Poll Do you talk about the hobby in real life?

[sy barite]

Nope...and I am uncomfortable with the hypocrisy. I've just learned to live with it.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Its common for guys to openly talk about going to the strip club where it was very common to get your shlong gagged on by a stripper for a little extra cash, but for some reason talking about seeing someone specifically for transactional sex still gets looked down on by certain people. Tried talking about it in the past with people who I don't speak to anymore and the results were all negative so I don't really bother with it now.

Agreed. I'd rather just play it safe and not mention it to anyone, instead of taking a risk. Why even think about telling someone? Nobody needs to know other people's business. It won't do any good either way, so why bother? The only thing that can happen, and this would be highly unlikely scenario, is if you die of a heart attack or something, while you're at a Sex Spa, or you drop dead at a hotel room with a sex provider. But at least you won't need to explain anything, because you won't be there.

 

[hookerpuncher]

This sounds like a group of chumps looking for friends.

I foresee you guys chilling at the Tim Hortons beside the MPs talking about your sad lives.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

This sounds like a group of chumps looking for friends.

I foresee you guys chilling at the Tim Hortons beside the MPs talking about your sad lives.

Who hurt you baby?

 

[snoopdoggie]

Yes I do and am open about it. It's easy to do when you're single. In recent years, I've noticed that more and more single people that I know, including my best friend, have been openly discussing this. Most of the stories have been about seeing independent escorts or stripper hook-ups. People freely discuss their trips to the titty bar. Why not just let the cat out of the bag???

My family knows it as well but I avoid discussing it because I don't want to hear another rah rah speech about fiscal responsibility. It's also revolting to hear a family member go into detail about any type of sexual escapade. Though I was shocked to hear my brother, out of nowhere during breakfast, talk about how his close buddy from university was a regular at Club Dynasty.

Well at least Club Dynasty only does handjobs. Isn't that part of a full body massage?

 

[Deyannis]

What I do is push limits at the spa. If a woman does it at premier or seduction then I feel she would do it in my personal life. Surprisingly this proved 100% true and my girlfriend enjoyed the sudden inventiveness/confidence of our intimacy. I didn’t realize how much she enjoyed me taking total control of our intimate time. What I want is what she gives and the more I take charge the more she seems to enjoy it. Example? Making out on the sofa, dropping my pants and telling her exactly what I want and how I want it. She always complies. Is very turned on. This new me is what I learned at the spa. Every lady likes to believe they have a porn star sexuality. React to that accordingly.

 

[Hornet]

I’ve told people about spas like Dynasty or the more semi-legit types spas that also get a decent flow of women clientele. Hot Rocks Sauna comes to mind as one I might have mentioned. But generally I’d just tell people about legit spas like Hand & Stone because they have multiple locations. But I never mention the bodyrubs.

 

[jzburner]

A guy I work with made me aware of the hobby. If I am going to someone new where my organs may get harvested I tell him my location, then if I don't check in with him within three hours he is to call the cops.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

A guy I work with made me aware of the hobby. If I am going to someone new where my organs may get harvested I tell him my location, then if I don't check in with him within three hours he is to call the cops.

That usually does not happen to me.

 

[Victor Charlie]

No because i'm an incel loner and even if i told someone from work seeing whores on a regular, they wouldn't believe me anyways.. Now, if I was someone who was working in the porn industry that's another story tell but I'd tried my damndest in keeping it silent. That includes no social media watsoever.

 

[xtc27]

No because i'm an incel loner and even if i told someone from work seeing whores on a regular, they wouldn't believe me anyways.. Now, if I was someone who was working in the porn industry that's another story tell but I'd tried my damndest in keeping it silent. That includes no social media watsoever.

Um…. Incels don’t c whores… whores = the cure 4 celibacy… one visit & u leave the club!

 

[kittyhound69]

Why do people constantly call these girls whores ?

 

[Apolyton]

Why do people constantly call these girls whores ?

Probably to cover their shame.

 

[kittyhound69]

 

[daty869]

I think we could (mostly) all be good buddies, I’m pretty certain that we could get a golf tournament set up for next year and get a course for an afternoon. Then we could get massage sessions as prizes for 144 people at 6 pm in Markham or Scarborough, for those with sore muscles of course. On course activities could be sponsored by the spas and they could promote their location to enthusiasts for the day. Pretty good business plan now that I think about it. We could charge them for show their stuff for a change.

 

[imthedude]

Um…. Incels don’t c whores… whores = the cure 4 celibacy… one visit & u leave the club!

That's a pretty technical definition; most incels are frustrated because they can't find a partner, which is not what a sex worker is.

 

[imthedude]

Some of my friends know; most are not that interested. A few are curious about my experiences.

 

[daty869]

I agree. Can you imagine people putting a label on you, and looking at you a different way from that point on? It's almost like having a close sexual relationship with a co-worker. I had a couple of them tell me that they would probably be too embarrassed to work with me again.

Last two lines is the story of about 20 years and 4 companies I worked with. Also have contributed to numerous HR manual revisions.

 

[BmH6769]

When the movie eventually gets made which actor would you like to play you?

I think Jim Carry would be a good one

 

[FullSend]

Only talk to one of my friends about it IRL. He's not in the hobby but he's curious. Otherwise no.