EXTREME Newbie, need advice please.

[daniella.perla]

Thank you for the suggestion, however, I'm not looking specifically for an Asian MPA. I'm looking for someone that fits the description or is a close fit to the description I've provided above. I've seen a lot of great feedback on Daniella but to be honest I'm a bit intimidated by her experience to walk in as a first timer with no experience & tell her that

Intimidated by me?
I like first timer.

 

[Roman]

Thank you for the suggestion, however, I'm not looking specifically for an Asian MPA. I'm looking for someone that fits the description or is a close fit to the description I've provided above. I've seen a lot of great feedback on Daniella but to be honest I'm a bit intimidated by her experience to walk in as a first timer with no experience & tell her that

Don't be shy about seeing Daniella. She is a nice lady and will treat you right. These ladies have seen it all.

 

[playfulfun]

Thank you for the suggestion, however, I'm not looking specifically for an Asian MPA. I'm looking for someone that fits the description or is a close fit to the description I've provided above. I've seen a lot of great feedback on Daniella but to be honest I'm a bit intimidated by her experience to walk in as a first timer with no experience & tell her that

Intimidated by me?
I like first timer.

I would recommend Daniella as the perfect lady for a 1st timer. She will treat you right.

 

[Ursus]

I recommend Daniella for an experienced hobbyist like me and for a 1st timer. I recommend Daniella for anyone that wants #1.

She is like a dream girl that is real, with a combo of sexiness and GND attributes.

In other words, she is penis approved.

 

[Niceguy123]

Intimidated by me?
I like first timer.

I'm not intimidated by you per say, its more so the fact that I'm intimidated by your experience. Not sure if you read my post or not, but, I've not only never done this type of thing before but I've also never been intimate with a woman before so I'm a complete first timer if you get what I'm trying to say. People have great reviews about you, so I'm sure you're a great person & will be okay with guiding me throughout the session I was just wondering if it would be okay for me to ask you about a few more personal questions? It would be about the session in a private message as I'm not confident enough to ask those questions on the forum setting for others to see as well.

Don't be shy about seeing Daniella. She is a nice lady and will treat you right. These ladies have seen it all.

I'm not shy about seeing her, I'm more so nervous about the fact that I've never been intimate with a woman before & a lack of experience on my behalf could make things embarrassing for me in the session. To be honest, I also have no clue how much to take, who to give the $ to & other personal questions that I'd like to ask Daniella rather than post on the forum & embarrass myself with.

 

[LostInnocence]

Daniella is very good and will make a first-timer very comfortable. Jennifer's another one who will make you feel very much at ease on your first visit.

 

[Ursus]

Just an fyi, most sex-workers, although they have volume, don't have good experience. Most sex workers are terrible at sex. Because most guys don't tell a sex worker when they are doing a poor job.

Every girlfriend I have had has performed better for me than any sex worker, EXCEPT Tgirl sex-workers. Tgril sex workers have great skill. But, you probably aren't interested in a tgirl.

 

[LostInnocence]

Lacey's a sweet, younger girl, very beautiful, low-intensity session. She'll ask you to give her a massage to start out. So she's another alternative.

Whoever you choose, don't be afraid to talk to her and tell her what you want to do. The worst thing you can do is lie there and make her guess, and then feel disappointed when she doesn't figure it out.

Have your shower and really clean up, relax, and take it slow.

 

[Ursus]

A sex worker is equivalent to eating at MCDs. Not good for you, not really as enjoyable as you thought, not very presentable, kind of makes you feel bad after, but when you are hungry and in the mood, they are everywhere and very convenient to enter.

On the other hand, if you own a MCD, it can be very lucrative. If you 'own' a sex-worker, it will destroy you financially and leave you with stress and heartache.

My advice: Don't hobby. If you do, don't ever make friends with a sex-worker. There is a reason a girl becomes a sex-worker, usually because she is extremely lacking in good character.

 

[LostInnocence]

A sex worker is equivalent to eating at MCDs. Not good for you, not really as enjoyable as you thought, not very presentable, kind of makes you feel bad after, but when you are hungry and in the mood, they are everywhere and very convenient to enter.

