I did one customer yesterday, there is a little story that I think i need to write it down:
He came in spa, I asked him" how is your feet?"
He said :"good good, no pain any more, I need soft massage today, no hard massage, just soft touch my whole body"
I was doing soft massage all over his body, then he said" massage my head, just soft massage" He turned around his neck and made cracking noise shew me how his neck was, as soon as I heard the cracking noise, I said:" no I can not soft massage your head, you have to follow me, I do my way, your neck need to be fixed"
He knew how my massage skill is and said" ok linda, do your way"
I massaged his head's points, neck point and points behind his ears...
As soon as i finished the seccion, he turned around his neck, no cracking noise no pain any more, i was surprised too! I said:" you see, if you don't show me your neck cracking, I will just follow your requirement soft massage, but when I see your problem, I should make it right, you listen to me , problem solved, some people doesn't listen to me , I can not do anything, but I want make it right and can not, can you imagine my feeling then?"
I have so many clients that I want do them right, change their life to be much better, I am here for everyone, but can not arrest them here to be right , this matter stress me ...