Need some advice!!

[Captain Nerezza]

I am not sure I agree with you that she is trying to find one suitable partner. It is possible she wishes to maintain more than one. If this is the case, it breaks a primary rule with me. The only reason I am not 100% certain of her honesty is because of her profession! However I believe she is looking for love, not money. I think she is also looking to improve her life situation, and that would mean being with a guy above her station, of which was derived from her background. She secretly looks upon all pooners with a certain amount of disdain, including as it were, myself. So anyway, the status and background of potential suitors would have to fit. This is the way she sees it.


It's an indication she wishes to improve her life situation. But if she went to get pregnant from me in the devious way you described, I would simply refuse to support the pregnancy and end the relationship. However, she verbally expresses to me about her desire for this.

Your original post is a damn good one, I'll say again. It forewarns me of the very possible underlying situation. However what puzzles me is the honesty of this girl toward me, for she states most things in a way that its veracity can be ascertained. I still find this hard to believe and we've been dating now for more than a few months. Perhaps I will catch her in a cardinal lie. I am looking for it.

 

[Neidy]

IMHO There is nothing wrong with allowing a relationship to develop with a sp. They are real people too and many of them are really lonely in their personal life because they have no one to share and talk with. Her work complicates the matter. I have read in this thread and I have picked it up in the Wpg. room how this business is built on lies, lies and more lies. Poons know it and sp's even talk about it being an element that is difficult for them too.

Because trust is the foundation of any relationship you owe it to yourself to explain that to the lady. If she is not honest and open with you and you begin to pick up on the lies then there can be no relationship particularly with a lady in the sp business. You may be surprised. If you don't begin to put boundaries relating to her conduct around her you will not give her a lot of reason to lie to you. Ultimatly you are probably better off to leave the boundaries open and see the real lady as she unflolds. You may love her and you may leave her.

On another vein I have been surprised that there are a number of ladies in this business that enjoy having a lot of sex with a lot of guys. They are here for the money but I think it would be difficult for many such ladies to settle down to just one guy. Don't get me wrong on this one. There are also other ladies that really want that little house somewhere with a picket fence and children and sex with just one guy till death do us part too!

 

[R. A]

If you consider the selection of men that she sees, and decides to date you, that would have to be a big ego boost for yourself, having picked you over the masses...
So ya, date her. For nothing more than the experience. Do it for yer ego. Do it for the sex. Do it for the companionship. Accept that shes doing 1/2 the city. Practice safe sex at all times.
Don't fall in love. Don't expect her to stop working. And do not become her bitch. Whatever you do. Don't become her bitch...

 

[adamantia3190]

Very interested real life experience with SP's from both George and Everest...

 

[Other Girl]

If your gettin it for free, don't bitch take it! Wear you rubbers and get all you can, eventually you will find out what the relationship is all about especially if she manages to clean your wallet out anyway!

 

[Barkley Hound]

What does this mean, "become her bitch"? A woman may be a bitch,
but how can a man be one?

Main Entry: 1bitch
Pronunciation: 'bich
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English bicche, from Old English bicce
1 : the female of the dog or some other carnivorous mammals
2 a : a lewd or immoral woman b : a malicious, spiteful, or domineering woman -- sometimes used as a generalized term of abuse
3 : something that is highly objectionable or unpleasant
4 : COMPLAINT

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