How often do you go to a spa for a session?

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Dr. Reena Malik on youtube a men's health specialist mention studies that showed people who have sex at least once a week significantly reduce all-cause mortality. Me too, down from twice a week but sometimes twice a week.

Heh … well it use to be twice more often then not but I need to save a little for retirement.

 

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So - my question for you is this: Do you do DATY with all the MPAs you see?

Never. Just NMCOT doing that with sex workers. If I ever did I’d probably just work the clit and stay out of the ditch.

 

[Easygoing]

Your avatar suggests you like something more than DATY!

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I have corrected the confusion. I wouldn't want anyone to think I am interested in bbbjs

 

[cyanbg]

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That’s what she yelled. Sorry for the confusion.

 

[kittyhound69]

Well now! Interesting question.
Difficult for me to answer but I will give it a shot hahahaha.
I have been at this since the early 2000s but I will take yesterday as an example - which by no means is typical but does happen maybe a dozen times a year.
I was in Richmond Hill for an 8am meeting. When I was done I dropped by a semi legit spa - spent an hour with a superstar there - so hot - I couldn't get her out of my mind after I left.
I then had another meeting at 3pm downtown. So after that was finished I ended up at another spa and spent 30 minutes fucking one of my favourite Chinese girls there - her slim body and breasts are absolutely incredible - I think she said 3 sentences in a half hour - just 30 minutes of hardcore pounding. So now I got 2 of these women swirling around in my head - a dangerous place to be!
Later I went for a dinner meeting in Scarborough around 7pm. After that, around 8:45, I was still horny as fuck so I decided to see another one of my favourites in the area before driving back to Oakville. I stayed with her for an hour. This Chinese girl is close to 50 but looks 35 and has a face that would stop time. She gave me an amazing massage with an incredible Body/Pussy Slide including lots of kissing and a very slippery wet kitty. No sex but this girls hands should be licensed - I call her Jane Bond ; ) Each of these Asian women are in their mid to late 40s and are very very sexy, accommodating and possess unique skills.
I got home around 11pm - long drive! So 3 times yesterday and $460 for an incredible day of sexual encounters with 3 delicious Asian women!
Mostly I would say I do, at the minimum, 2 or 3 times a week but sometimes I can get a little carried away.
I am a single guy and I don't have any interest in dealing with the games and expectations of most women in my age group (late 50s/early 60s).
I like the massage environment and have about 12 favourites in rotation. I only check out new girls when I dump a fav that pissed me off.
I am a bit sensitive to how I am treated. I don't like to be rushed and I don't like being interrupted and I don't like being lied to. I also require undivided attention and won't settle for anything less.
I don't do escorts but I am always horny so it's a problem for me that needs constant attention.
Generally, I don't much care about the money I spend but I don't like the stupid prices many girls want these days and as a result, I often dump girls for that and various other reasons.
I treat all the girls with respect and always pay more than they ask or expect. Over the last 7 months I have stopped seeing 5 of my favourite girls. It really hurts, especially 1 of them, but it doesn't take long to replace them. There are so many Spas in the GTA I don't know why anyone would put up with any bullshit.
So, if I was to guess I would say I probably spend between $20,000 - $26,000 a year and I generally take 4 weeks of holidays out of the country.
So at the high end that - on average would be - close to $2400 a month or maybe 3 visits a week.
Maybe I should see my priest !

Who is this 50!year old.

 

[Easygoing]

Who is this 50!year old.

I never said she was 50, close to fifty.
I am not disclosing any names as this is not a review.
This was all to explain some of the silliness I get up to.
I'm sure you must have a few you keep to yourself, yes?

 

[bIbI-one]

I have corrected the confusion. I wouldn't want anyone to think I am interested in bbbjs

Nice. More appropriate. Personally I like bbbjs and I appreciated that old picture.

 

[Easygoing]

Nice. More appropriate. Personally I like bbbjs and I appreciated that old picture.

I love bbbj - covered blowjob is the stupidest shit I ever heard of - complete idiocy!

 

[bIbI-one]

I love bbbj - covered blowjob is the stupidest shit I ever heard of - complete idiocy!

It’s ok to get you hard before CFS, but for the whole show? Forget it.

 

[Easygoing]

It’s ok to get you hard before CFS, but for the whole show? Forget it.

So - this all came about as a solution sex workers adopted to put the condom on without killing the moment while the client was already hard and ready to fuck.
As with most everything in this fucked up world, opportunistic individuals created the CBJ to make money for a ridiculously stupid service offering...
As a result, here we are...

Now, before everyone jumps on me, I'm NOT saying there is no risk of contracting an STI by getting a bare blowjob - for the guy or the sex worker. There is always a certain amount of risk in any sexual activity, even a handjob! So...

 

[bIbI-one]

So - this all came about as a solution sex workers adopted to put the condom on without killing the moment while the client was already hard and ready to fuck.
As with most everything in this fucked up world, opportunistic individuals created the CBJ to make money for a ridiculously stupid service offering...
As a result, here we are...

Now, before everyone jumps on me, I'm NOT saying there is no risk of contracting an STI by getting a bare blowjob - for the guy or the sex worker. There is always a certain amount of risk in any sexual activity, even a handjob! So...

I agree with you, cbjs are just dumb. Most of the time, it becomes a handjob finish. Think of that! You just paid $100 tip for a hj. That’s what a cbj is. Part of the joy of bjs is how she receives the cum; in her mouth, on her face, on her boobs, swallowed, and these all disappear with a cbj if you somehow cum inside. I’ve actually cum inside the ‘dom once. Very dull tepid orgasm. Conversely, natural blowjobs have resulted in some of the best cums of my life.

