my husband and i are 900 miles away and he wouldnt introduce me to his family?

[dismayed]

he won't add me on facebook (says it won't work), also, he had me pick him up at a store instead of his house, he won;t give me his home # and says that the internet is shut off. I have done a lot for him and feel he is shutting me out of his life down there. I don't know what to think, but i am very suspicious of this and all he comes up with is lame excuses. Any advice?
we are living apart because we havent been together in 10 years and recently got back together but i work in another state so we have to live apart for now. when i went to visit him he wouldnt introduce me to his family i never met. i know it doesnt seem like a good arrangement and i don't like it.

 

[sushi]

probably already has someone hitched up down there
i don't understand why you're not together

 

[up4more]

I don't understand. You don't live near his family - or you do live near his family? You can always pay for a background check on him...couldn't hurt.

 

[dvnt1]

You're the other woman it sounds like. I have a strange suspicion he's hiding you from his real wife and family.

It's the only way I can make sense of this arrangement.