He introduced me to his family we had chemistry,and fun hanging out,but he...

[Aman]

...doesn't want to be bf/gf? I was dating this guy for past two months.. and it was great.. In fact we started to get close. we got along great.. understood each others time and scheduling.. it was good, we were having fun. I met his family many times.. he invited me over for dinners and movies.. we hung out a lot.. things were fine. till one day, i asked if it was alright for us to (call each other bf/gf)make it official because everyone told me that its not a relationship till u guys make it official.. so i thought we can have a convo over it.. but i didn't know that he will come out of no where one day to tell me.. he is not ready for the bf/gf thing.. or being in a serious relationship (never asked him to be in serious relationship) i have no idea what went on his head.... well he still wanted to see me, but still didn't wanted to make official (bf/gf).. maybe i shouldn't have asked him that question at all? i havn't called him or text for a week now.. but i do like him..and i miss being with him.. how can i fix this and maybe ask him to start dating again.. maybe this time we can take things slowly.. day by day?

i think i nagged him too much.. he was way to confusing..he had no idea what he wanted..b.c just couple weeks ago.. i told him that idk why ppl keep on telling me to make it official, i guess we have to do that..( lesson learned not to listen to people too much)... he said he was waiting for the right moment.and than i asked again after valentines day.. thats when things went down hill...

PS we did not fight.. we talked about it.. and i guess we were not on same page so we called it quits.. or i called it quits..and told him i dont want any communication with him ..so ever since ..i haven't heard frm him..nor i have called him...but i do want us to be back together again...what should i do..how should i initiate the conversation.?..