How often do you go to a spa for a session?

[TheIceman]

Expensive hobby.
Can become addictive.

I was wondering how often you folks participate in a session?

I used to drop in once a month. Years ago.
Then didn’t go to a spa for 15 years and just started again.
I was looking to go once a week. Trying to keep it to once every two weeks now.

 

[epic slide]

1.5 /wk

 

[Sundance69]

Expensive hobby.
Can become addictive.

I was wondering how often you folks participate in a session?

I used to drop in once a month. Years ago.
Then didn’t go to a spa for 15 years and just started again.
I was looking to go once a week. Trying to keep it to once every two weeks now.

Seems I'm getting a little long in the tooth here, I think I've been visiting now for close to eight years now or so.
I started slow, maybe a visit every 2 or 3 weeks, and within a year or two, was visiting weekly.

I think I had 3 years where I visited various spas close to 200 times annually, yes I know a bit insane.
I can state that I have visited at least 1200 times seeing 350 girls over the last 8 years, I can state upon review, a bit of a crazy run.

In 2023, I visited 193 times, so a little crazy frankly, addictive, having both time and money was fortunate.
In 2024, I've not visited as much, last year was only 93 visits, I had a new lady friend, so frequency was down.

Some of my favourites over that period of time I may have seen 60 to 80 times, they are all still working.
There were a few girls I saw weekly for a year or more, sometimes twice a week. I know maybe 20 - 25 girls intimately as far as spa girls go.

Given changes in my lifestyle and playing a little more golf and having a personal lady friend or two, the last few months have been incredibly light in visits.
October - 9 / Nov - 6 / Dec - 4 and so far in January only 2, but plan to get out tomorrow.

2025, I anticipate between 4 and 8 visits monthly, I do miss the girls, most are quite special in their own way.
I project between 60 - 80 visits in 2025, mostly local, and likely just seem my regular girls, a small list of 6 girls.

So to your point, it's time consuming, it's addictive, it's expensive .... yet, it can be a very healthy hobby.
Expensive items like alcohol, drugs, cars, golf, leaf games, raptor games, jays games are very expensive as well.

Happy New Year!

 

[Sundance69]

1.5 /wk

60 to 80 visits annually. Congrats!

 

[Stephen Dedalus]

At least once each week for me over the past 5 or 6 years.

 

[DPNY2]

I’m in the 3-4 sessions a week for the last 8-10 years.

 

[barefeet]

Twice a week but planning to do it 6 per month only. It's an expensive hobby!

 

[Sundance69]

I’m in the 3-4 sessions a week for the last 8-10 years.

Good for you .... question, are you not a little bit, or just a little bit "bored or less enthusiastic" over time. I've found that my visiting has been reduced, kind of like "been there, done that" .... appreciate your comments.

 

[DPNY2]

Good for you .... question, are you not a little bit, or just a little bit "bored or less enthusiastic" over time. I've found that my visiting has been reduced, kind of like "been there, done that" .... appreciate your comments.

Yes, our experiences seem similar. I have close contact with many girls that I have known for years. But yes, I try others because I love the thrill of the unknown, and finding the new gem out there.

 

[peaceofmind]

Good for you .... question, are you not a little bit, or just a little bit "bored or less enthusiastic" over time. I've found that my visiting has been reduced, kind of like "been there, done that" .... appreciate your comments.

Been at this for just over a year now, and I feel like it happens in waves. There are periods where even twice a week feels too less. There's so much variety in spas and the kinds of services girls offer, each girl has her unique personality and skills, so it's always exciting to see old favourites and discover new ones over time. But, conversely, there are periods where it can also feel very jaded. Especially when you're constantly on that hunt for a unicorn with all the perfect qualities (it's never enough).

Best advice I've gotten from people who have been at this for years is, keep a select pool of 3-4 favourites at any point in time, stick to 1-2 times a week at most and don't keep seeking new experiences for the heck of it.

 

[superdick]

Expensive hobby.
Can become addictive.

