Back from Boston

[Ursus]

I am back from Boston. Arrived home yesterday and am quite tired from the 900 km drive. Boston is a great city if you ever get the idea of moving to the U.S. I made 3x the money in Boston that I was making in Ontario and the economic opportunities are so great in the U.S. that I think anyone can easily make $100,000 or more if they put in the effort needed. I have to return to Boston in 3 months, but for now I will take it easy and rest back home until that time comes.

Perused the board this morning and easily noticed that the same type of posts, arguments, trolls and mangina inspired behaviour that was present on the board last year has continued on, even during my near 100 day absence from MP. That is pitiful. The most laughable of them all is Slag/Ironhearted/MikeTo/Ironheart etc. who continues to pretend that he is myself and that somehow I am posting by using his various aliases. That's weak. I post under my Ursus handle only. To do otherwise would be to hurt my brand name, which of course, is not in my best interest. Use a little common sense folks and you will be able to solve any of your lingering questions and suspicions.

I haven't hobbied since last year. I am no longer interested in the hobby - on the whole. I have almost completely gone MGTOW. I am flush with cash, but I am more interested in buying another camera or traveling to China or renovating my home than I am in chasing 'for-hire' kitty from any industry girl that advertises her companionship by the hour. I realized that my lack of traditional hobbies and lack of self-investment was making me spend money on hired kitty as an alternative to smarter consumption decisions. When I started enjoying my other hobbies and when I started exclusively investing in myself, I realized I no longer needed escorts to fill any gap.

I am no longer interested in all the highschool inspired drama that produces consequences such as Prostitutes:

a) threatening me with false allegations and police attention
b) calling my wife and trying to stir up trouble
c) asking their other clients to impersonate me, harass me or otherwise cause trouble for me
d) playing games with my time and money and bad-mouthin me behind my back
e) presenting narratives on line which are purposely false in order to raise their standing among fan-boys and manginas and other low self-esteem members of the sex hobby community

etc.

Imho, trying to win at this game of chasing prostitutes is a lose-lose scenario. As I have said before, arguing with a hooker and her clients is like debating a homeless man on the street. Even if you 'win', there is no real prize worth anything that you receive.

Btw, the best way to find new talent is to go outside and visit as many new girls as you can - on your own. If you think that reading other guys reveiws on an internet forum will give you the best selection of for-hire kitty, then you really don't understand this industry. 95% of the grils in this industry aren't reviewed on the boards. And even with private messages between cliques of fan-boys, you still miss out on at least 80% of the talent you will never meet because you guys are waiting for someone else to tell you who to see instead of getting out there and discovering what the industry has to offer on its own.

I made more money in the U.S. than I ever would have in Canada and I owe it all to my decision to stop arguing with fan-boys, psychos and manginas on an internet forum that has members trying to impress prostitutes with their money. Take a step back and you will see what I now see.

Having said all that, will I ever hobby? Yes. I am going to see Sisley in the next little while. She is young, sexy and her menu and talent are worth it, in small sampling sizes.

P.S. Don't PM me with questions and comments. I don't read PMs and longer.

 

[Hangdai]

I’m shocked no one has welcomed you back Ursus.
It could be due to the fact everybody’s jaw is still wide open in disbelief.

Thought for sure you were out for good.

Anyways, very interesting first post for your return, lots of food for thought, and very spot on in regards to new talent.

 

[smallpantieshk]

Ursulla. You are so full of shit. Did you miss telling us how much you love fucking chicks with dicks?...Sorry, I meant dudes with tits. You didn’t make any money in Boston. You went there with your mama who was selling her ass again in the alley behind the TD Centre. You were there to fluff the next guy.

He actually made some good points tbh.

 

[Poontang Fan]

Welcome back Ursus. It's good to have you back man. I know you were often involved in name calling bs with other guys on the forum but you regularly contributed reviews and I always appreciated that.

Just one question. Where are things with you and Asian Angela? Any plans to see her now that you're back?

 

[Lovederub]

Bro nice to have you safe and sound

 

[Ursus]

Thank you to everyone for their kind words. Much appreciated.

Poontang, regarding Asian Angela, as many of you know, she is my absolute favourite girl in the industry. If the stars align properly, I will definitely go see her. Problem between Angela and myself has always been that my desire for her exceeds her desire for me, and hence, I spend a good portion of my time investing more in her than she does in me. That is a losing proposition and I fully realize that at this point in my life.

Angela has too many guys that admire her and not enough time to give attention to all those guys, individually. It is understandable. So, no hard feelings at all. If I can see her sometime in the future, of course I will be thrilled to do so.

Sisley at BarbieHouse caught my eye, so that is who I will see next time I feel the urge to smash asian kitty. The only issue I have with BarbieHouse girls is that they are extremely high volume escorts, so sometimes that can be a deterrent for me.

http://www.barbiehouse69.com/sisley

 

[snoopdoggie]

Did you visit Cheers whilst you were there?

 

[snoopdoggie]

And unfortunately, don't forget you must declare and monies earned to the taxman.

What kind of work were you doing there anyway if you don't mind me asking? Plowing and salting parking lots? I know they can get some big snow storms over there.

