You're absolutely right: it's true that usually that's the sort of thing that makes me run for the hills.
However, the challenging thing about this hobby is that sometimes shiftiness and amateurishness turn out to be signs of the best experience you'll ever have. CL in its younger days was full of women--a lot of them YOUNG women--who didn't know what the hell they were doing and yet the result is I had the sex of my life with them. Whereas I've been bored to death by, for instance, AMPs that absolutely had all their ducks in a row.
However, the challenging thing about this hobby is that sometimes shiftiness and amateurishness turn out to be signs of the best experience you'll ever have. CL in its younger days was full of women--a lot of them YOUNG women--who didn't know what the hell they were doing and yet the result is I had the sex of my life with them. Whereas I've been bored to death by, for instance, AMPs that absolutely had all their ducks in a row.