My man chats w a chic that he almost slept w who told him he missed the

[Stiney Lee]

best sex of his life. Is this okay? We are getting married and I'm sickened by this. I don't think he'll pursue this but this makes me ill. I know it's not cool to snoop- but he gives me reasons to (like this convo and not sleeping with me for an entire month). What do I do?

 

[Crystal Gayle]

Billy is a total idiot. You don't need to fulfill some lewd threesome fantasy to keep a man happy. He shouldn't be speaking with someone that has this kind of sexualized history with him. If you explain that it makes you uncomfortable, and he refuses to stop talking to her, then I wouldn't marry him. He obviously doesn't respect your feelings, and is incredibly immature.

 

[Marie]

Don't get married to him. He is just not that into you. He is into that chick that he is talking to, they may have had sex by now. Move on quickly. Wow you just dodged a bullet!

 

[BikerChick]

NO it is NOT OK, and you better stop "thinking", and find out exactly what his intentions are.

You NEED to know if he called her, she called him, how long they have been talking, and WHY they are talking about SEX. If they were not intimate, what reason do either of them have to talk to each other in the first place. She is doing her best to entice him back to her, and if he has not gone back already, he was seriously thinking about it for sure.

When people lie or play games, the truth always ends up coming out, so if you found out by "snooping", so be it. Women have very strong intuitions, and men underestimate their ability to figure things out. He may try to fault you for "snooping" but do not feel guilty about it - - you needed to know, and he would not have told you, so he created the problem, NOT you.

Confront him. You need to know whether he really is committed to you or not BEFORE you get married.

 

[Monte134]

NO! its NOT fair to YOU! Leave him! I am a man and would never do that to a woman I loved!!!
marry me,lol

 

[Billy D]

I think you should make arrangement to have a threesome with this girl. This will provide the best sex ever for him. You will prove to be adventurous and willing to enjoy a great pleasure that will is not just for you. Get over yourself and turn up the heat in your relationship. Being a prude will turn him off and cause no sex.