im 17 he is 20. In illinois thats legal, (not that we are having sex bc we arent). In my moms eyes thats probably like rape even though my dad is four years older than her?! Im her little girl the fourth daughter, the last one to leave the nest. My sisters dated but always somebody there age and i dont know how she will react. to add to this problem we meet on facebook we have dated for over a month but we have known each other for longer. He is in love w me ( im not in love w him), and he wants to meet my parents. I want to invite him over but im afraid it will be like WW2 if i do. Ive told my mom i have a boyfriend she doesn't believe me. I want to spend time w him w her knowlege, but i am afraid to introduce them. . . help