Did a tofft's test for myself

[Bob the Knob]

Ok. Last night I decided to go visit a place that has had average to below average reviews on here.

I now have another delightful lady on my repeat list.

She was friendly cute and had a sweet little giggle.

Massage was not really Theraputic so in that respect for some, she could be a huge fail. For me it sort of fit her personality. A nice Swedish relaxing massage. Covered my entire body, including head and face massage.

Half way through the massage we had already determined any extras and I was teased throughout the remainder of the massage until the end where this little lady set aside ample time to ensure I rec'd a delightful reward for my patience.

It was one of my most pleasurable finishes in a long time. My hands were allowed to roam as this angel smiled and constantly asked how I was enjoying her touch.

Drove home as the snow fluttered around in the sky, smiling and thinking my whole evening was a pleasant and delightful way to end my day.

No names, sorry. I don't want her to be flooded with calls. Her name has appeared on here and I was fortunate to be greeted by her as I came in as a walk in.

I am no model, I am old, but try to look presentable in appearance and certainly do my best to make my massage lady comfortable when I see them.

I was more than happy with the results of an unsure chance I took as a walk in.

Maybe I am aligned with the full moon and comet we will have tonight. Any way, I thank my lucky stars for my voyage last night.

 

[Wills_willie]

Hey Bob. This sounds more like a dream than a real life experience, sure you were awake?

 

[Bob the Knob]

For the sake of the lady and the location I felt it is in the best interest to not reveal.

The point being, many reviewers trashed the place and some of the ladies, this one in particular. So in my venture, I was simply trying to note that YMMV is surely a possibility, but more importantly, I think it is how you present yourself for a positive experience.

Don't get me wrong, I have had my share of disappointing trials and tribulations over the years. In this case, I found it extremely upbeat and very little hesitation to expand services available with the massage, contrary to reports on the location and the ladies working there.

 

[Bob the Knob]

Hey Bob. This sounds more like a dream than a real life experience, sure you were awake?

Yes it felt like a dream.

 

[Jelloguy]

Like others - no offence but this is a wasted post, sounds more like a gloat or a Na Na look what I had and you can't.

I guess if we all did that the purpose of this site is?

 

[dtoole]

For the sake of the lady and the location I felt it is in the best interest to not reveal.

The point being, many reviewers trashed the place and some of the ladies, this on in particular. So in my venture, I was simply trying to note that YMMV is surely a possibility, but more importantly, I think it is how you present yourself for a positive experience.

Don't get me wrong, I have had my share of disappointing trials and tribulations over the years. In this case, I found it extremely upbeat and very little hesitation to expand services available with the massage, contrary to reports on the location and the ladies working there.

I understand your reasoning to keep the name private, but would you be able to share your "techniques" on how you converted someone? For example, I always try to make sure I'm very presentable (shower before, dress nicely, on-time etc.), but I have trouble bringing up the topic of extras (when? what to say?).

I can't speak for everyone but I've had quite of a lot of "legit-only" massages but sometimes... I wonder. There are other times where I will go back a few times just to check (which is expensive but I just put it as part of a "information acquisition cost"). So instead of sharing a name would you care to share what worked (even if it's YMMV)?

 

[Bob the Knob]

Sorry to have offended anyone. Not my purpose. I was really trying to say, "as much as this place and ladies were not getting favorable reviews, I was surprised to visit and without any suggestive comments for extras, was able to have a very good experience".

I won't reveal the place or lady in respect for her working situation, as the location may in fact frown upon the extra service and cause her problems.

I guess it kinda relates to another post of mine regarding how we prepare ourselves and present ourselves to the ladies, in turn receiving favorable service levels. "Dtoole" made a comment which referred to what the review was actually intended for. How we present ourselves when visiting these places.

I was surprised by my session going the way it did based on previous posts for this operation.

I am not trying to brag, but perhaps bring some light back onto the subject of how we as gentlemen approach these ladies and the results thereafter.

And of course, at the end of the day, it can still be YMMV.

I was told by one popular gal that after a very busy day, a walk in came in last hr of the evening. Right away he was pushing for extras, trying to cop a feel and get the lady to paly with him.
She was tired and wasn't going to give in to him. He left without paying even for the massage. She said if he had been less aggressive, more friendly and let things move along, she would probably provided a HJ and some touching, but he blew his chances out of the water at the get go.

