I am fairly new to the MP game (only been 3 times) and I have some questions that I hope someone with more experience can answer for me. I have searched through older threads and Googled the best I could but I still have some things that are unanswered.
First, during my first trip to a MP (a well known Toronto body rub spa) I was getting ready to get on the table for a BS when the MPA looked me up and down and kind of quietly mumbled, "so hairy" in a disappointed voice. I asked her if hairy guys are not preferred but she sighed and said it was ok but said I should remove my body hair before a trip to the MP. It really ruined the vibe and since it was my first time it made it even more uncomfortable and awkward. I did some searching in old threads and I noticed that most guys with body hair said they have never had issues with MPA's not liking body hair. What should I have done when the MPA showed her initial disappointment? Was that a normal reaction?
I've got a good covering of hair on my chest, abdomen, legs, forearms but the rest of my body (mainly my back, shoulders, butt cheeks, hands and feet) is relatively hairless. I don't have tufts or look like a shag carpet but it is a good amount. I keep my crotch shaven for the most part.
Second, during my second trip to an MP I had a great BS from a sexy MPA (btw she never said anything about my body hair). At the end she was working on the release and I tried my best to hold out as long as possible. The BS really got the juices flowing so I couldn't hold out too long during the ending. I warned the MPA that I was about to finish so she could get out of the way. I ended up shooting out quite a bit and just by my luck my load was bigger than normal. She got mad/annoyed that I got my juices on the table and the floor and said that it "wasn't a gentleman thing to do" and said I should control myself. I dont know how else I could have finished since it came naturally. What is proper etiquette for releasing? I'm sure there are other guys out there that would do the same.
Third issue - Whenever I am on the table getting worked on there is a part of me that is absolutely terrified that cops will bust the joint and I will be charged with being in bawdy house. That fear really prevents me from fully enjoying the experience. I have only been to licensed places such as SRM and Taboo so should I worry about raids in well known spas like those? Has there ever been a case in Toronto where a licensed bodyrub MP got busted in recent years?
I have reading through countless old threads about bylaw issues, and legality issues regarding MPs in Toronto and all of the info really is making my head spin. I understand that for the most part the massages are legal but the happy endings are not. Most licensed bodyrub establishments list full nude massages on their pages so I am guessing that much is legal. Also, is it safest to stick to Brampton or Mississauga as many have said?
Is it true that bylaws about MPs have become a bit more relaxed over the past year?
Sorry for the long thread but any help would be appreciated.
First, during my first trip to a MP (a well known Toronto body rub spa) I was getting ready to get on the table for a BS when the MPA looked me up and down and kind of quietly mumbled, "so hairy" in a disappointed voice. I asked her if hairy guys are not preferred but she sighed and said it was ok but said I should remove my body hair before a trip to the MP. It really ruined the vibe and since it was my first time it made it even more uncomfortable and awkward. I did some searching in old threads and I noticed that most guys with body hair said they have never had issues with MPA's not liking body hair. What should I have done when the MPA showed her initial disappointment? Was that a normal reaction?
I've got a good covering of hair on my chest, abdomen, legs, forearms but the rest of my body (mainly my back, shoulders, butt cheeks, hands and feet) is relatively hairless. I don't have tufts or look like a shag carpet but it is a good amount. I keep my crotch shaven for the most part.
Second, during my second trip to an MP I had a great BS from a sexy MPA (btw she never said anything about my body hair). At the end she was working on the release and I tried my best to hold out as long as possible. The BS really got the juices flowing so I couldn't hold out too long during the ending. I warned the MPA that I was about to finish so she could get out of the way. I ended up shooting out quite a bit and just by my luck my load was bigger than normal. She got mad/annoyed that I got my juices on the table and the floor and said that it "wasn't a gentleman thing to do" and said I should control myself. I dont know how else I could have finished since it came naturally. What is proper etiquette for releasing? I'm sure there are other guys out there that would do the same.
Third issue - Whenever I am on the table getting worked on there is a part of me that is absolutely terrified that cops will bust the joint and I will be charged with being in bawdy house. That fear really prevents me from fully enjoying the experience. I have only been to licensed places such as SRM and Taboo so should I worry about raids in well known spas like those? Has there ever been a case in Toronto where a licensed bodyrub MP got busted in recent years?
I have reading through countless old threads about bylaw issues, and legality issues regarding MPs in Toronto and all of the info really is making my head spin. I understand that for the most part the massages are legal but the happy endings are not. Most licensed bodyrub establishments list full nude massages on their pages so I am guessing that much is legal. Also, is it safest to stick to Brampton or Mississauga as many have said?
Is it true that bylaws about MPs have become a bit more relaxed over the past year?
Sorry for the long thread but any help would be appreciated.