Have you taken a MPA out on a date?

[Deleted member 61787]

Any one date mpa

 

[despite_the_love]

Haha dude I'm also trying the same. Never brought it up though. I wonder if age is a factor?

 

[Sammitt]

Many indy SP's offer these services, some agencies do too. I feel like a girl working at a spa doesn't want to bother with arrangements and business relationships outside of the spa, that's why they're there. The SP route would bear more fruit for you.

 

[karlcox]

You’re paying them in the spa, of course they’re going to act like they like you. They want you to come back and pay them again, and again. What you perceive as chemistry is what they would call acting.

It’s also possible that they may be dating people in the real world already.

If you want an escort, just get an escort.

 

[Justice34]

I've connected with a couple girls that don't ask to get paid after our session. I just grab food with them, her place or mine and we smash all night. We are close in age though.

 

[Squad]

Mixing business and pleasure is a recipe for some disaster..... yours or hers.

 

[ChubbyGuy]

Already mentioned by others....

Most MPAs want to keep their private and working life separate....

If the chemistry is real, I would bet that at least one of them would go out with you.

Did you just ask them out sincerely (without mentioning money) or did you offer to take them out by paying them?

 

[Dotanuki]

Short answer. Yes. Just dinner on 2 occasions.

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[avg guy]

Well I was going to pay them for there time outside as well .... yes if they already are seeing someone or just have a principle not to mix business with pleasure that be understandable. Getting an escort ... already done that but not connected to many sp now days.

Not sure who the two are that you have connected to but some MPAs also are SPs. If this is the case with your 2 fav (if you haven't asked them) then there you have it. If they don't partake in both, you might want to find out who does and get new favorites.

 

[everythingiswarm]

I had one ask me out to dinner many years ago, after about our 3rd session. She was exactly half my age at the time. That was about 15yrs ago. She paid for dinner, and we dated for about a year and a half.

Similar experience to this, her and I were similar ages though. I had seen her at least a dozen times and she asked if she could give me her number. We got along really well, went to lunch, and dated for a couple years.

 

[rxxxryan]

I have few regular mpas that I see and
always treat them like a gentleman. I am not a guy who likes to see different girl everytime, rather find the one I get along with and have a good chemistry with and keep her as my regular. That helps build the chemistry more and I come out with a bigger smile everytime

I would love to take them out and treat them like a princess.....Dinner drinks and hotel. I work very hard and would love to have a good company for the evening rather then go to a spa and finish the party in 45 mins.

I have tried to take two of my regular mpas out, that I know for sometime, but was never successful. I am just not sure why or what am I doing wrong. I do know we have a good time together, I would be paying for her time ( hopefully some what discounted), FS is already on the table , so going out to hotel would not be any different, she would actually not have to work with all the men that day. Not sure what am I doing wrong or why they would MPA not go out after knowing the client for sometime.

I am wondering if anyone has managed to take an MPA out ? If yes, how much did you pay ?

Would love to here from mpas on this board ? Suggestion , tips or concerns

The key is to be attractive, don't be unattractive.

Most of these girls want a young good looking guy to party with, they already make great money. More than likely the type of guys these girls date look completely opposite from what you look like

 

[Dongo]

I was seeing a regular some 5 years ago. After a while, we would go on day trips for lunch or dinner, or just a drive in the country. She was unattached and although there was a large age difference, we did a lot of fun things. I never paid her extra, just paid for any expenses. I often went to her place to watch a movie and we made out, occasionally staying over.
Eventually, the relationship faded. A couple of years later, she got married and had a child. Sweet woman, I will always remember her and the fun times we had.

 

[ChubbyGuy]

If the OP wants some tips....he'll have to write some details on how he asked the ladies out. Did you offer money or did you sincerely ask them out? Maybe the way you asked them out didn't agree with them???

I went out with an MPA who was 20 years younger than me...I was sincere when I asked her out (didn't mention money).

Again as mentioned by others, it's their job to create a fantasy, chemistry etc.. to get you to come back and come back.....

 

[hectorc]

Don't do it. The real danger is you can't tell genuine chemistry from acting from the MPA, and your regular life will be destroyed. It's better you look for real love.

 

[imthedude]

Yeah every now and then I go through this and I have to stop myself. Clicked REALLY well with a SP last night and I know things are on a dangerous path when I'm suggesting social time. The thing of it is, she was dropping hints left and right that she'd like to spend time with me out of the context. I will probably see her again, but play down the prospect of...shall we say blurring the lines.

 

[IronHearted]

You just paid for sex, now you want to pay for food. Go get yourself a Filippino wife.

 

[Woody Womb Pecker]

Short answer... they're just not that into you.

A lot of MPAs have customers they like seeing at the spa ("like" being a relative term when comparing their customers) but have absolutely ZERO interest in seeing outside the spa. In other words, this is a job to them and you are a customer. They don't want a "normal" relationship with you anymore than they want to be asked out for private drinks by their boss.

There's a boundary between personal life and fantasy life and when the girl doesn't want to cross that boundary it's time to move on, or consider whether MP's are really the place you should be trying to pick up women.

My experiences outside the spa have all been initiated by the girls and IMO that's the way it should be.

 

[ChubbyGuy]

I don't think the OP is looking for a girlfriend...at least I hope not cause that is going about it the wrong way.

 

[MNB18]

The MPA was my dear girl friend within that 40 minutes. After that................

Out of the fantasy land.

 

[Steeper]

There just girls go out and have some fun,what ever happen happens.A lot of MPAs have spa husbands who tipped good and give them seasonal gift but nothing outside of the spa