 

[Tsaps]

Welcome back. I heard Asian Angela has some new toys. Gotta check them out. Lol

 

[Ursus]

Welcome back. I heard Asian Angela has some new toys. Gotta check them out. Lol

Yes, between her huge eyes, her sweet bum, her tight kitty and now her big titties, I'd say you should check to see how she is doing these days. Angela had a great body before, but with those new titties, OMG, holy shit.

 

[Gwailo]

I am back from Boston. Arrived home yesterday and am quite tired from the 900 km drive. Boston is a great city if you ever get the idea of moving to the U.S. I made 3x the money in Boston that I was making in Ontario and the economic opportunities are so great in the U.S. that I think anyone can easily make $100,000 or more if they put in the effort needed. I have to return to Boston in 3 months, but for now I will take it easy and rest back home until that time comes.

Perused the board this morning and easily noticed that the same type of posts, arguments, trolls and mangina inspired behaviour that was present on the board last year has continued on, even during my near 100 day absence from MP. That is pitiful. The most laughable of them all is Slag/Ironhearted/MikeTo/Ironheart etc. who continues to pretend that he is myself and that somehow I am posting by using his various aliases. That's weak. I post under my Ursus handle only. To do otherwise would be to hurt my brand name, which of course, is not in my best interest. Use a little common sense folks and you will be able to solve any of your lingering questions and suspicions.

I haven't hobbied since last year. I am no longer interested in the hobby - on the whole. I have almost completely gone MGTOW. I am flush with cash, but I am more interested in buying another camera or traveling to China or renovating my home than I am in chasing 'for-hire' kitty from any industry girl that advertises her companionship by the hour. I realized that my lack of traditional hobbies and lack of self-investment was making me spend money on hired kitty as an alternative to smarter consumption decisions. When I started enjoying my other hobbies and when I started exclusively investing in myself, I realized I no longer needed escorts to fill any gap.

I am no longer interested in all the highschool inspired drama that produces consequences such as Prostitutes:

a) threatening me with false allegations and police attention
b) calling my wife and trying to stir up trouble
c) asking their other clients to impersonate me, harass me or otherwise cause trouble for me
d) playing games with my time and money and bad-mouthin me behind my back
e) presenting narratives on line which are purposely false in order to raise their standing among fan-boys and manginas and other low self-esteem members of the sex hobby community

etc.

Imho, trying to win at this game of chasing prostitutes is a lose-lose scenario. As I have said before, arguing with a hooker and her clients is like debating a homeless man on the street. Even if you 'win', there is no real prize worth anything that you receive.

Btw, the best way to find new talent is to go outside and visit as many new girls as you can - on your own. If you think that reading other guys reveiws on an internet forum will give you the best selection of for-hire kitty, then you really don't understand this industry. 95% of the grils in this industry aren't reviewed on the boards. And even with private messages between cliques of fan-boys, you still miss out on at least 80% of the talent you will never meet because you guys are waiting for someone else to tell you who to see instead of getting out there and discovering what the industry has to offer on its own.

I made more money in the U.S. than I ever would have in Canada and I owe it all to my decision to stop arguing with fan-boys, psychos and manginas on an internet forum that has members trying to impress prostitutes with their money. Take a step back and you will see what I now see.

Having said all that, will I ever hobby? Yes. I am going to see Sisley in the next little while. She is young, sexy and her menu and talent are worth it, in small sampling sizes.

P.S. Don't PM me with questions and comments. I don't read PMs and longer.

Welcome back and very well said. Taking a step back and re-evaluating will do wonders in almost every situation. I have put the brakes on hobbying myself and can see what you're getting at.

In terms of the forum banterings, the kj lapdogs vs the qing gang is all fun and games lol

 

[Ursus]

The most important change you can ever make in your life is the decision to invest in yourself as opposed to investing in someone else, especially someone who doesn't care about you.

Invest in yourself first. It's not selfish at all.

 

[Steeper]

The most important change you can ever make in your life is the decision to invest in yourself as opposed to investing in someone else, especially someone who doesn't care about you.

Invest in yourself first. It's not selfish at all.

Amen

 

[Hangdai]

I continually invest money and time with various independent ladies and Spas in order to maintain my sexual well being.

With my sexual well being looked after, I’ve found that my other personal and work relationships are also well maintained, ie I’m more grounded and level headed.

But your point of “chasing prostitutes” is very well taken. You really have to separate the drama away from the true business transaction that is taking place. Sometimes easier said then done.

 

[Ursus]

Guys, watch every woman in your life and notice how they take more than they give. Regardless of whether it is your wife, girlfriend, sister etc., they will normally take more than they give in relationships with men. That is why women always seem to 'be ahead'. They live their lives with a constant influx of benefit from the man in their lives. The man earns his money and gives 40% to his female partner. She keeps and spends her income and then has 40% more that she gets from her man. The guy is left with 60% of his income and the woman is able to spend 140% of her regular income.

Over the years, women change their boyfriends, husbands etc. and they keep gaining 140% from each relationship. After 10, 15, 20 years, she is much further ahead than she otherwise would be if she didn't take from each man in her life.