So some of our experiences may be as a result of how we started things out in the first place. I am a firm believer in looking at myself and how I respond to situations when I try to figure out why things went astray when it came to interactions with people. In most cases, my own reactions caused the end result or response I rec'd. So rather than try to change someone else's character, I change the way I interact. It goes a long way, and people respond differently without even noticing what is happening. End result Happy Ending, lol. In every aspect of life.

 

[justagigalo]

I can understand some of Bobs reasoning although I do not totally agree with it. Some information would be nice although ues some people may flood her with requests and this sort of thing may not be in her normal repitiore. I am sure that some of us have waht we hope are our own hidden little gems and see lovely ladies that we would wish to keep for ourselves or we would hope do things that are just for us lol. But I do agree that a little more info would be nice at least the place.

 

[Bob the Knob]

If I mentioned the place, the parking lot would not hold all you hound dogs, lol

 

[justagigalo]

Haha probably right but after reading your second post it sounds as if some discretion must be maintained.

 

[WasPOP]

So Bob, how much did you spend in total, and how much of it was the tip? That could be a big factor!

Also was she or the place an RMT? So receipts available? ( I know you normally don't ask).

 

[Bob the Knob]

$160 (a bit more than some, but from what I read for here it seems standard) - yes receipt avail, but I didn't get one this time around.

 

[Guy2013]

If I mentioned the place, the parking lot would not hold all you hound dogs, lol

Sadly that is often the reality. I have held my tongue about some of my finds that took time to cultivate for that very reason. Many RMT's will provide extra's once they get to know a client, but they don't want to become known for it

 

[Bob the Knob]

i guess if guys don't want to share their best finds so that the place isn't over run by the rest of crazies, whats the point of coming to this forum anymore? i guess i shouldn't share mine anymore either then. i guess we'll go back to talking about the same handful of places and ladies and blah blah blah.

You sir are totally missing my point.

 

[justagigalo]

I think what Bob is trying to say is that discretion is the order of the day and also does not want this lady getting in trouble.

 

[Wills_willie]

Oh no. Luvsluvs on this thread throwing out his comments. Good bye to this thread. Won't be back to it.

 

[luckydog]

I get your point Bob and am good with it. I come here to learn about experiences, not only possible referrals. I tried to share some of this stuff myself (though if I recall Bob you kinda poo-pooed me when I didn't divulge a name but this is a another day!) Your story reminds me that there are many sides of a story and that bad reviews do not always mean bad experiences for everyone. I have toyed with the idea of starting a discussion that is about these kinds of stories (without names being mentioned). I have a few to tell so maybe that is the way to go. Anyway I am good with what you posted and respect others who have a different point of view.

 

[Bob the Knob]

Oh no. Luvsluvs on this thread throwing out his comments. Good bye to this thread. Won't be back to it.

I see you two are good friends,

 

[Wills_willie]

I lied. I'm back. Just couldn't take his comments in fake sunny. As to keeping some of those great jems to yourself I'm with you. You come across a real nice lady and I'm not sure I'd want to put her name out there for all us horny bastards to start overwhelming the poor girl.

 

[Old Fart]

I see your point Bob, and I respect discretion as I'd hate to see a lady get into trouble. If that is your logic, perhaps best to just post a general comment supported by a past experience. I agree with you 100% because I too have seen ladies (escorts included) that have had negative reviews and had a fantastic time with them just because I was a perfect gentleman. To me, that goes without saying, regarding ANY lady.

Some ladies just do NOT provide extras regardless how nice you are to them, cuz they just don't. Others do but the extent will vary with how the guy treats them. A purpose of this board is to find out which side of the fence a lady is on. I can see too, in the case of a lady who NEVER does but will with ONE customer because of a special connection they have. In that case, it is best not to post anything (i.e.. do not post who but also do not post a, "Guess what I got from my RMT today, but I'm not gonna tell you who' thread).

I have seen ladies who I will not repeat with so have to disagree with your assessment of filling up her parking lot just because you had a good time. I for one, would love to find out who you are referring to and agree with those who feel that this post is of no value otherwise. We would hate to foster this attitude of people coming here to leech info but not provide any because 'that's what everyone else does'. You are a great contributor here but I think this is one thread that could have been left in your mind.