Me and him ended on a bad note a while AFTER we broke up 2 years ago(we were 14/13 at the time and it lasted about 4 months) because of faults on both parts.We've always had trouble with miscommunication and I'm not quite sure if we're really friends, my guess is that we just try to act civil because we have mutual friends.
I was at this party my ex was throwing and one of his friends (who is a known flirt) approached me. My ex introduced me as one of his exes. The drunk-slowly-turning-sober friend persistantly flirted with me throughout the night.
At one point my ex brought his friend aside to discuss something quickly (not sure what). Later, my ex started getting close to me and i let him (no kissing or anything) just soft-ish touching with clothes on. There were moments where he was trying to get his head between my legs which i delayed to stop because i liked the attention. There was alcohol involved but we werent that drunk ( at least, My buzz was over).
After i was talking to the friend about common interests me and him shared, my ex whispered to the friend infront of me the reason why him and me broke up and then left. His friend told me and i was a bit shocked. What he said was partially a chronological lie but right now im not quite sure who it was to protect since he could have said the real reason we broke up (we didnt communicate...at all) and not mix it up with the messy aftermath. I don't think he think he's at fault for anything.
Afterwards, he seemed distant and hostile and randomly mentioned Planned Parenthood in response to something totally unrelated i said something about a commercial on tv. We've never had sex although he lost his virginity after we broke up, but we've fool around one time a while after that and i guess i sortve lead him on (without meaning to).
Please someone tell whats going on here and whyy.
thank you in advance.
I was at this party my ex was throwing and one of his friends (who is a known flirt) approached me. My ex introduced me as one of his exes. The drunk-slowly-turning-sober friend persistantly flirted with me throughout the night.
At one point my ex brought his friend aside to discuss something quickly (not sure what). Later, my ex started getting close to me and i let him (no kissing or anything) just soft-ish touching with clothes on. There were moments where he was trying to get his head between my legs which i delayed to stop because i liked the attention. There was alcohol involved but we werent that drunk ( at least, My buzz was over).
After i was talking to the friend about common interests me and him shared, my ex whispered to the friend infront of me the reason why him and me broke up and then left. His friend told me and i was a bit shocked. What he said was partially a chronological lie but right now im not quite sure who it was to protect since he could have said the real reason we broke up (we didnt communicate...at all) and not mix it up with the messy aftermath. I don't think he think he's at fault for anything.
Afterwards, he seemed distant and hostile and randomly mentioned Planned Parenthood in response to something totally unrelated i said something about a commercial on tv. We've never had sex although he lost his virginity after we broke up, but we've fool around one time a while after that and i guess i sortve lead him on (without meaning to).
Please someone tell whats going on here and whyy.
thank you in advance.