looking for info- newbie?

[Staci, and]

Recently my daughter's grades have slipped so much and her attitude has become (at times) out of control. My husband and I are considering home school as an option (seeing as though she's already failing, what could it hurt as a trial)
My concern is the social aspect and all the extras that come with public school. I have heard that there are options to keep your home school student involved with the local public school, dances, games, and extracurricular activities, is this true for ALL public schools, what are the guidelines, and how do I go about getting more info? Also, as far as her work itself, where do I go to get her studies and tests? Any help would be much appreciated!!!
Thank you!
Staci