relationship advice for a newbie?

[philie v]

okay so im in my early 20s and my last relationship was 5 yrs ago. also im a "v" if you catch my drift. So i started this relationship with this girl recently. she has had sex before. So first question is, how do i stand a chance in bed when i lack any experience and she has experience? second question, do i trim or what down there? also should i be more forward when it comes to kissing?

 

[keysomay]

First before you start thinking about sex how long have you been dating this girl. That is important because that will let you know that if she's ready to take to that level. Im guessing she knows your a virgin because you she's not so if she does know this then it should be find when it's time to have sex. The first time when you guys have sex she might lead but after a while of doing it you catch on and play the main role just be confident. With kissing yes be straight forward but not to forward and it's all about timing. So keep that in mind. For trimming its all about what she likes the first time when you guys do, if she doesn't mind then i guess you don't have to.
I hoped this help but if you have any questions just email me.

 

[Gaby!]

Being a virgin doesn't mean they have an inability to have sex, that they cannot perform, do not see your virginity as a sign of weakness, if she likes you, she will not care, in all honestly she should not have a problem regardless. However i think it is important for you to talk to her about it, just say that you hope the relationship progress, but that you are worried or concerned, that - and also mention you are not by no means expecting any physical contact- you will not meet her standards as you are a virgin" and just let her assure you, and if this goes well, then you should ask her if she has any preferences as in how your genitals looks and what not. And as for the kissing don't be too forward but just as much as she is, so there is the same amount of passion, and as you become more bonded then maybe become more forward with the kissing, but just don't worry about anything, just let it happen

 

[? Alexis ?]

she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed. and practice makes perfect if she likes you, she wont care that you are a virgin.

 

[Eveandsteve]

Don't second-guess yourself. You might not have experience, but I bet you know what to do. When you get to that part of your relationship, the first time at least make sure you pay a lot of attention to her..Like foreplay, just in case you don't last as long as you'd like (not meaning to sound rude, but it does happen). For trimming, that's up to you. I like my noyfriend to trim. It's only fair If I'm bare he can at least get a hair cut When kissing's involved that's in your court, don't go overboard though x

 

[Anonymous]

She will be able 2 show u the ropes. If u trim or not is ur choice. U should be more forward with kissing.