inappropriate massage erection... is this normal?

[S M]

I had a full body Ayurvedic massage by a male masseuse and i was in boxer-briefs however when lying on my back during the massage i got a hard-on which was bulging out of my underwear but i was not turned on as i was relaxed and had my eyes closed. I never said anything as i was embarassed, but was thinking of saying sorry. what would u do? Is this normal? i think the sensation of being massaged must have turned me on? Has anyone else experienced this?
It was in a professional spa clinic, not a place for dirty old men and all males are massaged by males and all females are massaged by female specialists.

 

[jfiannaca]

hmmmm tough question just like seinfeld lol anyway i think that yes being touched by someone in a semi erotic way male or female will ultimately feel good so it would make sense you would be aroused it doesnt make you gay or anything entirely normal in my opinion

 

[h b h h]

maybe you are bi sexual i dont know because it was a mans hands not womens hands

 

[Ff-ff-ff-ffiown]

this is perfectly normal, nothing to worry about. a lot of men get erection at times when they wouldn't normally get turned on, i wouldn't expect this to happen again it only tends to happen about a couple of times to every man in a lifetime

 

[james g]

tis normal; dont worry bout it

 

[Dan]

lying on your stomach probably has something to do with it, as well as being relaxed, im sure you are dreaming some erotic thoughts as men do, no harm done.

 

[ratul]

sometimes it can be normal to different people

 

[Barcode]

Embarrassment is NOT FATAL. Don't worry about it. I'm sure he's seen situations similar to yours many times. Life is not always the way it's supposed to be. It's just the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.

 

[Chupacabra_Chic]

*snicker*

I'm pretty sure that's normal... unless your body is telling you to start exploring a bit, if you catch my drift.

 

[waffles]

You weren't really turned on, but it's kind of your body's natural reaction to being touched like that. It's normal and I'm sure every healthy guy has gotten an erection during a massage, regardless of the masseuse's gender.

 

[Jonathan]

no thats never happened to me
but since your eyes were closed...
theres nothing wrong with it
but it is kinda funny

 

[Charlie B]

Massages can do that to people. It wasn't that you were turned on by him it was the release that your body gets from the massage. Some people cry uncontrollably, other people get angry, it just depends. If he is a professional he completely understands. A friend of mine had a mentally ill girl start touching herself during the massage. It does weird things to people. Don't be ashamed.

 

[Jimmy G]

i feel bad for you. lol.
Yes it is normal to experience random erections from time to time.

 

[Hunter]

Well, he triggered the part of your brain that controls your erections by touching one of your nerves.. (this part of your brain is sub concious and also controls your dreams) dont worry about. He may think that you were weird.. but thats all that happened..

 

[Sarah]

No, you weren't turned on at all. When you're stressed the blood flows to the arms and legs, preparing you for a fight-or-flight response. When you're relaxed the blood flows more to different areas of the body, including the brain and internal organs. Getting a female therapist doesn't do a thing at all to change this situation!

You don't have to apologize or even feel strange about it. We see it all the time and ignore it. Don't worry, we don't leave the room and snicker to our co-workers, either!

 

[Woooolfff]

I would have made a pass at him.

 

[Christie]

well its anothere person touching u so its only natural that something like that will happen its nerve endings and NO u r not gayy

 

[Month]

dw, it's completely normal. u were relaxed and ur body was being stimulated all over. ur not gay. not that there is n e thin wrong with that

 

[Zach F]

If you are straight you don't get massaged by a guy.

 

[ngantuk99]

That's totally normal man. Its all to do with being very relaxed and bloody circulation being promoted by the masseuse. He would have seen it a million times before. I had an ayurvedic message a few years back. I actually fell asleep and woke up with a hard on - the guy didn't seem to notice one tiny bit. To be honest, and maybe this is just me, I would feel more comfortable about that happening in front of a guy than a girl. Other guys know what erections are like and are understanding about it. It's a guy thing, not a perverted thing. No need to apologise.