On the other hand, if you own a MCD, it can be very lucrative. If you 'own' a sex-worker, it will destroy you financially and leave you with stress and heartache.

My advice: Don't hobby. If you do, don't ever make friends with a sex-worker. There is a reason a girl becomes a sex-worker, usually because she is extremely lacking in good character.

I like the characters of many of them. Besides, how can you say they have any worse character than their clients? We're all sinning, by the Bible, but they're at least putting bread on the table.

 

[Niceguy123]

I appreciate all of your advice, honestly, I do. As I mentioned before though, I'd like to talk to Daniella about specifics as it is my first time & I have no clue what the heck I'm doing, I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable & want her to know what to expect going in to the session as I have literally ZERO experience with a woman as far as sexual contact goes NOT even kissing, I've literally only gone as far as to watch straight porn & what the female body looks like / does. I do get off to it just as I'm sure many of you do, so I ONLY know what my guy is capable of & so I just want to make sure she's aware of my specific "special" situation before I schedule an appointment with her.

 

[daniella.perla]

I'm not intimidated by you per say, its more so the fact that I'm intimidated by your experience. Not sure if you read my post or not, but, I've not only never done this type of thing before but I've also never been intimate with a woman before so I'm a complete first timer if you get what I'm trying to say. People have great reviews about you, so I'm sure you're a great person & will be okay with guiding me throughout the session I was just wondering if it would be okay for me to ask you about a few more personal questions? It would be about the session in a private message as I'm not confident enough to ask those questions on the forum setting for others to see as well.



I'm not shy about seeing her, I'm more so nervous about the fact that I've never been intimate with a woman before & a lack of experience on my behalf could make things embarrassing for me in the session. To be honest, I also have no clue how much to take, who to give the $ to & other personal questions that I'd like to ask Daniella rather than post on the forum & embarrass myself with.

Sure!

 

[playfulfun]

I appreciate all of your advice, honestly, I do. As I mentioned before though, I'd like to talk to Daniella about specifics as it is my first time & I have no clue what the heck I'm doing, I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable & want her to know what to expect going in to the session as I have literally ZERO experience with a woman as far as sexual contact goes NOT even kissing, I've literally only gone as far as to watch straight porn & what the female body looks like / does. I do get off to it just as I'm sure many of you do, so I ONLY know what my guy is capable of & so I just want to make sure she's aware of my specific "special" situation before I schedule an appointment with her.

Great Idea.
I am sure she is the best person to ask.

 

[IronHearted]

I appreciate all of your advice, honestly, I do. As I mentioned before though, I'd like to talk to Daniella about specifics as it is my first time & I have no clue what the heck I'm doing, I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable & want her to know what to expect going in to the session as I have literally ZERO experience with a woman as far as sexual contact goes NOT even kissing, I've literally only gone as far as to watch straight porn & what the female body looks like / does. I do get off to it just as I'm sure many of you do, so I ONLY know what my guy is capable of & so I just want to make sure she's aware of my specific "special" situation before I schedule an appointment with her.

You don't need to discuss sex with a woman before having sex with her. Sex is intuitive - you have a hard rock, you see a pink hole, just jam it in there and start pumping like what you did with right hand hundreds of times before. Of course it takes practice to get good at it.

For your first time, I'd say book an escort, make sure she's one of those that has face pictures (such as Raven @ Courtesan Escort) and you find her attractive, otherwise it's guessing game. You don't want your first time to be on a silly massage table. Plus most massage parlour women will only blow you with a condom on, there's no fun in that, and most of them Asian ones won't kiss you either.

Book a full hour, which gives you plenty of time for foreplay, I'd start with kissing and tits sucking and groping, followed by some pussy eating (if you sense odor, stop, it's gonna kill your mood), I usually push her legs up to expose her butthole, if that asshole is nice and clean, I would ask her to bend over and start licking her asshole like a dog in heat, don't feel embarrassed, women love their assholes licked. Of course, not all women are ok with bending over for tongue, especially the young ones. Then I would ask for a standing blowjob with the girl kneeling in front of me. I usually ask them to look me in the eyes while licking my cock like a lollipop, it's a big turn on. I like standing because if you're lying down with your dick facing the ceiling, it's hard for blood to flow upwards, and if you're nervous, you may not get the hard on you want. When your dick is fully erect, as for condom, and let her put it on, then you know the rest. My favourite thing is to pound girls from behind facing a mirror, I make sure their arms are spread so I can see their tits dangling back and forth.

