adive for a newbie lolita?

[Brianna Fuertes]

hello my name is brianna i am 17 and have been getting into the lolita fashion lately i have always been a frilly girly girl and thats why i am in love with the sweet lolita fashion i have bought two dresses so far bloomers a petticoat and maryJane's a also have many bows and hats to wear with it as long as stocking i do not have a parasol yet i was just curious of anyone had any advice for me
1) i am very nervous about wearing it too school! although i am not very sensitive and dont care what people think i am exited but i also have butterflies
2) i am looking alot into the "lolita lifestyle" so any advice on how a lolita should be would be great
3) also please give me some advice on sweet lolita fashion
4) what are some online communties that i can take part in a live in a very small town and i think i am the only lolita here i would like to meet other lolitas
i have done alot of research but would love to hear some adive from actual lolitas!! , thank you for your time!
<3Bri-Bri<3

 

[Chan]

i'm going to suggest this girl to you,

http://www.youtube.com/user/LoliSourGrapes?feature=mhum

Her channel is good for noobs so pay attention, she helps both gothic lolita and sweet lolitas.
You got any questions just ask her, shes very helpful.


2) lolita "lifestyle" dosen't exsist, it's only a persona girls put on at meet ups, really it's all a lie! Even in japan all lolitas are just normal people that dress up for fun, thats all it really is.

 

[Chloe]

here is a link for the whole lifestyle
http://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Lifestyle-Lolita