Allow me to attempt an answer based on my one reiki experience there.
(1) Girls: hot or not?
Women not girls. That's not a political statement; it's a statement of fact. Attractive women. Not hot girls. If the distinction is still lost on y'all, think of it this way. These women may or may not have once worked in the prime full-service AMPs we all know. But few of us today would consider them qualified to service us there for $200 today.
(2) The Finish: hand only or will we be pleasantly surprised?
Based on my single experience only I'd say not to expect the surprise. I didn't offer anything extra. Neither did she. That said, my reiki session was marked by her lips almost everywhere it could go. She didn't insert anything into her mouth. But her mouth wasn't far from the action at the end.
(3) Tip expectations for Reiki and Tantra?
Can't speak to her expectations or to tantra. I can say she didn't ask for anything. Nor did I offer. My approach to these places generally is that we agree a full and complete price. If it's $200 in the full service joint, it's $200, not $220 or $240 or any other inflated figure some of y'all dream up in the misplaced belief it gets you extra. For one hour of reiki, the price she quoted was $160 to which I agreed without haggle. That's what I paid up front. She gave no hint at any point that she was expecting me to reach into my wallet again - not even as she was whispering for me to come back as she was closing the door.
For the record, I have tipped a few providers, the ones I especially liked. It is a way to acknowedge something special. I don't tip for the ordinary good job because an ordinary good job should be standard. Not tipping in this case reflects that.
Think of reiki this way. It's the massage starting with the soft touch. No working the shoulders and the neck. Working the tighter-wired zones instead. It's all sensual. All about turning you on. It's great. Maybe stick to 30 minutes though. At 60, it sort of felt as if the second 30 should have escalated the action. Maybe have the woman tease me for half. Then bring in the hot chick to finish me off. How do you like that idea?
SG