 

[LostInnocence]

I'm going to give you a different opinion.

First, click on Daniella's avatar above and send her a PM and chat with her. She's easy to talk to. Yes, she's a Legend, but she became a Legend by making people comfortable. She talks to people, gets to know them, shares things about herself. A lot of attendants have their personna when they come to the spa - you know that none of them use their real names, right?

Second, book a session with Daniella. I think she works three day shifts and Monday night. (Lost, don't be lazy, look it up...) She works day shifts Thursday, Friday, and Saturday,and she works Monday evening/night. Figure out what time of day you want to go, and book early in the day a week ahead of the day you want to meet her. Call at 10AM.

Third, when you meet her in session, take it slow. Ask her what you want her to do, or ask her what she usually does and pick what sounds good. (Hint: she likes using oil.) But I'd recommend not picking everything the first time. Go step by step. Enjoy the first session, which you will find amazing even if you do very little, because very little is a whole lot more than nothing. And then go back again and take the next step beyond that.

There are about 100 girls working at Premier, and lots of other spas out there. Daniella's a must-see, but after you have seen her, you might want to see her again, or you might want to try something different - like a blonde or an Asian or a spinner. And then you can go back to Daniella again. It's not like in high school where you go steady, break up, and can't see your ex again. (I say that as if I had a girlfriend in high school. Nope.) You might appreciate Daniella more after you've seen someone else.

Here's the main thing: do what you are comfortable with, and do it at the pace you are comfortable. There's no rush. And it goes without saying that Daniella's where you should start. But definitely see her in June.

 

[Ursus]

If the OP is that nervous and needs this much coaching, he really should just stay at home and hug his mother. The first time I visited a sex worker, I booked the top girl, I then drove to Toronto, yelled at her to keep our agreed upon appt time and not back out, and then I fucked her well. We went out to eat lunch after the appt and her and I became 'friends'.

Don't be a sissy girl bitch. Men went to war and fought against the Nazis when they were only 18 years old. And supposedly, you are too scared to book a pretty girl for sex?

Ridiculous. Stop being a little girl bitch.

 

[LostInnocence]

Where else will you ever get such a wide variety of opinions expressed so eloquently?

 

[DickSlinger]

If the OP is that nervous and needs this much coaching, he really should just stay at home and hug his mother. The first time I visited a sex worker, I booked the top girl, I then drove to Toronto, yelled at her to keep our agreed upon appt time and not back out, and then I fucked her well. We went out to eat lunch after the appt and her and I became 'friends'.

Don't be a sissy girl bitch. Men went to war and fought against the Nazis when they were only 18 years old. And supposedly, you are too scared to book a pretty girl for sex?

Ridiculous. Stop being a little girl bitch.

He shouldn't even go. He says he just wants bj but he will be horny and go for FS then cry later.

 

[papaya]

If the OP is that nervous and needs this much coaching, he really should just stay at home and hug his mother. The first time I visited a sex worker, I booked the top girl, I then drove to Toronto, yelled at her to keep our agreed upon appt time and not back out, and then I fucked her well. We went out to eat lunch after the appt and her and I became 'friends'.

Don't be a sissy girl bitch. Men went to war and fought against the Nazis when they were only 18 years old. And supposedly, you are too scared to book a pretty girl for sex?

Ridiculous. Stop being a little girl bitch.

Those soldiers who have fought against the Nazis....they have my respect.

Back to topic: If you are scared or intimidated, keep in mind we are NOT a bunch of psychologists. (I am assuming here.) Do you think our advice will make you more confident? Geeez!

 

[topo112]

Take it easy with the newbie guys, some people are brought up in very uptight religious homes that makes ,what should be a natural act, a stressful event. Don't worry guy, i think before you do anything mayor just go for the massage with hand job first, if you like Daniella then go for something else the second time, i would suggest just bbbj, and the third time go for fs.