 

[burldude12]

I agree with you, cbjs are just dumb. Most of the time, it becomes a handjob finish. Think of that! You just paid $100 tip for a hj. That’s what a cbj is. Part of the joy of bjs is how she receives the cum; in her mouth, on her face, on her boobs, swallowed, and these all disappear with a cbj if you somehow cum inside. I’ve actually cum inside the ‘dom once. Very dull tepid orgasm. Conversely, natural blowjobs have resulted in some of the best cums of my life.

I prefer cbj over bbbj without cim. I least, with cbj, the girl keep sucking until you are done. Some girls take cim and run to spit the second she gets it in her mouth. It kills the mood.

 

[Step]

Once a week usually. Still looking for magic unicorn
Sometimes massage is not good, I do it better, sometimes sensual/emotional part is fake or smth like that.

 

[Stoo]

Mine is dependant on my income, which tends to be higher in the summer so generally weekly. Otherwise, every 2 to 3 weeks. Occasionally, I take a break with the intent of quitting when I consider the amount of money I've blown over two decades, but then I remember I'm going to be dead soon, so fuck it. ;-)

 

[Sundance69]

Mine is dependant on my income, which tends to be higher in the summer so generally weekly. Otherwise, every 2 to 3 weeks. Occasionally, I take a break with the intent of quitting when I consider the amount of money I've blown over two decades, but then I remember I'm going to be dead soon, so fuck it. ;-)

100%

 

[Easygoing]

Once a week usually. Still looking for magic unicorn
Sometimes massage is not good, I do it better, sometimes sensual/emotional part is fake or smth like that.

"sometimes sensual/emotional part is fake"
I can tell you my friend, "sometimes" is more than 90%

As a matter of fact, I have actually burst out laughing... it truly is pathetic. I've considered stopping the whole thing in mid stream as a result of the out and out obvious fakery.

Yesterday is a good example. Went to a Spa I am quite familiar with and ended up in the room with an Asian milf who is very vey hot and well known.
When she slid her naked self all over me, the whimpering and fake turned-on sounds coming from her almost made me turn over and say: what are you doing? Are you fucking serious? I mean really!
Too much...

Now don't get me wrong, some sex workers and Spa Girls are really good at faking it, but they are few and far between...

But I have to say, it really pisses me off that they think I am that stupid, it's insulting!

 

[BS4ME]

"sometimes sensual/emotional part is fake"
I can tell you my friend, "sometimes" is more than 90%

As a matter of fact, I have actually burst out laughing... it truly is pathetic. I've considered stopping the whole thing in mid stream as a result of the out and out obvious fakery.

Yesterday is a good example. Went to a Spa I am quite familiar with and ended up in the room with an Asian milf who is very vey hot and well known.
When she slid her naked self all over me, the whimpering and fake turned-on sounds coming from her almost made me turn over and say: what are you doing? Are you fucking serious? I mean really!
Too much...

Now don't get me wrong, some sex workers and Spa Girls are really good at faking it, but they are few and far between...

But I have to say, it really pisses me off that they think I am that stupid, it's insulting!

What's the alternative she makes no noises like a dead fish? Its just part of the gig and act sometimes.

80-90% of the time these chicks are not really into it and are not into the client. So they fake it.

 

[Easygoing]

What's the alternative she makes no noises like a dead fish? Its just part of the gig and act sometimes.

80-90% of the time these chicks are not really into it and are not into the client. So they fake it.

Well, I'm not saying that they should be silent. Most are not. But the act can be over the top. And there are those who are genuine, small percentage IMHO as you've also pointed out...

 

[Sundance69]

"sometimes sensual/emotional part is fake"
I can tell you my friend, "sometimes" is more than 90%

As a matter of fact, I have actually burst out laughing... it truly is pathetic. I've considered stopping the whole thing in mid stream as a result of the out and out obvious fakery.

Yesterday is a good example. Went to a Spa I am quite familiar with and ended up in the room with an Asian milf who is very vey hot and well known.
When she slid her naked self all over me, the whimpering and fake turned-on sounds coming from her almost made me turn over and say: what are you doing? Are you fucking serious? I mean really!
Too much...

Now don't get me wrong, some sex workers and Spa Girls are really good at faking it, but they are few and far between...

But I have to say, it really pisses me off that they think I am that stupid, it's insulting!

It's just work and the acting classes are free ... HA! Whatever gets YOU off is good enough, and a little enthusiasm is appreciated.

Most girls see 5 - 8 customers a day, exactly how many times each day do you think "she's into this" .... on the right day with the right girl and customer there are some "good" "enjoyable" synergies, but if you think customer number 40 for the week is going to get her "going" your dreaming in technicolor!!

It's a job, it's a job, it's a job .... they work, YOU ENJOY .... you're not getting played, it's just a job and their job is to have you enjoy the experience and FINISH ... quite simple. Most girls would rather massage you and provide you a HE ...

I think the girls generally are quite amazing, and most gents here are lucky to have the privilege of their company and services.

You need to review your thinking ... after all you were customer #40, you should be happy she tried at all!

Get out there and have fun!

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

What's the alternative she makes no noises like a dead fish? Its just part of the gig and act sometimes.

80-90% of the time these chicks are not really into it and are not into the client. So they fake it.

Also she is just trying to get you off like I am trying to get her off. A little vocals doesn't hurt unless it shows they could not give a shit. I give my vocals if ever for her pleasure. She like me can have a very good time without totally going out of our head necesarily. My regular jokes about the moaning and I say "I do not care I still like it it sounds like you are at least a little honest.". I do not require it but it is all good with a nice girl.