Hey Kawailuvr, there is no need for anyone to rip anyone as everyone is entitled to their opinions and it is ok to agree to disagree with various things, and the whole dating, seeing outside the spa thing is a mind field at best as many know. At the end of the day, every person is responsible for their own actions, and there is a lot of married, committed men out there that go to spa's, and hopefully they are responsible enough to take the appropriate precautions to not be infested with something and bring it home.
So, why do men get involved with these woman outside the spa knowing what goes on in their line of work? No one has the right answers to justify the rationale how a man you could fall in love with a sex worker who see's tons of men on a weekly basis. What, Sex? Money? the thrill? loneliness? .. everyone has their reasons but a fuckin married man or a man in a long/short term relationship with a civie woman, who is on the verge of leaving everything for a sex worker is just fucked up as he is just setting him self up for a disastrous finale. From the MPA side of things, if you know your client is married and wants to leave his family, life, to have a life with you why the fuck would you encourage that for if you are seeing guys outside the spa, not including the dicks you have inside the spa??? These sex workers should have more class, and simply discourage this, and cut the guy off completely and tell him to go home to his wife and kids or whoever ..