I was wondering how often you folks participate in a session?

I used to drop in once a month. Years ago.
Then didn’t go to a spa for 15 years and just started again.
I was looking to go once a week. Trying to keep it to once every two weeks now

The weekly quotient determines where I am at any particular time with "my addiction".

......but for me another important number is the average "cash layout" of my desired service.

HJ just doesn't do it for me.........maybe in my ROOK period some (20+ years ago).
Now my minimum is a body slide or or close when free lancing, FULL MENU is expected with my regulars (usually a set $$$ amount).
I have had regulars 1/52 x 2-3 years periods with the occasional free lancing excursions during and between regs.,
One year I def went over the $10,000 threshold ( for me that was expensive but no regrets.
Gotta dial it back as I get older. Many reasons

 

[Surgeon1936]

Seems I'm getting a little long in the tooth here, I think I've been visiting now for close to eight years now or so.
I started slow, maybe a visit every 2 or 3 weeks, and within a year or two, was visiting weekly.

I think I had 3 years where I visited various spas close to 200 times annually, yes I know a bit insane.
I can state that I have visited at least 1200 times seeing 350 girls over the last 8 years, I can state upon review, a bit of a crazy run.

In 2023, I visited 193 times, so a little crazy frankly, addictive, having both time and money was fortunate.
In 2024, I've not visited as much, last year was only 93 visits, I had a new lady friend, so frequency was down.

Some of my favourites over that period of time I may have seen 60 to 80 times, they are all still working.
There were a few girls I saw weekly for a year or more, sometimes twice a week. I know maybe 20 - 25 girls intimately as far as spa girls go.

Given changes in my lifestyle and playing a little more golf and having a personal lady friend or two, the last few months have been incredibly light in visits.
October - 9 / Nov - 6 / Dec - 4 and so far in January only 2, but plan to get out tomorrow.

2025, I anticipate between 4 and 8 visits monthly, I do miss the girls, most are quite special in their own way.
I project between 60 - 80 visits in 2025, mostly local, and likely just seem my regular girls, a small list of 6 girls.

So to your point, it's time consuming, it's addictive, it's expensive .... yet, it can be a very healthy hobby.
Expensive items like alcohol, drugs, cars, golf, leaf games, raptor games, jays games are very expensive as well.

Happy New Year!

See Amber from SL 3-times every week

 

[IceManJones]

60 to 80 visits annually. Congrats!

Seems I'm getting a little long in the tooth here, I think I've been visiting now for close to eight years now or so.
I started slow, maybe a visit every 2 or 3 weeks, and within a year or two, was visiting weekly.

I think I had 3 years where I visited various spas close to 200 times annually, yes I know a bit insane.
I can state that I have visited at least 1200 times seeing 350 girls over the last 8 years, I can state upon review, a bit of a crazy run.

In 2023, I visited 193 times, so a little crazy frankly, addictive, having both time and money was fortunate.
In 2024, I've not visited as much, last year was only 93 visits, I had a new lady friend, so frequency was down.

Some of my favourites over that period of time I may have seen 60 to 80 times, they are all still working.
There were a few girls I saw weekly for a year or more, sometimes twice a week. I know maybe 20 - 25 girls intimately as far as spa girls go.

Given changes in my lifestyle and playing a little more golf and having a personal lady friend or two, the last few months have been incredibly light in visits.
October - 9 / Nov - 6 / Dec - 4 and so far in January only 2, but plan to get out tomorrow.

2025, I anticipate between 4 and 8 visits monthly, I do miss the girls, most are quite special in their own way.
I project between 60 - 80 visits in 2025, mostly local, and likely just seem my regular girls, a small list of 6 girls.

So to your point, it's time consuming, it's addictive, it's expensive .... yet, it can be a very healthy hobby.
Expensive items like alcohol, drugs, cars, golf, leaf games, raptor games, jays games are very expensive as well.

Happy New Year!

