Do any of you have Regulars in TJ ??

[Fall time!!]

Look in the mirror. But your finger and thumb in the shape of an L on your forehead, and repeat the PLM mantra.

"I, state your name, am a Pathetic Loser Monger. I swear I will let a whore treat me as her personal door mat. I will fetch her laundry from the cleaners. I will baby sit her kids. I will loan her money. Further more, I will never actually engage in sex with her because of the following reasons. She's not like that, it's different, you don't understand we have a thing, she's not ready to fuck my brains out becasue she cares too much for me. But she will suck off the garbage man and he will dump his seed down her throat and that's OK becasue.. she's not like that, it's different...."

Anyway you get the idea.

 

[Pompal 09.]

YES- you are a PLM...

 

[June Dafina May]

Just like 25% of the Girls are Nymphomaniacs...

 

[Annamazing.!]

We've all seen them in the strip clubs. The dumb ass who gives the strippers back rubs, picks up their laundry, or goes out to bring them dinner at the strip club, and here is the best part....he talks to them involving himself in their problems and trys to help. ROFLMFAO!

I thinkk the PLM is part horn dog, part social worker. If you repeat these phrases..you to may be a PLM.

1) She's not like that.
2) It's different with her.
3) She's working through a hard time.
4) We have a thing, I think I'm winning her over.
5) I'm just loaning her money because I'm a friend.

 

[U.S.Veteran]

I always expect a deep, meaningful emotional attachment with every professional I hire -- oh, for about an hour or so ...

 

[Animal Craze]

I hate the term friends with benefits, that is a PLM term. #1) don't confuse her being friendly with you being friends because you are not. #2) She is a whore that you want to spent too much time with and since you can't fuck 24/7, you are going to hire her as a tour guide and go sight seeing?

You have a GF, that's great.
You fuck whores, that's great too.
Expecting an emotional attachment with a professional = PLM

 

[CLIFF G]

This doesn't enter into the realm of PLM according to my definition. But if after some time, a request comes for money to pay for her father's operation ...

 

[Jerry Toad]

Hey gents, first let me clarify my position and sorry for such a delay in between post. I have just been very busy. First off, I am not looking to get married to this chica or anything like that, well at least not now. I have a GF and she beautiful and would be a great wife and mother, but at the moment I am just not ready to settle down right now, not to mention she wouldn’t do some of the things that I want to try, like anal, the prettier they are the more high maintenance they are, but I digress. I am in my mid 20s and I usually go to SD for conferences and meetings, etc. and I would like from time to time go to MEX and I would like to feel safe by having a local take me around town and different parts of Baja and some physical intimacy wouldn’t hurt either.
As for if I would feel disgusted with the fact that she is an escort? That she would have sex with other men? I definitely would not! In High School and my early 20s I fucked girls that probably had 50-100 partners by the time they turned 22, and that’s what makes them great fucks. I think in this day and age most girls that are in my age range pretty much do what escorts do, so call it the feminist movement or what not, but I really don’t care about how many guys a girl has been with.
To me, if I take my GF or any girl out, it’s going to cost be 100 plus for a night out on the town that would eventually end up in sex (usually). To me, a date would be the time equivalent of having to drive 2plus hours to SD, and the money on an escort would be comparable to going out for a night, but without the risk of getting caught for cheating. I just basically want a friends with benefits in TJ, not to mention a personal Spanish tutor, not to mention she is really cute and funny! OR AM I JUST A PLM?

 

[dull_sux]

Exclusive is out,,,but if you find that cutie with the big ass ,,,or other remarkable skills..."keep it warm" My question is:how do you get past your "favorita" to scout other bush???

 

[Ellis Bontellis]

Wow!...Sounds like a book title (lol) J/K


Good Sh*t though

Spoken like a 'seasoned' monger


Firm

 

[Jessica Rabbit 7 ???????]

