Bringing ktv girl for outing, do I need to tips her?

[awesomeguy]

Once you see the light you will not feel this way anymore, but it's a good experience to have because after the whole thing end, you will be a stronger and better man, I got this girl tried to ask me to sell away my houses and everything and go with her to somewhere far in China and invest in her province....while she was here she would KC me but the moment she went back she disappeared with all my money!!! trust me it's not worth it! You want KC give her weekly allowance then when she show her true colours...fuck her off!

 

[Pompal 09.]

I been KC too by thai girl though. If you got time and $ then keep her as mistress

If not then find another girl to forget this girl. That always work.

 

[Edwin]

100% agreed bro...they will KC us to get as much moni as they could and go back home to feed their husband or xiao lang guo luo...

Almost all my Reviewds fall into the MMs KC trap...myself also like that...

Talk about marriage,baby,house,her business, basically all ways to get funds Reviewom us lah...

Now for me n my Reviewds only have a common practice...PAY AS WE USE...

We think that this is the fairest method as far as her concern of who gain who loss huh...

Cheers...unfit

 

[Pompal 09.]

They work in ktvs for money. If you had met her in different circumstances, there will probably be no money involved.

Just to share.
My regular sitter keeps hinting nowadays to bao her or something; telling me that her customer booked her whole night, brought her to MBS and gave her 1000 dollars budget to gamble. I just kept to myself and nodded. Probably need to change a new sitter soon. Getting bored

Worse, she calls me up at midnight to go down and support her. My oc was sleeping beside me. Luckily, she did not run through my "recieved calls" list, else kenna big time.

Lessons Learned:
1. It is all about money at the end of the day.
Keep it simple, shoot, release, pay, bye
2. Never give KTV gals ur mobile no. If you need to, get another mobile phone.

 

[Eleni]

Agreed, you are just another fish to her, when she finds a bigger fish, she would just dump you and pretend she never knew you at all, when this happens the hurt is really too much to bear, you may become depress and sink deeper and deeper in. One mountain always have one mountain higher. No WL will stay faithful to you, it's all a matter of price. Even for those who insist they don't do ST, if you offer than a few k, they will still do it, there are always old retired man who will pay this kind of money. Don't for a moment think she is exclusive to you, I have seen so many girls, can look so sweet demure and classy but i know who and who had uped them before, and she is just laying the KC trap for the next victim. Of course if you are single or if you family don't mind you fooling around then go ahead, there is a one in a million chance that she loves you and can get married to you, if not, I advise just stick to ST and do not get feelings involved if not ultimately your family and you yourself will be hurt. I was so distracted once by a KC that I actually crash my car because my mind was just thinking all about her while feeling so guilty about the whole thing towards my family. I advise you to either call it off, or keep it as strictly ST.

 

[walking lady RIP Tom]

True true.... Money talks in these places. Very rarely, one will find true love in this places.

Enjoy while it last.

Any watering holes to recommend?

 

[elaine1]

She told me to control myself and not fall I love with her cause I have family. She told me both of us are busy and we can meet once a week if we have time. She also said she felt ashamed working at ktv but it's the only way to support her life and school. Actually she didn't ask for more money Reviewom me. Even going for the holiday with me, I gave her some money and she didn't bargain or whatever.
I started feeling pitiful if her life here. She swore didn't go out with other men and asked me to check around with all the mummy I know. When I asked if she wanted to quit ktv job, she said okay only if I support her and she will be full time for me.

Deep inside, I know this is wrong. I should end it soon. Some bro here mentioned once I do it many times, I will be bored with the same girl. It was true in the past with many ktv and FL I tried, but I never feel bored with this one even after 20 times.

Maybe I should look for another one, then I can slowly forget this one.

 

[cvcastrejon]

sounds like you are going deeper in the KC trap than before.

not "should", not "maybe". you "must" end it asap.

dont think of any if's and buts... the more u think, the more KC'ed you will be. just think of your family bro... dont regret before it's too late.

just another 2 cts of mine.

 

[Just Call Me G]

Probably true love does exist afterall.

Good luck.

 

[Lemon Drop]

Well very rare, but it is possible to find true love, I do have a Reviewen who got happily married....but the problem is...you have a family...so unless you want to give up everything for her then perhaps proceed...if not I advise you to break it off fast before you sink deeper and treasure your family

 

[tommie]

Out of a 100 maybe 10 will find true love ba.I once fall in love with a local ktv girl working in former K3 if bros here know it.I did went out with her and never pay her a cent just that i always go down to book her the whole night if i was there.I only pay all the expense when we went go together ...it was a happy one untill somethings happens and we never contact again. Ts move on with life , think of your family dun ruin it.

