I need advice.

[Kirstin]

DK is she worth it in the sack for all this drama or do you really like her?

 

[~the night sky~]

I dedicate this song to u.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n5_auLPJ2Z0

 

[~Jessika~]

I am back from TJ
I think I owe you guys update.
It was rainy and little chilly friday evening.
She was their as usual.
So I approached to her and said "hola! Como estas?"
And she said "Bien. Yi tu?" I said "Bien."
Then I supposed say "Vamos"
But I didn't say anything to her anymore and said hello to her friends.
And I went to a different bar and drink a beer and came back to her an hour later.
Now I can see from her eyes that she doesn't want lose me, I mean my money.
So I approached her again said "From now on I don't need 1 hour Anymore. 1 hour is only for special girl. I only need 30 minutes. How much?"
She seemed disappointed and said 700 Pesos. But we negotiated to 600 pesos and went upstairs. But ended up paying her 1000 pesos for an hour. But her attitude wasn't that good.
A couple hours later, I went to her and just smiled and negotiated with one of her friends and went upstairs. Later that night, she came to me asked me "How was she and how much you paid?" Wow! Now she realized she could lose her business from me.
Next night I got treated as VIP from her. Now her attitude completely changed. Actually I mixed all your advice together.
Thanks for all the advice.

 

[She is my Sunshine]

Thanks amigomio.
I will try that.

 

[Amy O]

You dated her 10 times!

Jealousy doesn't figure into the equation, if she attempts it, it is only for show and a trick to reel you in. Do you know how much she cares about you? 1500 pesos! My suggestion is to get Viagra from the pharmacy, go to a different bar(s)/whore(s) house and fuck different girls that don't remind you of her. When you are done high fiving yourself from your hedonistic rampage, see if you can even remember that bitches name?

For me mongering is about different flavours. Even the hottest girls only hold my interest for maybe 2-3 tricks, and certainly not in a row.

 

[LiarLiarPantiesOnFire]

Donker, this IS the plan.

Let me tell you what you are going to do.

You are going to meet her.
You are going to face her.
Talk to her and ask her standing price.

If she charges you 1500, you will tell her straigh in her eye "no gracias", no thank you.
After that, no small chat and YOU will leave her standing there, not the other way around AND never ever talk to her again till she comes over and starts to talk first.
And then again you will partake in her talk only if she lowers her price to the original 1000 pesos.

Until she does, do not waste your time with her.

Donker, you have to rough and harsh with her.

You are nor posting whether she's an escort, bar girl or club girl.
But one thing is for sure, skip that "jelousy" BS.
Total stupidity to see it that way.

What you must pay attention to is that if she works at club, all the girls will know by now that you are willing to pay the 1500 price.

You're a mark for them, let them know you will not pay at all that figure, by openly getting rid of your GF for charging you that and openly boast in front of the other girls that she is no more due to her inflated prices.

All the girls have to realize that you are not dumb.
The part that was dumb was her and she's no longer in your list, not the other way around.

 

[Have Compassion]

Thank you all members for your cool advice.
I am going down TJ this friday.
I don't have game plan yet, but definitely will have it by friday.
I will post outcome after I come back.
Thanks

 

[hidden]

Just think of her as a car repair shopg that you liked getting your oil changed at. If the price goes up just because you always go there then show that vendor that their price increase of 50% just backfired cause you're going to the vendor next door. By the way, PLEEEASE dont tell me you like this chica in a romantic kinda way cause if you do then youre looking for love in all the wrong places. You wont make her jealous, trust me. To her you are just another trick, another dick she had to suck to earn some cash. Sorry but that's all it is.

 

[Faree Imaan]

I've been mongering for 5 years in TJ.
Nothing ever happened like this before. Instead they were so happy because I choose her. Also I got a better service.
Actually I never paid more than 1000 peso to anyone for an hour service.
I just feel bad because she take advaneforum.xxxe of me.
1000 peso or 1500 peso doesn't make a difference.

 

[Joe in texas]

I totally agree with SampsonRico

 

[raziq29]

Advice is usually worth what you pay for it, which is little or nothing, but since you asked, here goes.
1000 pesos X 10 sessions = 10,000 pesos. Where I come from that's not a bad piece of pocket change for a month. And assuming all other things being equal, I would guess there are a lot of pretty hot chicas who'd love to have a piece of that action. If it were me, and I was prepared to drop 10,000 pesos into a chica's purse this month, I'd be seriously looking for a discount! Or some kind of major fringe benefit.
If she then jacked the price of her services up by 50%, I'd have to start asking myself some hard questions, i.e.
1. Can I live without her?
2. Can I get equal or better service elsewhere?
3. What's next? Will it be 2000 pesos next month, and 2500 the next, and so on? If not, why not ... what will have changed?

At any rate, I wish you luck with your problem. I've been there myself a time or two

 

[Pompal 09.]

If you go the route of moving on....then I recommend you pretend like you don't care. Don't give her the advaneforum.xxxe as when the chica know you are going PLM she gains control.

Obviously this is just business to her or she would not jack the price up.

 

[jay7]

Is 1500 pesos too much for you to pay for her services? You have to decide that question. You are the consumer. She is the provider. She sets her price. You decide if you want to pay it. That is business.

It sounds as though you have already made up your mind but you are afraid to implement your decision. No one else can make the decision for you and no one else can implement your decision. Be careful or you may just wind up being called a PLM by your fellow mongers. (Heaven forbid!)

Good Luck.

 

[dccgirly1862]

I dated this girl more than 10 times for the last couple months and now she found out that I liked her very much. So she jack up the price from 1000 pesos to 1500 pesos for an hour.
Do I have to make her jealousy to date with her coworker or just disregard her for the moment or something else?
Please give me a advice.