Back from Boston

[Leviathan]

How old are you?

 

[Ursus]

40s

 

[smallpantieshk]

When I was in Japan, I spent well over $10,000 on my relationship with my J-girlfriend. I also spent close to $5,000 on my relationship with my C-girlfriend, and I had to cover my mortgage costs back home in Ontario at the same time.

I was burning through alot of money. As I was leaving Japan, I asked my J-girlfriend to pay for my hambuger meal at a casual restaurant. She got so mad, she sulked the remainder of the day and we ended up breaking up that evening. Motivated, in part, because I finally asked her to pay for a $45 meal. I spent thousands more on her than she did on me, but where did it get me in the end? No where.

Guys, why is it that we men demand of ourselves the level of investment that our women are unwilling to make in us?

It makes no logical sense. And so I have done so much thinking about how to improve my life. And I realized that I have to invest in myself and stop buying the attention of women.

Stop surrounding yourself with toxic materialistic women. I've told said so many fucking times. Find the average looking girl, but with the heart of gold.

I don't care how hot a girl is, you'll eventually grow tired of her bullshit. But a girl with a heart of gold is different. She may be a six or seven in terms of looks, but you'll never get sick of her.

 

[Ursus]

There is no such thing as a non-toxic woman.

I might be able to find a nice girl in this world if I was willing to date a fatty. But nothing is worth the torment of settling for a fat chick and having to smash globs of fat twice a week. I can't do it.

That's why I have a tremendous amount of respect for black men. They have the apetite and stomach to bang the girls than other races simply won't touch.

 

[Kyle83]

hey Ursus this place got pretty boring without you. welcome back

 

[smallpantieshk]

There is no such thing as a non-toxic woman.

I might be able to find a nice girl in this world if I was willing to date a fatty. But nothing is worth the torment of settling for a fat chick and having to smash globs of fat twice a week. I can't do it.

That's why I have a tremendous amount of respect for black men. They have the apetite and stomach to bang the girls than other races simply won't touch.

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Doesn't have to be a fatty you fuck. Just average looking women with great hearts. Plenty of them around still if you know how to spot them. You have to surround yourself with people like that. Build a positive social circle and you'll meet guys and gals that enrich your life.

 

[krayjee]

hey Ursus this place got pretty boring without you. welcome back

What? What u talking bout? We have qinshit and Lilypad entertaining us all the time while he was away. Lilypad has no fans but qinshit does have some..

 

[Ursus]

hey Ursus this place got pretty boring without you. welcome back

Thanks for the kind words.

 

[Hangdai]

What? What u talking bout? We have qinshit and Lilypad entertaining us all the time while he was away. Lilypad has no fans but qinshit does have some..

Didn’t we decide that Qinshit deserved a raise? He does work so hard, all the time.

 

[Eraser]

When I was in Japan, I spent well over $10,000 on my relationship with my J-girlfriend. I also spent close to $5,000 on my relationship with my C-girlfriend, and I had to cover my mortgage costs back home in Ontario at the same time.

I was burning through alot of money. As I was leaving Japan, I asked my J-girlfriend to pay for my hambuger meal at a casual restaurant. She got so mad, she sulked the remainder of the day and we ended up breaking up that evening. Motivated, in part, because I finally asked her to pay for a $45 meal. I spent thousands more on her than she did on me, but where did it get me in the end? No where.

Guys, why is it that we men demand of ourselves the level of investment that our women are unwilling to make in us?

It makes no logical sense. And so I have done so much thinking about how to improve my life. And I realized that I have to invest in myself and stop buying the attention of women.

It’s no too late to realize that. Women and men are using each other, money talks.

 

[yelomonkey]

Thanks for the kind words.

It was nice to have him back for about three posts. However, he quickly gets boring with his racist and misogynistic views.

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[Fisher2J]

Welcome back Ursus! Thought we would never see you again! Hope you had a great time in Boston!
Too much to read in this thread, so I'll just leave my comment here

 

[JimiNY]

Hey Ursus
Being a long time lurker before joining in Dec., I have to say that your reputation precedes you, on MP anyways.
It seems you received the usual flack but always appreciated what seemed as honest posts and comments.

 

[smallpantieshk]

I have had many girls buy me dinner in the past. I can't name them all here because then it would turn into a shit-show in terms of low self-esteem men who would be complaining to the girls that they didn't get the same treatment.

It can go both ways. You can easily fall into the trap of always paying (as the guy often does) or you can tell them that you expect reciprocation and demand that they be ready to pay every 2nd time, etc. Plus, most girls who are put on a pedestal like to have 1 guy that they spoil because it makes them feel more grounded. A girl wants to feel as though she is a good person and that she isn't taking advantage of men all the time, so while she will let 9/10 guys buy her things in order to get ahead, she will also buy things for that 1/10 gentleman to offset that.

It's better to be that guy who demands she pays than that guy who begs her to let him cover the bill.

When it came to Angela, I always seemed to pay for her. When it came to some other girls, I made them pay. Now, I make all the girls pay. Even if I went out with Angela in the future, I would insist that she pay for me or at least pay for herself. I will never buy her dinner again. And that goes with every other girl too. It's liberating.

Let's say I go out to dinner with one of the girls from BarbieHouse. If that ever happens, I will ask them to pay. If they refuse, I will at least insist that they pay for themselves. If they still refuse, I simply won't go. Women do this exact same thing to men and I have learned to treat women the same way they treat men.

No matter how much money you spend on a woman, no matter how nice and good you are to her, she will try to leave you and trade up when a better opportunity comes her way. No sense throwing your money at a relationship you know won't last. Unless you hate yourself and have low self-esteem.

You met the worst of the worst.

You're without hope. I don't even know why I try to convince you otherwise. Maybe reflect on the type of person you are. Why are you attracting only gold digging whores?

 

[Ursus]

You met the worst of the worst.

You're without hope. I don't even know why I try to convince you otherwise. Maybe reflect on the type of person you are. Why are you attracting only gold digging whores?

All women are gold-digging whores. That's just reality. Women are inferior, so they have the mindset to take from those that are better (men).

 

[smallpantieshk]

All women are gold-digging whores. That's just reality. Women are inferior, so they have the mindset to take from those that are better (men).

SMH. okay go have a good of your life then. I'm sorry to inform you, but you are a badly misguided soul. But if gold diggers is all you have experienced in this life, then I can somewhat understand your perspective.

But your experiences are only yours. There is a world of women out there that you have never met or encountered.