How did you get into hobbying?

[johnbuyba]

Wanted to hear how some of you got into this hobby and how old you were when you started. I'll start off with my experience.

The first time i went to an MP was almost a year ago when i was 20. I hurt my leg really bad in a ball game at my uni and someone recommended me to go to a spa to get a massage to fix my leg. Back then I didn't know shit about what goes on in these spas, and didn't know where to find them either. One day after some korean bbq with some friends on the drive back I noticed "Purple sugar spa" in a plaza near Chakos and thought to myself "oh i should visit them for my leg problem. Fast forward 1 week I go and visit them in the afternoon and am led into a room for a 30 minute massage. I lie down and after about 15 minutes I notice the MPA get on my back and i felt something weird and wet going down my lower back. I turn around and she is sliding her pussy on my back and i was so shocked i jumped off the table and was like wtf are u doing. then she laughed and said something and I was so weirded out i put on my clothes and just left. after telling my friends about this they told me about "rub n tugs" and I thought that type of stuff only happened in movies. then i discovered this website and yeah.... that's how i discovered hobbying. what about you guys?

 

[Mpnewbie0]

Son, you’re too young to be doing this. A lot of men here do this to get out of their mundane life. Or to add some spice to their life.

I always knew about spas but decided to venture last year after I was recently single and had no interest to get back to the dating world. A friend of mine suggested to visit Flirt and after my first experience, I discovered this website. Since then, I’ve been addicted and looking for the next best thing.

 

[Dongo]

I have told this story a few years ago, but for those that are interested, here it is again.
I once had a cell phone with a number that was the same as a spa in Vaughan..... except that their number was 905, and mine was a 416.
I started getting weird calls from guys asking for an appointment with "Cindy at 2:00" ... or Madison or Sandra. I could not always get to explain that they had the wrong number before they blurted out their request, said thanks and hung up.
I looked into the 905 number and found it belonged to a small spa off of Jane north of 7. I called and passed the information along. After a few weeks of doing this, the owner asked me to come by for a massage "on the house". She was a Czech girl, early 20's and HOT ! That was the start of my MP career that is now approaching 30 years.

 

[johnbuyba]

Son, you’re too young to be doing this. A lot of men here do this to get out of their mundane life. Or to add some spice to their life.

I always knew about spas but decided to venture last year after I was recently single and had no interest to get back to the dating world. A friend of mine suggested to visit Flirt and after my first experience, I discovered this website. Since then, I’ve been addicted and looking for the next best thing.

haha i don't do it regularly..

I have told this story a few years ago, but for those that are interested, here it is again.
I once had a cell phone with a number that was the same as a spa in Vaughan..... except that their number was 905, and mine was a 416.
I started getting weird calls from guys asking for an appointment with "Cindy at 2:00" ... or Madison or Sandra. I could not always get to explain that they had the wrong number before they blurted out their request, said thanks and hung up.
I looked into the 905 number and found it belonged to a small spa off of Jane north of 7. I called and passed the information along. After a few weeks of doing this, the owner asked me to come by for a massage "on the house". She was a Czech girl, early 20's and HOT ! That was the start of my MP career that is now approaching 30 years.

wow that's an interesting way of getting a free massage

 

[cupcrazy]

I got one free massage by teaching the owner on how to market her spa.

I started several years ago when the massage parlour started to boom. I saw a $20 discount off the "NOW" newspaper. I went in to try it out. After that first visit, I will try to visit as often as I can

 

[JaimeWolf]

Went to a strip club in Niagara Falls for a bachelor party. Saw Deja Vu spa next door with attendants hotter than the strippers. It was a no brainer.

 

[itstherealthing]

25 years ago wandered into a strip club in Vaughan.
Wife had just delivered our first child and had not had sex in months.
Hostess at the door asked if I wanted regular seating or VIP. I took VIP and she sat me in a booth at the back beside another guy sitting with this naked girl on his lap.
Had a beer while I watched him playing with her tits.
Along comes a gorgeous redhead and asks me if I want her to dance for me.
I agree and after two dances she tells me she is short of money on her rent that month
Asked her how much she was short and she said she needed $120.
I was so horny by this time...I agreed at which point she sat on my lap facing me and let me play with her boobs and lick her nipples.
Before I know it she reaches down unzips my pants and pulls my cock out.
The couple sitting beside us are just watching this eyes glued to my cock.
We basically put on a sex show for them but no FS
I come all over her belly, pay and have another beer while I watch the couple beside us do the same act now.
My girl leaves but tells me I can see her again in private at a massage parlour that used to be near hwy 7 and Rodick rd.
Started going and have never been able to stop.
Never told this story before
kind of therapeutic

