautiful and interesting. Give me that 'look' and I'm all yours.

G.

 

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The tone of a women

 

[LLD]

I would say that a raspy demi moore or kim carnes(singer) "betty davis eyes" voice is oh so sexy....I go out and hear a voice like that I always look to see who's talking...I sometimes get the sixty year old smokers but it still sounds good

 

[Amalthea]

I should check in here more often. Been dying for one of the spas to ask this question.

In order, my reasons for picking a girl,

1. Clean is sexy. Obvious smokers, disheveled types have no chance.

2. Class. While I go for EVERY physical type, Crass, loud or impolite girls send me out the door.

3. Last reason is subjective. I call it femininity, which I understand can mean different things to different people. Open toed strappy shoes, hair, nails and makeup done meticulously, dresses rather than pants, poise rather than a clunking walk, all of these things are 'it', for me. Jeans, slouching, tats, an open bag of chips on the table, these are examples of not 'it'.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I prefer an MP that displays all of it women at one time. Sil

 

[Father Christmas]

My friends laugh at me but mostly I go for the "look".
Not how she looked physically but did she look at me and make eye contact, did she smile. I like all types of girls, BBW like Jackie at HFH, thin built like Kelsey at I don't know where. But basically the old gut instinct. I've ended up passing on some really hot sexy busty girls to go for a pretty girl with a nice smile. My buddies were happy but I've enjoyed many wonderfull sessions with pretty girls over the hott ones.

Kurt

 

[Elsabe]

Oh I second the TITS AND ASS, youth and loose the attitude....chicks that are hot with attitude-Tiffany @ Utopia, Layla @ BP, Kelly @ Studio One.........

 

[Calamitty]

By showing a genuine interest in your thoughts, ideas, and of course your body. But truly, it depends if there is chemistry between the 2 of you. If you are somewhat attracted to each other, you can sense it. Conversation is effortless and you can feel the excitement building as you touch, caress, and even start kissing each other. If sparks fly, there is no way you cannot repeat again. You will be planning your next visit soon after the session ends. You will be telling yourself,... it can't get any better than this!