Chat Privacy tips for MPAs

[Jayjay1]

One of the MPAs that I see regularly complained that she thinks she gave her phone number and real name out to the wrong client, she said she saw someone outside her house the other night and they drove off after she opened the light.

Here are some tips/common sense things so you can keep yourselves safe and avoid crazy stalkers.

1. If you're an MPA that will give your phone number out or real name to a client you trust, make sure you proactively google yourself and your phone number on an incognito tab and make sure nothing comes up. Generally Pintrest and Linkedin are the biggest culprits that will show up first if you use your real name.

2. DO NOT post pictures in your own condo next to a window/balcony, you would be pretty surprised how many people are so familiar with the city that they can recognize buildings in the background, keep yourself safe. One lady I follow on twitter posted a video out her balcony in an area that I am super familiar with tower and I instantly knew her exact address from the direction of the video and surrounding buildings. DO NOT DO THIS

3. I see a lot of you posting photos of their Starbucks drinks that shows the store number, a quick google search will show this store and if this is one that you guys go to regularly that IS NOT in the same area that you work in, chances are its close to where you live. Again, don't give anyone the slightest idea where you are.

4. This one is the weirdest and I can't believe someone would actually do it. I saw this one lady advertise that she was on a dating app and she quoted her tinder description/Bio on twitter, this can EASILY be used against you, someone can make a tinder and set the distance to 250KM+ and keep swiping until they see the description you posted. I can't believe some of these things never cross your mind when doing this kind of stuff. This will give this person your phone, photos, real name, sometimes Instagram. This tip is basically AVOID SUPER SPECIFIC THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF THAT ARE ONLINE SOMEWHERE these are the easiest to find.

5. Do not tell clients which car you drive and do not post pictures in your car if you work at a spa, I am a crazy car person, I can tell some cars by just looking at the seats and the shape of the door handles, window trim, etc. This makes it easy for some crazy stalker to follow you home, they can just wait for the car to pull out of the spa parking lot and follow you.

STAY SAFE LADIES!!

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[FullSend]

Even if you give out your number, use a free text app. Then if someone starts annoying you or going crazy you either block or change it but you don't risk it being used to look up your personal info.

 

[Bobbadoo]

Always, ALWAYS use a burner app with a fake phone number!!

 

[cupcrazy]

i know a mpa that keep on receiving threatening texts after she refused to have 3 some with him and a chick. i told her to change the phone number. she no longer receive any text. i told her only give out wechat contact only so she can block anybody at any time.

 

[snoopdoggie]

One of the MPAs that I see regularly complained that she thinks she gave her phone number and real name out to the wrong client, she said she saw someone outside her house the other night and they drove off after she opened the light.

Here are some tips/common sense things so you can keep yourselves safe and avoid crazy stalkers.

1. If you're an MPA that will give your phone number out or real name to a client you trust, make sure you proactively google yourself and your phone number on an incognito tab and make sure nothing comes up. Generally Pintrest and Linkedin are the biggest culprits that will show up first if you use your real name.

2. DO NOT post pictures in your own condo next to a window/balcony, you would be pretty surprised how many people are so familiar with the city that they can recognize buildings in the background, keep yourself safe. One lady I follow on twitter posted a video out her balcony in an area that I am super familiar with tower and I instantly knew her exact address from the direction of the video and surrounding buildings. DO NOT DO THIS

3. I see a lot of you posting photos of their Starbucks drinks that shows the store number, a quick google search will show this store and if this is one that you guys go to regularly that IS NOT in the same area that you work in, chances are its close to where you live. Again, don't give anyone the slightest idea where you are.

4. This one is the weirdest and I can't believe someone would actually do it. I saw this one lady advertise that she was on a dating app and she quoted her tinder description/Bio on twitter, this can EASILY be used against you, someone can make a tinder and set the distance to 250KM+ and keep swiping until they see the description you posted. I can't believe some of these things never cross your mind when doing this kind of stuff. This will give this person your phone, photos, real name, sometimes Instagram. This tip is basically AVOID SUPER SPECIFIC THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF THAT ARE ONLINE SOMEWHERE these are the easiest to find.

5. Do not tell clients which car you drive and do not post pictures in your car if you work at a spa, I am a crazy car person, I can tell some cars by just looking at the seats and the shape of the door handles, window trim, etc. This makes it easy for some crazy stalker to follow you home, they can just wait for the car to pull out of the spa parking lot and follow you.

