There is a number of things you can do.. For example:
You can go to different lunch tables so when you go to hers it is not strange.
Make an observation about the enviornment when she is in the vacinity.
You can tie your shoe or get some water if you see her coming, and then if she goes by you, say oh I did not see you there and start a conversation.
You can see if you have any mutual friends in common and talk that way.
There are lots of other ways I have forgotten because I have used to many, but if you think outside the box, and can still improvise once a plan is in motion then you should be set. Get the head knowledge from other peoples advice but most importantly, learn to trust your instincts.
Good Luck!
Hey, do you have any advice for me? My situation is very unique.
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