You can pinpoint when and where you got herpes from. If you caught it youโll have an outbreak around 3-10 days after exposer. It doesnโt lay dormant in your body for years and decide to just pop up on your wedding day from a slide you got 4 years ago. A blood test for herpes isnโt accurate because the virus hides in your body when a person is not having an outbreak, but just cause it normally lays dormant in your body during that time doesnโt mean thatโs what happens when you first are exposed to it. Youโd have a first outbreak (oral or genital) within the time period 3-10 or whatever it is, might be 14 days I donโt know the exact period of time. But it would just be easier if the original poster just mentioned who exactly he stayed with in the week leading up to his outbreak unless he was going for 2 slides a day for 2 weeks in a row with different people each time from both spas, then ya thatโd be more difficult to pinpoint. Right now just reading that its scaring people from going to either spa when that could be avoided all together, if you stayed with lady x from spa b and than 7 days later had an outbreak than chances are pretty good that thatโs who spread it to you. You donโt have to put together a list of every girl youโve stayed with the past 3 years, itโs just whoever you were with Back dated two weeks from your first outbreak. Anyways thatโs why I never partake in bbbj or pussy slides, reading the way some people just go to some of these girls who are sucking and swallowing 10+ guys a shift makes me not wanna go see that girl. I rather stay with a low mileage girl and if you continue to see her maybe there could be some trust there for extra fun after. But either way you could catch anything from anyone even a random chick you meet at a club or coffee shop, just gotta becareful.