I am too shy to ask this girl I like out or even go up and introduce myself or...

[Morgan Black]

...talk to her. What do I do? I go to gymnastics, I am 15 and this girl looks about my age and she is stunningly beautiful. She is not in my group but we are near eachother sometimes. I go to gym once a week for two hours and have been going for two years and still I am too shy! I can't even go up and say hi or introduce myself or talk or anything! What should I do?

 

[gloob]

as a totally objective girl point of view, if a random guy came up to me and started a convo i would be utterly fine with it. have you watched she's the man? any convo is a good one, ask her if she likes cheese? just bring up something. like hey do you know where this is..? and yeah, don't store it all in your head. you ve got to start talkin you may never know, she may feel the same.

 

[Paul]

Take things one step at a time and don't go the the next step until you've received a positive response regarding the step you're on. 1- smile - that's it - just smile at her - a nice easy smile; 2- smile and raise you hand up about half way to your shoulder in a hi sign when you first see her; 3- smile, raise you hand and say Hi. (Now since you haven't exploded or dropped dead, at least not yet, you should have gained a little confidence - plus she has responded positively to each step you've taken. Soooo 4- Smile, raise your hand, say Hi - then all of a sudden like you just thought of it take enough steps toward her so you can say something and say, "Hey, my name is George. What's yours?" bla bla "Great. Glad to meet you Suzie, now at least I have a name to put with the Hi." smile and walk away; 5- Smile, raise your hand, say Hi, Suzie - and when you're ready (another I just thought of something) "Hey, Suzie, why don't we hang out sometime? I'd really like to get to know your better."

If you will take each of thsoe steps when you are comfortable AND have received positive feedback from her, you will have made significant steps toward getting over the shyness. Good luck.

 

[Al Gebra]

Throw up, girl's find it cute. I would know I was a male homecoming queen.