sorry to hear that nabbeun...i caught mary on her 2nd day so she was fresh, new, and enthusiastic. i definitely had that gfe "connection" you were talking about with her. in fact, for me (at least in my mind), i felt like i had that connection with all 3 girls i've seen from hgitc. i guess that's why i hyped this place up. although, i did see j twice, and the first time was way better than the 2nd (ie. i probably won't see j again).