Living the dream man. My problem is I have the time, but not enough money LOL. I could sure use a rich uncle passing away about now

 

[Sundance69]

Been at this for just over a year now, and I feel like it happens in waves. There are periods where even twice a week feels too less. There's so much variety in spas and the kinds of services girls offer, each girl has her unique personality and skills, so it's always exciting to see old favourites and discover new ones over time. But, conversely, there are periods where it can also feel very jaded. Especially when you're constantly on that hunt for a unicorn with all the perfect qualities (it's never enough).

Best advice I've gotten from people who have been at this for years is, keep a select pool of 3-4 favourites at any point in time, stick to 1-2 times a week at most and don't keep seeking new experiences for the heck of it.

Thanks I have an MP friend here that says the same thing .... once a week and a pool of 4 girls, and try a new girl every month or so. I'm at that stage now ...

 

[Sundance69]

See Amber from SL 3-times every week

Wow, same girl, good for you, good synergy that's for certain, I've had the same a few times .... but only a few ...

 

[SGicz]

I guess another question should be...is there a correlation between the number of visits and our age? I feel like older, possibly retired, folks have more time to dabble on a weekly basis. Which, if that's the case, I'm extremely jealous lol

 

[Surgeon1936]

I guess another question should be...is there a correlation between the number of visits and our age? I feel like older, possibly retired, folks have more time to dabble on a weekly basis. Which, if that's the case, I'm extremely jealous lol

no correlation. I am very busy but always have time to see my honey

 

[Hoosier]

I guess another question should be...is there a correlation between the number of visits and our age? I feel like older, possibly retired, folks have more time to dabble on a weekly basis. Which, if that's the case, I'm extremely jealous lol

Idle time fans the flame for certain, and especially so during the winter season.
I try to keep it once a week, but it’s challenging during the colder weather.

 

[DPNY2]

I guess another question should be...is there a correlation between the number of visits and our age? I feel like older, possibly retired, folks have more time to dabble on a weekly basis. Which, if that's the case, I'm extremely jealous lol

I’m 50

 

[daty869]

Great question and lots of meaningful feedback from esteemed members..
I started at 42 (17 years ago) by being introduced by my wife to massages.. at first legit then.. well I met Maria…
I started once a month during my wife ‘s period.. then twice a month for about a year..
I started working on downtown Toronto, many late nights at work near Spadina and Queen.. twice a week at the seediest places - $60 specials from NOW magazine type..
one thing led to another and before I realized it it was three times a week, usually at lunch or between meetings..
after several years , probably 10, I decided to pick 4 ladies and see them once a month telling them that I only visit the spa once a month and they were the only one I I would see.. their periods were at different cycles and all went well until COVID.. then only one girl would let me in through the rear door at the spa .. only saw her during covid - except for three that I didn’t repeat with.. after Covid I tried to replace my four friends and tried almost everyone between Hurontario and Brontë …
I now have three ladies that I see, 1 significantly more than the others and looking to add a another to the mix.. maybe two..
my budget is $10,000 per year which I went over a bit this year, I always (90%) give $160 for and hour and it’s up to the lady to make me want to return.. last count I have 80 visits this past year.. but went an 8 day run in December with 6 visits, with 2 one day.. spa owner asked my age . …
So back to the OP… I’m 59 and like to keep it to 6 or 8 appointments a month..
remember to enjoy the moment because some of the girls do think this way, as soon as you’re gone, you’re gone… they wait for the next $$160 bill or 20 minute $50 bill, doesn’t matter… they are working… many are very nice ladies, I’m a nice guy too , but at work - I work….
Sorry for the two bourbon epistle but if you have a chance to Google the works of Bowser and Blue…
Look up their version of La Bamba…
“ My name is Pancho,
I work at the rancho,
I make 5 pesos a day,
I go to see Lucy,
She give me her pussy,
And take all my pesos away..

Known a few Lucy’s in my days, including now..
Just checked my wallet.. $25 dollars.. no visit tomorrow..

Cheers