I want to ask my husband to introduce TOYS during Sex. HOW?

[Katie]

We've been married for 3 years, I'm not forward and I'm very timid. Our sex life is frequent, short and monotnus...missionary everytime, never done anything different...tried doggy style a few times but he NEVER will initiate it. I feel like a FREAK for wanting more. I dont know how to ask him without feeling that way. Please help

 

[dot]

"I dont no how to ask him " your not a 10yr old in a sweet shop y do u av to ask ? Married 3yrs an its still missionary how borin ??
Why do women think men should allways dominate in the bedroom ?
its the one place u should let your feelins go for it some men like bien dominated an u never no he might even like it ??
Give im egg an chips every nite 4 is tea he wood soon b bored wiv that same as u r just lyin there while he gets all the pleasure u go 4 it gel u aint even got off the startin block yet ??? lol

 

[Shαnnδn]

If you introduce toys now you might make him lazy.
You're going to go off within a few minutes with him and the toy so he might not have any incentive to try harder.
Even if he does want to try harder, he won't know how on Earth to compete with a vibrator. "Sing the alphabet"?

That said, if it's not happening otherwise... get the toys out.

 

[ne14funstuff]

First let me say, You are my hero. I wish my wife wanted to introduce toys. Anyway, you may want to start with a book of different sexual positions or something like that and build up to introducing toys. You can tell him you saw the book and thought it would be fun for the two of you to try some new things and see how he reacts. Good Luck.

 

[Verbal]

Don't ask girl take control!!! Sometimes you have to back that @ss up for him!!! Hopefully he will do the rest!!!

 

[Dr. Evil]

Just tell him that you want to spice up the sex life. Maybe he wants some TOYS too, but maybe he's too shy about it. If you don't tell him, then maybe your sex life will be cut short

 

[mrs_g2]

One Saturday night, make some Margaritas (or whatever you might drink), and mention it when you are both relaxed and tipsy-- he'll be much more open to the idea then. You could even have a toy hidden away to break out if he goes for the idea.

 

[Smoke]

If you can't get more than one sexual position out of your husband, I wouldn't bring up toys, otherwise he'll have a heart attack!!!

Why don't you explore sexually without the toys first because it seems to me there is plenty of unexplored ground that can be fulfilling without bringing in toys.

Do not feel like a freak for asking for certain things in the bedroom. If we don't ask, trust me, most husbands wouldn't care to guess what gets us off.

I ask my husband for everything and without telling him what you like, how do you expect him to know what works for you.

You're an adult woman, who is a healthy sexual being, you have the right to get yours.
There is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed of.

 

[Lava Girl]

You should already have some toys just for yourself..c'mon, you have to have some kind of pleasure without cheating in your life. I would just come right out and tell him, Honey, Ive been thinking about trying a sex toy and see how he reacts..OR..go buy some toys and tell him that you puchased them at a hoem toy show that you attended w/ your girlfriends and see how he reacts then

 

[DelightfulDevilishDreams]

Maybe you could start by watching a sexy movie together (toy themed) and bring on the idea this way. Or, you could start with toys for couples such as vibrating ring...

 

[seductress]

Go and get one yourself, then just bring it out when you are about to get it on. I guarantee he will not have one bad thing to day. He will not say anything at all because he will have no more blood left in his brain.

 

[Big Hard Hammer]

My wife said the same thing to me, 'hey let's get some toys for sex.'

So the next time the lights were low and the mood was hot, I whipped out my GI Joe with 'kung fu grip' and my Tonka truck.

No wonder it's Tuesday and she's not home...

 

[IslandArtiste]

Order some toys online - get tipsy together - and start playing!

 

[Raj]

cumon, he's ur hubby..just go ahead and ask him..or order sex toys online and show it to him when in bed...get some sexy lingerie from victoria secrets...make your bedroom beautiful..watch porn together..and then tell him u want to try the things they are trying in the porn movie...

btw, sex life does become monotonous after a while and with the same person..lol

 

[Kiles]

Just talk to him.

 

[Gladiator]

How could you marry a man that you're afraid to talk to. This is incredible. How are we going to know how to talk TO YOUR husband?