 

[Pompal 09.]

The only thing that makes me feel heavy to leave her is that she is so pretty. Where else can I find pretty, young woman who can fulfill all my fantasy.

 

[vampyre4blood]

Bro, u have said it yourself...

You are attracted to her not because you "love" her but because she is young and pretty. Now if she were not young and pretty, I'm very sure you wouldn't be spending so much time and money on her.

Snap out of it and move on. I'm very sure you can find prettier gals in other KTVs...

 

[SirSys]

Very true. I have invested so much time just to get her in the first place. I've been with a few ktv girls and many FL in the past and this one is the only one worth my time and I never got bored with her. Too bad the feeling may be not mutual. To her, perhaps it's only a transaction.

Yeah, plan to sort out my thought and just treat it as a transaction. Thanks for all the supports. Reading all the KC trap stories here also help me in some ways.

 

[tinyavenger]

hi ts
sometimes its difficult to control yrself..

looks like u need her more than she needs u

try to maintain radio silence Reviewom her for away to clear yr head.

hope it helps

 

[KimJongIl]

There you said it. To her, it is a transaction. So it is one way....you can say and feel what you want, but........maybe this is only a chase. Once you get her to love you, you then move on. Just human nature.

 

[wonderer]

I would always say take a look at your own situation first before plunging into such a relationship with any gal be it a KTV gal or a FL. At the end of the day, you are married, have a family and definitely in my opinion your family should always come first.

 

[...:::38 weeks:::...]

The whole event was fast and furious. Went to ktv and sat with her, then a week later called her to sit with me again. Both times she refused to go to hotel saying that she didn't do that. SMS her a few times for lunch appt, then I started this thread to ask if I should gave tips for lunch. Went to a few lunches and told her i wanted to help her with expenses. She told me to pay for the tuition fee. I agreed as long as she went to hotel with me during that duration and she refused. I told her to think about it. After a few days, we met up for lunch again and she agreed to give it a try for $1K for a few weeks. We did and I loved every second I was with her. Able to do a few shots within short time duration because I felt she was clean and damned pretty (15 yrs younger than me). This was in October. We went for overseas holiday (I gave her $ for loss of income) and it was a mind blowing experience. Not only the sex, but the whole experience of sightseeing, in the car, candlelit dinner, spa, etc. She was so happy and said that she liked me a lot after this trip (not love). I don't know what that means since we are already together for 2 months and i guessed in the first month, she didn't like me. I was just a customer she was trying. Anyway, I began to have feeling for her and am trying hard to control. After the trip, I proposed to be closer to her and she gave me 2 options if I like. One is to just treat this as pay as you use. Another one is to bao her and she said $5k so she can stop working and focus on her study and me. Told her $2K and she laughed it off. We agreed to discuss it again some other times, maybe under diff term and conditions. Things I liked about her other than appearance is that she is not trying to hard to please you like, serving you tea, trying to smile at everything you said, etc like other ktv gals. I found her to be comfortable of being herself, venting Reviewustration, telling me her hobby, etc. Note that I don't speak mandarin, so this gal is English speaking prc, which is very rare. At this point, I missed her more than she missed me. I know her whereabout every single hour (don't ask me how), and i found her to be an ordinary gal who does not screw around. That's why it's hard to break this up. I found this forum to be useful to get my brain back to my proper head. I tried sitting with another gal at ktv during this time, but found that the experience was so bland...after tasting honey, the normal sugar is not so sweet anymore.

 

[Nathalie K]

I will say what the girl is doing is simply: 放长线, 钓大鱼.

If a gal says she likes you but doesn't love you, what does it mean? In the context of a KTV gal or FL or FB, it simply means that she will just treat it as a simple transaction. You give her the amount of $$$ that she asks for and she will treat you as if you are her bf. Note that I didn't say she will treat you as her bf because she has zero feelings for you.

It is up to you whether you want to continue with this sort of transaction. But before you plunge head first into this, you have to get it around your head that you cannot have any feelings for her in this case. If you develop feeling for her while she doesn't have any for you, then Reviewankly you will always be at the losing end.

 

[Candleguy:]

Wow! that's a very fast turnaround of your previous postings