would you allow your boyfriend to give other girls massages?

[its me]

i work with my boyfriend and this girl from work asked him to go to her house and give him a thirty minute massage for thirty dollars..i trust him but dont trust the girl. he gets hit on alot. and girls i work with even flirt with him in front of me. i dont want to be jealous or uncomfortable for nothing: just seeing how others would react
also she has been a flat out bitch to me since day one of me working there..
he said i could come with..would that be ok?
or make him think i really cant trust him?
(which i do, i know he wont cheat! but looking and touching and getting hot for another girl makes me just as mad)

 

[Molly]

i would not like that at all. and i would feel very uncomfortable having my boyfriend got to a girls house to give a massage. JUst remeber massages makes a girl feel very relaxed and sometimes horny so becareful

 

[Crimson]

I don't think he should do that. He's involved with you, not another girl. (Do you two work at a massage place? That might change my answer a bit.)

 

[SoSo]

Do not let him so that bitch will try to take him.

 

[samAnThA]

NO!!!... even tho you trust them that doesn't mean that it's ok to give them a massage. What are you thinking???

 

[Ceasia]

I wish the hell i would let my boyfriend give another girl a massage..unless he is a massage therapist...but other than that hell to the no

 

[slsk]

just tell him that you dont want him to do that. if he loves you he will understand. i get what you are saying. if he does, i just dont think thats right. tell him that ur the only girl hes allowed to give massages to lol.

 

[Casm]

If I were you, I wouldn't. Not unless you two get married and he gets a job as a professional masseuse.

 

[pandy]

that girl seems like trouble to me!

 

[Rosalie]

NO WAY! Not appropriate, unless his occupation is licensed masseuse? I think that sounds sketchy. Anytime I feel like I wonder if something is right or not I think how the other person would feel if the situation was flip-flopped- your boyfriend and his feelings that you are giving a very flirty man a massage for 30 bucks at his house?

 

[CoNvErSe aDdIcT]

no dont allow him to go

 

[tinkerbelle]

First of all girls r backstabbers and 2-faced bitches.

Girls manipulate and lie 2 get what they want. He might not want her but it sounds like she wants him. If she wants a massage that bad she wants a massage that bad she can go 2 ur house and he can give her one there. Who knows what she might try and do when they r alone. ur bf would most likely shut her down if he cares about u.

i wouldn't let him. and at massage places they offer a happy ending.... she may want that so no.

 

[H-B-P]

its his work, you cant stop him from doing it. if you trust him then you can let him do it without it leading to something sexual.

 

[Agent Shnully]

You should tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him going over to her house to get massage. If he loves you, he wont go. But if he does, you should really re-think your relationships. Feels like you are intimidated by those girls and his good looks.

Plus, id have a nice talk with that girl, by not saying anything you let those girls walk all over you and disrespect you by flirting with him around you.

Your jealousy is a normal reaction in this specific occasion.

 

[sid]

no, i wouldn't.

boys are boys. they can do whatever they want without you knowing.

i've gone through that. i swear you shouldn't allow him to go there if you don't want something "nasty" will happen.

 

[Billys]

If you trust him i bet he wont do anything bad, If you have been going out for 2 or more months your in the clear. But if this becomes a regular thing then i would start to get suspicious. And just ask him first.