I've been with my boyfriend for a year and he still hasn't introduced me

[Dontworry Me]

to his parents...? Repost

So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we're both 19.
He has met my parents LOTS of times and they love him. He spends the night with every week.
He tells me about his mom and dad and family all the time, all lovely stories.
They live in Boston and we live in Los Angeles but still he always visits them probably twice a month I know money isn't a problem with all the things he does and buys me, his family is paid well. His brother lives here also he stays with his bro actually. But only because he wanted to live in Los Angeles not for any reason besides that.
Anyway we are the same religion, pretty much the same person!!
Whenever I bring up the subject he'd change the subject then go back to whatever he was doing!
What do I do?

 

[Beth Mayle]

Have you ever been to his parents home? Maybe hes embarrassed to show his parent's home, or maybe there's something about his parents he doesnt want you to know about. Maybe there nudists or something ? lol. I dont know, maybe ask him and be like "Ive known you for a really long time, and I really think I should meet your parents".. Bring up the fact about if you guys get married or something.. But dont exactly say it, just say "I dont know were this thing is going to go, but just incase id like to meet your parents.

 

[wowzer9]

Hmmm, stop stressing and do this. Next month, buy you and your boyfriend tickets to Boston. If he insists you don't go then get suspicious. Perhaps the "lovely stories" he has told you aren't so lovely. Perhaps there are things in Boston he doesn't want you to see. I'm not saying he is creeping or anything, but if you have been together for a year there is cause for concern. Also, ask for the parents number and see if he gives it to you, if so, call them up and introduce yourself. It sucks to have to go through this to get to know someones parents.