My boyfriend (to be) is 5 years older than me. I am in school and he has been out for 3 years. I really do like him a lot and i want to be with him, yet my parents are very overprotective and i doubt they will let me be with him. Considering it is close to Christmas, i would like him to come to our family Christmas dinner so he can meet them and we could all get on. Is this the best idea? Should I do something else? Because i really would like to be with this guy and i don't want my parents interfering. Yes he is older but there is nothing of him that needs to be hidden. Yet parents often freak out simply because of the age difference and don't even want to get to know the person! How do I make this work and what should i do?