need Expert opinion

[Ahbanib4]

1st let me tell you a little about myself. I dont really post much and this is actually my 1st post and i also dont really hobby much either, but once in a blue moon i do. I do have another account but i decided to post this in a new account.
Anyways this is the situation i was in last night. I went to see a beautiful provider ( i wont say who b/c it might ruin any real opportunity that might come my way). The provider seemed very happy to see me, she kept complimenting about how good I look and how great my body is in shape. I thought to myself, well obvious she would be saying this to anybody that comes through the door, so i didn't think much of it. We started with a bit a foreplay for about 5 mins, then she got on top of me with cowgirl position. Embarassingly i Came... little too quickly (this isn't the main point so bare with me). This was the confusing part. After that incident, she kept apologizing to me saying she is so sorry, and didn't mean to do that and she wanted to go longer. She seemed very upset things ended too quickly, but it did. She cleaned me up and i put my clothes on. She told me if i can stay a bit longer, i said sure whynot. She sat on my lap saying i was her type of guy, and kept kissing and making out with me. We talked a bit and i said hey, we should be friends. Then she said... why cant we be more then friends? I thought to myself... im sure this is BS. after a bit of chit chat, naturally i knew it was time to go, but before i left she insisted we trade phone numbers. i hesitated a bit but i said whynot. A day later, i decided to text her, she said she misses and have been thinking about me. I texted her back, saying you want to have dinner together? she texted yes i want too! and asked when i got off work, and she said she will get back to me. she never get back to me b/c im guessing its a friday night which is pretty busy and its hard for her to get time off. So im at home sitting down, just thinking, is this what every provider do to get them coming back? or was she really into me? Need your help guys, i would appreciate your feedback. thanks.

 

[Hoadly]

She was probably just doing and saying those things to keep you coming back.

If I knew who it was I could make a better guess. . . . . . you could pm me.

 

[Samuel H]

hmm.... have you had a situation like that happen before?

 

[MehChuXD]

YES...! Several times... I was even asked by a provider on a couple of occasions if I would consider marrying her. She went into detail about how she wouldn't be a burden and her daughter would be none of my responsibility financially. Not to say that some of this isn't legit, but, I would imagine it stems more from wanting a marriage to keep them here in the states.

 

[Jayne]

Yes, many times. One name comes to mind very readily. Exchanging telephone numbers is very common with the girls, even on the first session. More than likely, she is just trying to get you as a repeat customer.

 

[Jai]

Welcome

 

[hopeless4love]

Agreed....I have a long list of AMP girl providers numbers in my phone. It's not a rare occurrence.

My piece of advice: if she agrees to dinner with you great, but take it for the fun that it is and don't think of it as anything serious. Don't obsess over her or the situation.....if you do, you'll just end up with a broken heart.

I think RP said it best on a different thread in the co-ed room, and am I paraphrasing...having provider friends is good....shopping and dining is great....don't expect sex for free OTC....boyfriend and girlfriend is an entirely different animal.

Clutch, one name comes to mind as well....

 

[sk1ppy]

Have dinner first, then think about the relationship.

 

[Atmey]

The same thing is happening to me right now! I think I know better but I have to admit I have been thinking of options and the possibilities......

 

[Tom]

Hahahaha, dang these girls.. messing with my ego lol.. thanks guys. HOWEVER believe it or not guys I did have a drink with Hana of dallas the same night after a session before, but that was like 2 years ago, and she kept insisting she pay, and she wasn't really into me since i was a bit younger then her. Experiences are fun in life haha..

 

[Rocky]

Sounds like a provider who understands good customer service. Some women "get it" as far as what it takes to keep a man happy. Until she starts giving you free pussy, don't take anything she says seriously.

 

[Trust Me]

All postings are "Dead Nuts on" Thank you 7th it was I that posted that. I recently took a very popular Amp provider to Windstar Casino. I enjoyed her companionship immensely. It is great for the ego, an old fat guy holding hands with a beautiful young woman. But in the end, I went home alone. But I saw her the next day for a session. Paid session.

 

[ladydi]

We are not experts, just experienced - Many of these girls are looking for a green card path, or a way to extend their expired initial 2 Year green card toward the golden 10 year card, the goal of most all. Marriage to a US citizen is the quickest path. A "paid" marriage carries a lot of risk of getting caught and the federal offence that comes with it for both parties, so a real marriage* is preferred, but with the conditions that they will continue to work as a provider, unless you can supply them with $200,000 a year that they would make as a provider, they will continue in the business. I know several of these girls that have married US guys, and their husbands now think they just do massage only - LOL. Many of these wives though do limit their business to just L1, with no kissing.
Having said all that, a relationship can be really great, you get a hot girl, lots of great sex, a caring relationship in that they want to protect their investment, lots of dining out, and fun, BUT you will need to put up with the fact that they do provide services, and it won't be fee. The issue of a green card normally comes up after the hook is set. ( the I love you hook ) So it just depends on what you want out of it, and if you can deal with the business, and the hidden costs.
Don't even begin to think you can pull them from the business unless you are able to "take care of them and thier needs" and I already gave you the price range. A Rolex and Mercedes will be the first step - On the flip side (no pun intended) though, they will want you to stop seeing providers and remain totally faithful to them. Maybe some call this a double standard, but it's just the facts, they don't want you bringing something home to them AKA "the money maker". Another tip off can be that they don't have a TX Massage license. They will be constantly on the lookout for someone to help them along with the green card and a path toward a TX DSHS license. Happy Endings ....YMMV

* A "legal" arrangement for some period of time

 

[inquisitive_1]

Wizard. Well written. One of my aft's gave me her # and I have yet to call because I am sure the entire world has it. Mistake, maybe I don't know.

 

[genisjose]

Excellent! This should be made into a sticky.

 

[Trevor]

Nothing wrong with that. Just gives you more of an inside track to her availability or setting up an appointment.

Just don't read more into it than what it is and you'll be okay.

K.