I'm 15, he's 17. How to introduce him to my STRICT Asian parents?

[lyssa]

My dad doesn't want me dating until I'm 30. Literally.
Honestly, I've had sex already. I've done everything.
And everything I've done, was behind his back. I was a little wh*re.
I've had over 17 boyfriends.
But this one is different.
I want to introduce him to my dad.
I don't want to have to hide anything with him, I want to be with him so bad.
He goes to a different school than me, so it would be hard to date behind his back.
He's very strict, and so is my stepmom.
How do I get him to like him, and to approve of our relationship?

 

[Whodie Who]

Just cook *a lot* of rice. That's like the asian form of alcohol, right?

 

[John Dess]

if youve been with 17 guys and your just 15... do yourself a favor and dont introduce him to your parents. the relationship wont make it past your 18th birthday.

 

[Jennifer]

Wow. You MUST be Korean...

 

[ChrissyBar]

You calling yourself a little wh*re concerns me. That is the thing I think you should be focusing on. I do believe that having sex at 15 is too young but you're obvioiously doing it so I hope that you're being safe. You have to remember that pregnancy is not the only thing to worry about, STDs are very scary and I hope that you understand that.

In any case you did not ask me for a lecture you asked for advice about your boyfriend and your father. There is never a simple answer to these situations, especially at your age. If both parents are extremely strict there isn't one parent you can lean on as opposed to the other. My suggestion is that you bring up the conversation about dating with your father without bringing up that you are seeing someone already. Try and create some sort of compromise with him that will make him comfortable.

Ex.
You will only date on the weekends.
He will meet the boy before any dates.
The boy will come over so your father could discuss ground rules with him before the date. (This tends to make parents feel more comfortable)
You father can talk to the boys parents before any dates.

If this works out and once he agrees to this then bring up that there is a specific boy that you would like to date. He can't like someone that he doesn't want to give a chance so make sure that he wants to give this guy a chance before he even meets him.

 

[xtayxterrorx]

I suggest being honest with your dad and say that you really like this boy. And if he doesn't like that just tell him, it could and will be worse, if he won't accept your choice in guys. This boy maybe the father of his grandchildren in the future