I'm Bored. Here's a story from another site. What would you do if you were him?

[imthedude]

There are few universal relationship rules. Each couple is different. For some history is important, and for others the past is irrelevant.

Fair, but I still think his transgression is worse, and borne of insecurity.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Fair, but I still think his transgression is worse, and borne of insecurity.

Is it a transgression? People have different values.

 

[cupcrazy]

everybody has a history whether you like it or not. If you are truly love that person, you have accept their pasts. You can't get jealous over your significant other's ex

 

[c1000]

everybody has a history whether you like it or not. If you are truly love that person, you have accept their pasts. You can't get jealous over your significant other's ex

Is it fair for a women with a bad history to pass herself off ass a women with a decent history?

That's the thing I wouldn't be able to handle. It's like buying a car only to find out it's been in 2 big accidents before.

It's not about jealousy, it's the persons actual value compared to the market.

somehow I always end up with women with kids- It's some kid of unwritten rule in my life - even my Chinese girlfriend has a son in his 20's - never met him though!!

I came to a conclusion that at a certain age you have to expect kids.

I total wish I just knocked some chick up when I was in my 20's.

 

[2016aldoraine]

What a whore..

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[xtc27]

We all have skeletons in the closet and have to deal with it when they get exposed.
I can only relate to what has happened to me.
A long time ago when I was 30 and she was 28, same ages you guys, my hot gfriend, blond, blue eyed etc were dating for 3 years. Had asked her to marry me and gave her a very expensive ring. I had planned a trip to Vegas with her and her kids for a weekend. It was planned for 6 months, everything paid for. The night before our trip she cancelled. She would not give me an explanation. I was so pissed!!!!!! I went on the trip by myself and had a horrible time. When I came back 3 days later I tried calling her. No answer. So I left it at that and that was the end. We both never called each other. It`just was not meant to be!! But after 3 years of exclusive dating, living with each other etc.. you would think we were married! As I look back, its just as well that that happened because I went on to meet another woman who I had kids with. `So That 3 years with her was my marriage and it ended. In your case, he will most likely try calling to see if things can be patched up. If thats what you really want, answer his call. Be real with yourself cause maybe you still have that wild horse in you still...
Good luck!

1. guy dumping her... sometimes u gotta. Could b rich family, clergy, political ambitions... wife= more than future sex partner.
2. 3 yr relationship ends b4 Vegas... dramatic story... gd u moved on...

...best thing they can do is let u know they do NOT truly like u. Lotsa fish. Move the fuck on, don’t look back. Like u did.

...any girl I like, gonna give her lots attention & time... till moment she says anything meaning me= not special 2 her... then I’m gone. Poof! ... don’t try 2 change their minds... that’s 4 movies...

...if girl doesn’t dig u, she can really betray u & fuck up yr life...

...Going into this hobby, thot... Fun= cumming w/ girls I find attractv... but stumbled onto few girls I ‘click’ with... lotsa fun... but sadly... they let it slip that I’m not that special... in various oh so stupid ways...

...and fantasy= dead... WTF... walk away...

...weird... never expected it 2 matter, The connection... just hot girl, makes me cum, ciao baby... but that connectn feeling = intoxicating.

...ever since my RMT crawled on the table & cuddled w/ me, been hooked... was in a daze... So unexpected!

...connected, & disconnected, w quite a few since then... girls who spent allota effort on me, then, BANG, wrecked it... They don’t even text me...

... here, deep in COVIDland, who still texts me? That RMT...

 

[xtc27]

Is it a transgression? People have different values.

...lotta conservatv families out there... guy prolly figured, this’ll never fly w my ppl...

...he bargained w himself, maybe she can keep it quiet? Just this one dude knows...

...then found out, gangbang guys, still CONNECTED 2 her... fuck it, never gonna work, everybody gonna know...

...maybe u & me, she= perfect wife... but some guys need, well, not perfect girl, but not gangbanger still hanging w guys who did her...

...US Colleges= really not like Cdn...

...had gf there , fucked around a bit, but don’t know any girls like this one...

 

[imthedude]

Is it a transgression? People have different values.

Yeah, not all of them equal.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

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Nice and messy. The sisters BF fucked up, that information should have come from the woman herself. For the fiancé to return he must love her warts and all, not just be in love in an idea of her. In most serious relationships there comes a point when you reveal your past and who you really are, good and bad. People might need a little time to digest and accept this information - we humans are jealous creatures. But if it is meant to be both partners will accept each-over as they are and were and move on. We have all done things that others would have a hard time accepting (I have been with over 50 different sex workers). It is much worse if the "stuff" is kept secret and comes out much later after marriage and children.

i agreee
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