STAY SAFE LADIES!!

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They just need to drive a North American car. Nobody knows what those interiors look like.

 

[Dotanuki]

Why post all this valuable info here when most will never read it?

This would be better placed on a wechat group or passed on to a spa lady to pass on to others.

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[Jayjay1]

Why post all this valuable info here when most will never read it?

This would be better placed on a wechat group or passed on to a spa lady to pass on to others.

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By all means pass it on anywhere you think it’s valuable. Going through every single ladies DMs would take too long lol

 

[Jayjay1]

They just need to drive a North American car. Nobody knows what those interiors look like.

Lol it’s funny you say that the MPA I was referring to was driving an American car. But I think I know exactly what you mean, so many American cars are under general motors, and they share parts for all the car brands so interiors look quite similar.

 

[Jayjay1]

i know a mpa that keep on receiving threatening texts after she refused to have 3 some with him and a chick. i told her to change the phone number. she no longer receive any text. i told her only give out wechat contact only so she can block anybody at any time.

Any reason wechat? Isn’t that a chinese government spy app?

 

[cupcrazy]

Any reason wechat? Isn’t that a chinese government spy app?

Not surr. If the government really wants to track you, they can track you through your phone, what's app, telegram, etc.

With text app, you get to decide who to add and who to bloxk

 

[curvluvr]

I can tell some cars by just looking at the seats and the shape of the door handles, window trim, etc.

Excellent tips. This ^^^ is impressive.

 

[Jayjay1]

Excellent tips. This ^^^ is impressive.

This is what happens when you watch every single video by Doug Demuro on Youtube lol

 

[LazyBoy]

The tips can work for the men too. Just remember to keep the hobby separate from your real life. Learn to compartmentalize!

 

[Deleted member 99433]

One of the MPAs that I see regularly complained that she thinks she gave her phone number and real name out to the wrong client, she said she saw someone outside her house the other night and they drove off after she opened the light.

Here are some tips/common sense things so you can keep yourselves safe and avoid crazy stalkers.

1. If you're an MPA that will give your phone number out or real name to a client you trust, make sure you proactively google yourself and your phone number on an incognito tab and make sure nothing comes up. Generally Pintrest and Linkedin are the biggest culprits that will show up first if you use your real name.

2. DO NOT post pictures in your own condo next to a window/balcony, you would be pretty surprised how many people are so familiar with the city that they can recognize buildings in the background, keep yourself safe. One lady I follow on twitter posted a video out her balcony in an area that I am super familiar with tower and I instantly knew her exact address from the direction of the video and surrounding buildings. DO NOT DO THIS

3. I see a lot of you posting photos of their Starbucks drinks that shows the store number, a quick google search will show this store and if this is one that you guys go to regularly that IS NOT in the same area that you work in, chances are its close to where you live. Again, don't give anyone the slightest idea where you are.

4. This one is the weirdest and I can't believe someone would actually do it. I saw this one lady advertise that she was on a dating app and she quoted her tinder description/Bio on twitter, this can EASILY be used against you, someone can make a tinder and set the distance to 250KM+ and keep swiping until they see the description you posted. I can't believe some of these things never cross your mind when doing this kind of stuff. This will give this person your phone, photos, real name, sometimes Instagram. This tip is basically AVOID SUPER SPECIFIC THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF THAT ARE ONLINE SOMEWHERE these are the easiest to find.

5. Do not tell clients which car you drive and do not post pictures in your car if you work at a spa, I am a crazy car person, I can tell some cars by just looking at the seats and the shape of the door handles, window trim, etc. This makes it easy for some crazy stalker to follow you home, they can just wait for the car to pull out of the spa parking lot and follow you.

STAY SAFE LADIES!!

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great advise, most of its good common sense, but tip #4 i dont get. In the interest of keeping my own privacy secure, how can someone get all that info from my tinder page? :S

 

[luvnewpussy]

Yeah I dont know why the hell we are providing tips to MPAS ??

Provide tips to your fellow

The key to this game is a separate burner phone and compartmentalizing this hobby. Dont mix the 2 .follow the jJekyll and hyde model.

 

[Victor Charlie]

So far, not one MPA has made a comment on this thread..
Interesting..