My father worked more hours and earned more money than my Mom did. Upon retirement, my dad had $30,000 in assets and my Mom had $700,000 in assets. The only difference between my Mom and my Dad is that my Dad spent what he earned on my Mom (and his 2nd and 3rd wife later on in his life) and my Mom received spending onto herself from those she surrounded herself wiith. My Dad kept from investing in himself and he lost. My Mom kept receiving and she won. It's simple mathematics.

If you continue to try and win the favour of women simply because they have a Vagina, and if you don't demand that they pull equal weight in a relationship, it will be very costly to you in the end.

When I was in Boston, I had a lady ask me to dinner. I told her I would only go if she agreed - beforehand - to pay for her own meal. If she had said 'No', I would have refused to go. I will no longer be an ATM for the women in my life. I suggest you guys think about that strategy as well. If a woman wants to spend time with me, she better bring her wallet with her because my wallet only has enough cash for myself.

 

[Steeper]

Guys, watch every woman in your life and notice how they take more than they give. Regardless of whether it is your wife, girlfriend, sister etc., they will normally take more than they give in relationships with men. That is why women always seem to 'be ahead'. They live their lives with a constant influx of benefit from the man in their lives. The man earns his money and gives 40% to his female partner. She keeps and spends her income and then has 40% more that she gets from her man. The guy is left with 60% of his income and the woman is able to spend 140% of her regular income.

Over the years, women change their boyfriends, husbands etc. and they keep gaining 140% from each relationship. After 10, 15, 20 years, she is much further ahead than she otherwise would be if she didn't take from each man in her life.

My father worked more hours and earned more money than my Mom did. Upon retirement, my dad had $30,000 in assets and my Mom had $700,000 in assets. The only difference between my Mom and my Dad is that my Dad spent what he earned on my Mom (and his 2nd and 3rd wife later on in his life) and my Mom received spending onto herself from those she surrounded herself wiith. My Dad kept from investing in himself and he lost. My Mom kept receiving and she won. It's simple mathematics.

If you continue to try and win the favour of women simply because they have a Vagina, and if you don't demand that they pull equal weight in a relationship, it will be very costly to you in the end.

When I was in Boston, I had a lady ask me to dinner. I told her I would only go if she agreed - beforehand - to pay for her own meal. If she had said 'No', I would have refused to go. I will no longer be an ATM for the women in my life. I suggest you guys think about that strategy as well. If a woman wants to spend time with me, she better bring her wallet with her because my wallet only has enough cash for myself.

 

[Steeper]

Guys see how many girls will take you out to dinner or pay for your part of a vacation .Or freebie if a spa girl not many

 

[IronHeart]

Don't believe for a second this little bitch went to Boston, he probably went to Bolton and mistook it for Boston.

 

[Ursus]

Guys see how many girls will take you out to dinner or pay for your part of a vacation .Or freebie if a spa girl not many

I have had many girls buy me dinner in the past. I can't name them all here because then it would turn into a shit-show in terms of low self-esteem men who would be complaining to the girls that they didn't get the same treatment.

It can go both ways. You can easily fall into the trap of always paying (as the guy often does) or you can tell them that you expect reciprocation and demand that they be ready to pay every 2nd time, etc. Plus, most girls who are put on a pedestal like to have 1 guy that they spoil because it makes them feel more grounded. A girl wants to feel as though she is a good person and that she isn't taking advantage of men all the time, so while she will let 9/10 guys buy her things in order to get ahead, she will also buy things for that 1/10 gentleman to offset that.

It's better to be that guy who demands she pays than that guy who begs her to let him cover the bill.

When it came to Angela, I always seemed to pay for her. When it came to some other girls, I made them pay. Now, I make all the girls pay. Even if I went out with Angela in the future, I would insist that she pay for me or at least pay for herself. I will never buy her dinner again. And that goes with every other girl too. It's liberating.

Let's say I go out to dinner with one of the girls from BarbieHouse. If that ever happens, I will ask them to pay. If they refuse, I will at least insist that they pay for themselves. If they still refuse, I simply won't go. Women do this exact same thing to men and I have learned to treat women the same way they treat men.

No matter how much money you spend on a woman, no matter how nice and good you are to her, she will try to leave you and trade up when a better opportunity comes her way. No sense throwing your money at a relationship you know won't last. Unless you hate yourself and have low self-esteem.

 

[Ursus]

When I was in Japan, I spent well over $10,000 on my relationship with my J-girlfriend. I also spent close to $5,000 on my relationship with my C-girlfriend, and I had to cover my mortgage costs back home in Ontario at the same time.

I was burning through alot of money. As I was leaving Japan, I asked my J-girlfriend to pay for my hambuger meal at a casual restaurant. She got so mad, she sulked the remainder of the day and we ended up breaking up that evening. Motivated, in part, because I finally asked her to pay for a $45 meal. I spent thousands more on her than she did on me, but where did it get me in the end? No where.

Guys, why is it that we men demand of ourselves the level of investment that our women are unwilling to make in us?

It makes no logical sense. And so I have done so much thinking about how to improve my life. And I realized that I have to invest in myself and stop buying the attention of women.