Seriously ask yourself something, are you ready for alot of drama? Seriously Money corrupts these women once they start the lifestyle of being putas. The psychological effects, not counting what led her to be an escort. Seriously she has no kids, so its not the pure necessity of being a single mother. Look at her character she has choosen the path of easy money and that is a powerful indicator about what she places importance on and where her ambitions are headed, one that many decent good women in Mexico who are beautiful and hard working would never do. Being paid for sex most of the time will dillute how she views men and what kind of relationships to have with them. Can true love come from starting backwards? Typically its knowing someone first, building the chemistry that leads to intimacy. You started backwards, seriously there are too many beautiful awesome women in Mexico especially deeper in that can truly fall in love with a foreign man that treats them right. Now this is not to say that you may be the exception to the rule, there are always exceptions to the rules, there might be a spark of chemistry and who knows maybe she truly digs you. But know this the odds are not good, and could you really be a confident enough man to know that this women sleeps with guys for money. Holding on to the illusion that she will give that all up just because you ask her too. if you feel you must follow your curiousity to its conclusion, the best way to find out quickly and inexpensively is test her to see if she truly likes you for who you are, not what you have or could give. Take money out of the equation, see how she reacts, if you date her dont sleep with her at first. But seriously follow the advice here and dont play with fire. There are too many women in Mexico, or latin America that are good women if thats what you want. How many times do I see these butt ugly guys who arent even that well off go into Mexico and bring back these really beautiful women that they marry and who make them happy. Hope this post helps,

 

[northernredneck65]

(BTW I like to pick them up like a six pack using the thumb and middle finger)[/[/B]QUOTE]

BEAVER BOWLING

 

[Pompal 09.]

OK imagine me slapping her ass doggie style, hitting it hard. Grabbing her ankles and grinding away. Putting my cock down her throat while I shove fingers inside her. If you can get past that vision knowing that she puts up with that shit day in day out from ass holes from me...and you want to be the shinning white knight to come rescue the poor girl so she will not be hired to be my personal cum bucket.

I'm sure she is a really nice girl getting involved in a bad line of work, are you ready for all the drama? My guess is she will ask you to write to her...holy shit her mother needs an operation and she has no money....OMG her father died and she needs funeral costs paid....Oh no..her pimp/agency is using her as a slave and unless she comes up with several thousand dollars she will have to service more arse holes like me?

It will never work, glad you had a nice time. Move on.

(BTW I like to pick them up like a six pack using the thumb and middle finger)

 

[Angie]

RP, you are following down the path of what is usually called PLM (Pathetic Loser Monger) on these monger boards. What you have to ask yourself is, "What do I want to get out of any relationship that I might have with this woman?" If you search this and other monger boards, you will find that if you want to have a long-term, committed relationship with her, your chances of success are not good. That does not mean the probability of failure is 100%. Just keep your eyes wide open. Search for "PLM" and read the stories of how naive mongers have been taken for costly rides by clever and manipulative chicas. But then again, you may become a "Lucky Guy!" and have the love of a beautiful Latina. If nothing else, you will get to learn Spanish the best way -- en la cama en una almohada (in bed on a pillow). Good Luck!

 

[Khushbakht]

Went to see an escort, got booked for an hour but ended up staying for almost 3 hours, but I only had to pay for the hour. We spent most of the time talking to each other, my SPANISH es poquito to malo at best and she speaks no english at all. She is new to escorting, single and has no children and we hit it off great! Afterwards we went to a get some of the best carne asada tacos I have ever had, and her company was wonderful, even two couples sitting next to us thought that we had been together for a while, and they applaud me for making an effort to communicate in spanish. I want to know if any of you guys have gone thru this on a "date" with a girl, and I find her attractive not just physically, but I also find from this date that she also has a kind heart, and a beautiful smile. I am thinking of asking her out to the beach in a couple of weeks but specifically what kind of outcomes can I expect if I continue this "relationship" or what is it? Just sex? Your years of experience as mongers and owners would greatly be appreciated

 

[`Jana]

When I say extras I mean BBBJTCIM, tittyfuck, anal, DIY and stuff like that. The only barebacking I do in TJ has been the result of a broken rubber. In my opinion if the rubber breaks I am finishing without it. The way I see it, once it breaks I am already exposed to her germs so I might as well at least enjoy it.

I do not recommend barebacking with any professional. If she will do it for you she will probably do it for just about any other guy, too. That makes the odds of catching an STD way too high for my comfort. If I had a girl who I was fairly confident was only doing me bareback, then I would consider it. But, that has never happened to me.

 

[Abdel]

It has been closed, you are probably talking about the taco cart.

 

[hobojo]

The one which was two doors down from Chicago? A couple of seats looking into an open window where they cooked the food? That's the one I like

 

[Finnegan]

i got tacos at the taco stand by CC at least 5 times this past month.

 

[smartk99]

I never made it Club Chicago this year. Fuck me! those were the best tacos