 

[Nrsytd]

I was hanging out in strip clubs for 25 years but the service has been ramping up over the last few years. Most of the girls want $200-$300 for a BJ now. And most not interested in just a private dance anymore. And sooo many cops cruising around these days that having a few beers is outta the question. So...started looking into MP's and for the same money (most times cheaper). You get the girl for an hour or so in a private clean environment.
Win, win.
When I started I kinda went overboard seeing about 12-15 girls a month but I eventually realized it's all kinda the same schtick and too much of a routine. I Just stick with my favs now And have backed off to about 6 a month.
Play safe everyone.

 

[Flatulent Fox]

I started 5 years ago. I was shoveling snow and hurt my neck, so I googled "massage Mississauga" looking for a legit massage, and a bunch of MPAs showed up. I assumed that rub and tugs existed but I was surprised to see them advertising so openly.

I tried a few places nearby and I thought they were ok at the time, then I discovered the review boards and realized there was more fun to be had. I never did get that legit massage.

 

[johnbuyba]

I started 5 years ago. I was shoveling snow and hurt my neck, so I googled "massage Mississauga" looking for a legit massage, and a bunch of MPAs showed up. I assumed that rub and tugs existed but I was surprised to see them advertising so openly.

I tried a few places nearby and I thought they were ok at the time, then I discovered the review boards and realized there was more fun to be had. I never did get that legit massage.

Lol sounds similar to how i found out about them.

 

[LBB]

About 13 years ago my wife passed away. She was my everything, never a day of complaint from me. I promised myself I would not get remarried . I did not want to date so a friend introduced me to his massage lady and I have not looked back. I have Fetish for big boobs and I have had great time in my quest. I have a busy lifestyle and don’t need the commitment of a single person in my life. I’m over sixty now and my friends complain constantly about the lack of sex in their lives. I just smile. I think someone said it was therapeutic to put this in writing. I have to agree.

LBB

 

[rhuarc]

I'm not from Toronto originally, but was assigned there for some work. Usually it required me to stick around a few days. Not knowing anyone, it got quite boring in the evenings. So I started exploring the city. One of my favorite things to do was simply walk down Yonge Street. Well, after walking by the Brass Rail about a dozen times, I finally stopped in. I think this was back in 2008/09. I went loaded with cash and probably got dances from a dozen girls. But one dancer named Emma really stood out. She was on the older side, in her mid to late 30s, but she had the best pair of boobs I've probably ever seen, even to this day! And she knew how to use them.

Well, going to strip clubs became a hobby for the next several years. I graduated from Brass Rail to Pure Gold, Cannonball and, once the aggressive attitude of the Cannonball ladies started getting to me, eventually Fairbanks, where I spent an ungodly amount of money! After a couple years of attending Fairbanks fairly regularly, I was getting bored of the whole routine. I knew of MPs, thanks to my various research of stripper reviews and their close association. Perla was the top massage chain in 2014, from what I could tell, so one day after an early visit to Fairbanks, I booked an appointment with Lindsey. Well, the rest is history. I've been stuck in the hobby ever since!

 

[johnbuyba]

I'm not from Toronto originally, but was assigned there for some work. Usually it required me to stick around a few days. Not knowing anyone, it got quite boring in the evenings. So I started exploring the city. One of my favorite things to do was simply walk down Yonge Street. Well, after walking by the Brass Rail about a dozen times, I finally stopped in. I think this was back in 2008/09. I went loaded with cash and probably got dances from a dozen girls. But one dancer named Emma really stood out. She was on the older side, in her mid to late 30s, but she had the best pair of boobs I've probably ever seen, even to this day! And she knew how to use them.

Well, going to strip clubs became a hobby for the next several years. I graduated from Brass Rail to Pure Gold, Cannonball and, once the aggressive attitude of the Cannonball ladies started getting to me, eventually Fairbanks, where I spent an ungodly amount of money! After a couple years of attending Fairbanks fairly regularly, I was getting bored of the whole routine. I knew of MPs, thanks to my various research of stripper reviews and their close association. Perla was the top massage chain in 2014, from what I could tell, so one day after an early visit to Fairbanks, I booked an appointment with Lindsey. Well, the rest is history. I've been stuck in the hobby ever since!

were you getting FS from strip clubs back then or just lapdances? Sounds like a lot of money to blow just for dances lol

 

[sy barite]

Hmmm...some of these stories seem a bit fishy. I mean...you walk into purple sugar and get to the point where you're on the table before you realize you're not in for conventional therapy?

