My partner (55) is so petrified of me (41) getting pregnant, he introduced

[Baracker O]

the "withdrawal method"? I have been on the strongest pill (Cerazette) for 3 years as I suffered from heavy periods. For the last three years I have not even had periods anymore. My doctor confirmed I neither produce eggs nor is there any tissue in the womb. Ohter methods like condoms do not work, as he is not used to them and can not maintain an errection then. He now wants me to get sterilised, otherwise he will continue to withdraw. He then always comes (in the sheets) turns away and falls asleep. I am absolutely devastated. He thinks I have to understand his position?!? I suggested to him to have himself sterilised, but he said he was too afraid of any operation. I do not want to be sterilised, I would love to have a baby. We used to have good sex, but now I do not even feel like touching him anymore, as it always ends in a big frustration for me. Please help.

 

[jay]

Is he aware that even if you use the withdrawal method and are super fertile then you can still become pregnant?? Actually don't let him know that because it might be the end of all loving!! I would not get sterilised, you are not a dog! Don't let him treat you like one...let him get sterilised make him get a vasectomy.