What do I do from here? Seeing an MPA outside the spa

[daty869]

You sound smitten. You should never see her again unless ur looking to have ur bank account drained.

It's a good practice to always have a few in regular rotation so you don't get caught up in feelings for one.

Excellent advice - I used to regularly have 4 in a rotation according to their menstrual cycle…I’m down to two and looking for two to add again but can understand how one gets somewhat emotionally attached, most girls leave everything behind when they leave the door at night. Until they need to find your number to fill a space in their day to get another $40/60/80/100 bill…or for a house….

 

[Sundance69]

Excellent advice - I used to regularly have 4 in a rotation according to their menstrual cycle…I’m down to two and looking for two to add again but can understand how one gets somewhat emotionally attached, most girls leave everything behind when they leave the door at night. Until they need to find your number to fill a space in their day to get another $40/60/80/100 bill…or for a house….

Have to agree here, I've had a number of SPA's as close friends and lovers. A few to my home (I'm single). The results are always the same, especially Chinese women are focused on money.
I can speak to having personal friendships with as many as a dozen girls, and had one around my life for over a year. All but this one were interested in money and building business.

When push comes to a shove (pun intended) these girls will take the money and run.
I have the numbers of well over 50 MPA's and the result is always the same, in the cases where they actually appreciate you and your friendship, you will always be SECOND to the cash.

Many of these girls have boyfriends, lovers, or friends and have no trouble spending the night with you and going on vacation with their main boyfriend the following week.
Many provide FS services and then go home to have dinner and relations with their boyfriends, who maybe pick them up at the spa right after your had a session.

My advice, accept the opportunity, enjoy the visits as available understanding that the moment they leave you, they are on to their next customer and next best friend.
So, enjoy ... but make sure you are clear that your friendship will always be a financial transaction first.

Not cynical here at all, but you must understand that these girls are sex workers and do not respond to emotional life the same way most of us would.
They are fully removed from the actions at work, verses life at home, this is work, culturally much more accepted as a job.

Hope this helps, get out there and have some fun!

 

[Surgeon1936]

Have to agree here, I've had a number of SPA's as close friends and lovers. A few to my home (I'm single). The results are always the same, especially Chinese women are focused on money.
I can speak to having personal friendships with as many as a dozen girls, and had one around my life for over a year. All but this one were interested in money and building business.

When push comes to a shove (pun intended) these girls will take the money and run.
I have the numbers of well over 50 MPA's and the result is always the same, in the cases where they actually appreciate you and your friendship, you will always be SECOND to the cash.

Many of these girls have boyfriends, lovers, or friends and have no trouble spending the night with you and going on vacation with their main boyfriend the following week.
Many provide FS services and then go home to have dinner and relations with their boyfriends, who maybe pick them up at the spa right after your had a session.

My advice, accept the opportunity, enjoy the visits as available understanding that the moment they leave you, they are on to their next customer and next best friend.
So, enjoy ... but make sure you are clear that your friendship will always be a financial transaction first.

Not cynical here at all, but you must understand that these girls are sex workers and do not respond to emotional life the same way most of us would.
They are fully removed from the actions at work, verses life at home, this is work, culturally much more accepted as a job.

Hope this helps, get out there and have some fun!

you very well said but sometimes it's hard to accept

 

[Mea Culpa]

The thing about this SP, is that shes gorgeous but doesn't exploit it (if that makes sense). She takes horrible photos of herself, she does a bad job marketing herself..Its as if she doesn't KNOW how beautiful she is... Its really endearing (or shes an amazing actress - though I cant imagine why anyone would fake this) her photos online are really old and don't show the added weight she put on over the years (in the right places if you ask me)...Shes approaching 30...I get the feeling that shes really modest and humble (as she knows she has lots of competition at her workplace since the new owners doubled the amount of girls there).

Shes not bitchy, she never asks for tips, she makes me feel like im the most important person in the room. She is super attentive and nurturing. My favourite part is when the session is over, how quick she is to tidy the room and hand me a towel as i exit the shower (big turn on for me). I think thats why i keep coming back.

Plus the fact, she got a new number and made sure to reach out to me (when she didn't really have to).

I dont think she gets as many clients as she once did.

Any updates you want to share regarding your relationship status with your special friend?

 

[Enterthedragon47]

Excellent advice - I used to regularly have 4 in a rotation according to their menstrual cycle…

lol!!! You rock, bro!

 

[UsefulIdiot]

My two cents: the OP seems quite naive so I am glad he has been given some perspective and good advice. Reading his account of things made me think of another possibility - his reticence might be intriguing to the SW, a challenge. One time at a holistic spa for the first 30 I just let her massage me, did not ask for anything, did not grope her. I could sense her getting more and more frustrated. When I eventually stroked her leg she quickly went into SW mode and I had a wild session with her.