Anyhow...I'm 55 now, and I've been hobbying since I was 17. Yup, I know. I honestly believe it kinda ruined me in some ways, but to this day...it continues to give me an unparalleled thrill.
Back in 1980 I was working my second summer in construction with my dad and I use to hear the older more experience guys joke with each other about how "whores". You know, they'd kid each about how they were probably going out with a girl they'd found on the track. I asked what the track was and they told me it was the area downtown bounded by church, jarvis, queen and wellesley.

Well, I had a girlfriend, but she was a strict catholic and try as I might, I couldn't get past feeling her up and rubbing her pussy through her panties. She'd get wet, but always stop me. I'm sure you guys remember what it's like to be horny and seventeen. Even the fire hydrants weren't same around me. The knowledge that there were women out there who'd suck my cock for $30.00 (that was the starting rate back then), was so exciting to me, I could hardly see straight. On my first attempt, I went down and looked around the Filmores hotel. Bingo, I saw saw a pair of women, probably in their 40s, tight dresses and stockings (I'm still a sucker for pantyhose and stockings), heavy makeup, big guts pushing out under massive tits. I realize now they were horribly ugly...but my dick didn't care. I couldn't work up the nerve to approach them on foot, and had no idea what would happen if I did. It must've looked so funny. This skinny 17 year old with an obvious boner hanging around these old frumpy tarts. Anyway, they eventually went for coffee and I followed. Construction paid well, and my attempt at picking them up amounted putting a $100.00 bill on the table and looking at them suggestively. I was so offensive and lucky that they didn't kick me in the balls. Instead, one of them got up, came over and said, "sonny, put your money away, you're too young".

After that, I realized I had to have my own car, and I got the perfect vehicle for street sex, a 68 Ford Catalina. Bench seats. It cost me $600.00 and had a good bit of rust, but I fixed it up. Thing would probably be worth money today. I started driving around at night, but still got rejected. My first "successful" encounter almost put me off the game for life. A drunk, smelly unwashed indigenous woman saw me drive around the same block about fifty times scoping out the talent and when I stopped behind another car at Pembroke and Gerrard, she opened the passenger door, jumped in, and said she'd "really drag on your cock" for $40.00. I was repulsed...but desperate. We parked, I lowered my shorts, but she leaned over but the smell of urine, sweat, booze and tobacco was too much. I went limp and told her I'd changed my mind. She took the money and got out, I didn't try to stop her. The weekend after that, in the same spot I drove around the corner...and almost drove into a hydro post. There, was a vision from my dreams. A black girl, tall, killer tight figure, huge boobs, tight red dress and red nylons. She was so hot I almost came in the car. I drove around twice more, looking at her and she eyed me cooly. On the third circuit, terrified that someone else would scoop her, I stopped. She just got in, looked at me, shook her head and said, "You got $60.00?". I would have give her the car. We drove to a secluded spot, she pulled out my dick, and I shot into her manicured exquisite hand. She started to get angry, but then laughed. I laughed too and stammered it was my first time. She said, "no shit?" Bambi turned out to be really nice. She was only two years older than me. I saw her regularly after that, and she made a man of me. Taught me to fuck.

After that, MPs started to open up. My favourites were and are the Russian/Euro places, even though there aren't many left these days. Today on my second (happy) marriage, but I can't stop the occasional visit. It's in my blood.

 

[rhuarc]

were you getting FS from strip clubs back then or just lapdances? Sounds like a lot of money to blow just for dances lol

There was additional fun to be had in a lot of cases, but not always. Having never tried an MPA or SP back then, I didn't know any better. And I was younger then and liked the atmosphere: the music, the tease, the hunt, etc.

 

[rhuarc]

Hmmm...some of these stories seem a bit fishy. I mean...you walk into purple sugar and get to the point where you're on the table before you realize you're not in for conventional therapy?

Anyhow...I'm 55 now, and I've been hobbying since I was 17. Yup, I know. I honestly believe it kinda ruined me in some ways, but to this day...it continues to give me an unparalleled thrill.
Back in 1980 I was working my second summer in construction with my dad and I use to hear the older more experience guys joke with each other about how "whores". You know, they'd kid each about how they were probably going out with a girl they'd found on the track. I asked what the track was and they told me it was the area downtown bounded by church, jarvis, queen and wellesley.

