amazing asian massage!

[I love my love]

Kind of agree withyou on this one.He should go and have a grrrrrreat massage.Relax.

 

[Taniya A]

The thing is Woodworker,cashiers don't rub your shoulders,back,butt,thighs ect...but mps' do.Although I agree with you, I too would like some of them to wag me,ecpecially one young godesse at Super C.LOL!!!

 

[Kittyx]

Final words on the subject (I have asked the moderators to remove my account from this board):

You guys need to learn about REAL relationships. Not every encounter with a woman starts by turning on the taxi meter. Not everything in the world can be accomplished by making the tip a little larger.

As Olliver has said, he goes far with girls because he is nice, he is polite, he is in good shape (I have seen the pics, I can't argue), and he has respect for the girls to whatever level they want to be respected at. If the girls are high respectful, he is that way with them. Girls with no respect, well, he works there too (see some of the street reports, they are classic!)

Without respect, you are getting things only because of money and for no other reason. More importantly for the budget constrained out there, without respect, this hobby is costing you way more than it should.

You attract bees to a flower, flies to shit. You can choose to be honey or shit.

No matter what happens, the other side of the transaction here is a PERSON, same as you. The MP girls would rather spend a nice hour with a gentleman rather than an hour wrestling with someone who can't take no for an answer, and cannot respect the girl's restrictions and limits. (there is that word respect again). Without that respect and without controlling yourself just a little bit, you will be disappointed in the results you get visiting an MP and many SPs as well.

In the past couple of months, I have seen many very disrespectful posts here, and worse, people posting "Wow, great, way to go!" type responses to the abusive behaviors these people talk about. It encourages people who read the posts to go out and do the same, or worse. It also disgusts me to see that people feel that this sort of bahavior is somehow normal.

You guys really need to try real relationships for a change. Some of you have lost touch with the reality of people.

That's all from MATt. I'm done here now.

 

[Big Dog D]

MatT,

No one... well, not me anyway, is saying that the girls should be disrespected. As I see it, the girls who don't respect us are the source of our discontent.

I in no way condone or applaud disrespectful behaviour. Like Oliver, I get as little or as much mileage as I do because I am nice and presentable. I never grope, I never make untoward suggestions. Subtle advances and conversation are my way. Respect is essential.

I say nothing of Endless' tactics, but in and of itself, I thought what transpired was funny. Not evil, maybe not right, but certainly not a despicable act from a person to be reviled.

I would hate to see you leave the board on account of all this. Yes, I do find you patronizing at times, and, yes, I do think you try a little too hard to change the world. But I understand your actions. Perhaps if yopu did not take it personally it wouldn't engender such frustration.

Those who disrespect should certainly told outright, but sometimes it's just good clean fun. Case in point my little repartee with Cosmo. Neither of us is going to ask that smoking cashier at the Super C for a handjob with an included massage. You partake of the inevitable handjob too as I understand it. So don't be so holier than thou. Furthermore, it has happened many times that I refused a handjob, the massage being enough. Most of the MPs say that almost all men want a finish. I find this sad.

The finish as such is a service, yes, a release, but it is also a sexual release, thus a sex act, however you slice it, when an MP does this, she crosses a line. The line between a bonafide therapeutic massage and one with a sexual ending. When a girlfriend doesn't feel like having intercourse but is willing to give you pleasure with, perhaps a handjob, it is still a sex act. With an MP you pay for it, that's all. Half the reason I don't like paying for extras is because it is never my intent to begin with, but also because I don't want to use anyone.

I saw Lily the other day, she was really nice and the handjob was included in the massage. No extra was requested. A tension release, plain and simple. I wasn't that crazy about the softness of her massage. But I fell asleep at the end and walked away feeling very relaxed and well taken care of. Nice, no? A sweet lady, some nice conversation, an ok massage and a little something for my libido in the middle of it. I didn't ask for the release and if I go back I may forego it from time to time.

So, yes, I respect women, and I understand your frustration with those who don't. But try not to generalize and be a little more direct in terms of who your comments are aimed at. I am discontent about many things in this world, but if I generalize I get nowhere, you have to hit the source. Great fodder for lengthy debates on eforum.xxx.

Don't leave on account of a few bad apples MatT. Don't throw your hands in the air and say "well what can I do" that's just not cool as you might say

 

[Gtry.]

''You attract bees to a flower, flies to shit. You can choose to be honey or shit.''

Stick around MaTt. That line is...so true...

Alfie

 

[? ??so? ?]

Indeed Alfie, indeed.

Damn, man, I jus wanted him to stop and smell that proverbial flower, and not to take the shit so seriously. It does no good to be so jaded and negative. True enough, there are alot of idiots out there, but alot of very nice, really fun guys too.

I have gotten so many laughs and been so entertained by some of the stories I have read here... we are all so very human after all. In any case, I hope he reconsiders.

Honey or Shit... I like that...

 

[angel lovs wrestling!]

Dear ManaboutTown Please stay and help the Moderators show to the world at large that most males in Canada are respectful and generos and kind and loving to most of women who are Sex Workers in this beautiful land.

Your opnion makes such a difference to us SPs. It is a refreshing relief to read your caring and respectful and interesting insights.

I hope the Mods does not cancell your membership and that you
stay and continue to teach the unhappy guys in this board how to make a distinction between their private personal despair and this public forum which is about sharing perspectives and fun and surfing searching for the best sex in town like the ManAboutTown does so well !!!!!!!!!

Please guys be nice to ManAboutTow, PM him and invite him for a beer, there is such a beautiful sunshine in Montreal these days. Go get together have a drink and enjoy these nice and easy summer afternoon in Montreal. If you guys want to keep the testesterone level intact, then have a Perrier instead.

As the Mod2 would say,please behave !!!!!!!!!