Well, I had a girlfriend, but she was a strict catholic and try as I might, I couldn't get past feeling her up and rubbing her pussy through her panties. She'd get wet, but always stop me. I'm sure you guys remember what it's like to be horny and seventeen. Even the fire hydrants weren't same around me. The knowledge that there were women out there who'd suck my cock for $30.00 (that was the starting rate back then), was so exciting to me, I could hardly see straight. On my first attempt, I went down and looked around the Filmores hotel. Bingo, I saw saw a pair of women, probably in their 40s, tight dresses and stockings (I'm still a sucker for pantyhose and stockings), heavy makeup, big guts pushing out under massive tits. I realize now they were horribly ugly...but my dick didn't care. I couldn't work up the nerve to approach them on foot, and had no idea what would happen if I did. It must've looked so funny. This skinny 17 year old with an obvious boner hanging around these old frumpy tarts. Anyway, they eventually went for coffee and I followed. Construction paid well, and my attempt at picking them up amounted putting a $100.00 bill on the table and looking at them suggestively. I was so offensive and lucky that they didn't kick me in the balls. Instead, one of them got up, came over and said, "sonny, put your money away, you're too young".

After that, I realized I had to have my own car, and I got the perfect vehicle for street sex, a 68 Ford Catalina. Bench seats. It cost me $600.00 and had a good bit of rust, but I fixed it up. Thing would probably be worth money today. I started driving around at night, but still got rejected. My first "successful" encounter almost put me off the game for life. A drunk, smelly unwashed indigenous woman saw me drive around the same block about fifty times scoping out the talent and when I stopped behind another car at Pembroke and Gerrard, she opened the passenger door, jumped in, and said she'd "really drag on your cock" for $40.00. I was repulsed...but desperate. We parked, I lowered my shorts, but she leaned over but the smell of urine, sweat, booze and tobacco was too much. I went limp and told her I'd changed my mind. She took the money and got out, I didn't try to stop her. The weekend after that, in the same spot I drove around the corner...and almost drove into a hydro post. There, was a vision from my dreams. A black girl, tall, killer tight figure, huge boobs, tight red dress and red nylons. She was so hot I almost came in the car. I drove around twice more, looking at her and she eyed me cooly. On the third circuit, terrified that someone else would scoop her, I stopped. She just got in, looked at me, shook her head and said, "You got $60.00?". I would have give her the car. We drove to a secluded spot, she pulled out my dick, and I shot into her manicured exquisite hand. She started to get angry, but then laughed. I laughed too and stammered it was my first time. She said, "no shit?" Bambi turned out to be really nice. She was only two years older than me. I saw her regularly after that, and she made a man of me. Taught me to fuck.

After that, MPs started to open up. My favourites were and are the Russian/Euro places, even though there aren't many left these days. Today on my second (happy) marriage, but I can't stop the occasional visit. It's in my blood.

Now there's a tale!

 

[luvasians]

A boner and some cash

 

[johnbuyba]

Hmmm...some of these stories seem a bit fishy. I mean...you walk into purple sugar and get to the point where you're on the table before you realize you're not in for conventional therapy?

it was my first time ever stepping in any spa. never knew about any of this stuff prior

 

[Deleted member 62526]

Mine actually started in somewhere in SE Asia.

It was a legit spa, sorta. Started off in a sauna room where you sweated your ass off, next was the cold room where some guy scrubbed you down with a brush, I kid you not. Then went into a relaxation room with tea, whisky and fresh fruits. Then a girl came to get you. She was in a t-shirt and shorts. She flashed me, allowed me to lick her nipples after a short massage. Finished me with a HJ. All in all, it was about $40 CAD with tip.

Came back to Canada, looked it up and found Steeles Royal somehow. I worked on my feet a lot as a photographer so after a 14 hour day, decided to take the plunge. Lee, this Asian chick at SRM was my first. Been going ever since, 2 times a month.

 

[T Bickle]

I used to hang around Filmore’s in the late 80s. I even dated a couple of lovely young girls from there. 4 if memory serves me. I moved to a couple of other cities and investigated the strip club and street scene in all of them. I never dated anyone from these other cities. When I came back to Toronto, the strip club scene was getting stale and full of drug addicts. None of the girls ever appealed to me, except one, but I didn’t see her outside the club. Eventually I tried a massage parlour. It was strictly legit, but all the girls were really young and gave great massages. I spent a lot of money every week, but loved it. I dipped into the holistic side, but never found a place to equal that one. There have been a couple of wonderful young ladies at legit places whom I have gotten to know well. Eventually I got premium services from them at these legit places. Most have moved on, much to my disappointment. It’s been a good go, but I hobby less and less in the last year. Almost not at all after last spring.