A review of Bex

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I went to Bex recently, on the general recommendation of this forum. There's a sign out front which points to Bex parking in the back somewhere, but when I drove around back, I saw a suspicious looking homeless looking guy who appeared to live back there staring at my car, so I decided to park out front on the street instead.

When I came in, and decided on the 45 minutes versus the longer stays, and paid the $50 room fee, I was immediately shown to a room and told I could take a shower. After I did, a girl came in, I asked her name, she said it was Eewa or Iwa or something, spelling unknown.

Is this common, to have a random girl sent directly to the room without you being able to choose one? I didn't care for this, I expected to be able to choose from a group, or at least to be told there was only one available, this is her, do you want her?

She almost immediately turned the lights way down. Then she had me lie on the table and gave me a 20 minute or so massage. The massage was decent enough, although my conclusion having done it (first time in a massage place) is that I'm more interested in the sex than the massage and that I'd have rather spent the 20 minutes doing more interesting things

Eventually she asked me if I was interested in full service, I said yes, and she asked how much. I said, "you tell me how much". She sort of paused and mumbled, she was waiting for an offer from me for some reason, so I said, "I've heard it's $150", and she said ok.

I'm not the sort to go into great detail about sexual experiences, but DATY, CBJ, were involved. No digits, she pulled away when I tried.

I'm really not sure how I'd rate her. I didn't care at all for the darkness of the room, it made it hard to tell how attractive she was generally, so I can't rate that. Not sure how old she was either. Young enough, normally shaped female body. I couldn't see the clock due to the darkness, so I couldn't time things as I'm usually able to do. (I try to time things so I come towards the end of the time allotted)

She was friendly enough. And, they didn't appear to be watching the clock too closely, as including the 2 showers I took I think I was in there an hour, having only paid for 45 minutes.

Overally I didn't care for the experience, due to having a random woman being sent to the room, the room being darker than I'd have liked it, and the general inconvenience of sexual acts on a narrow massage table.

Question for the Bex fans: why an MP and not just an escort? Do you value the 20 minute massage first? To me, it's just 20 minutes I'd rather spend doing more interesting things, but we all have our own preferences. I mean, I >liked< the massage, it felt good, but then I like watching the Simpsons on tv. But I don't have to spend $200 an hour to watch the simpsons.


By the way, to make this one of the few messages on Bex which the search engine will find, I shall type the following. Bexxx xxBex xxBexxx. You can now find this message, and this thread, with a search on bex*, *bex, or even *bex*.

 

[LRTownsend]

I've never had the experience of them just sending a girl to your room. I guess because I always just sit in the chair facing the door and look like I'm expecting something. The last time the mama-san said some girls were going to come by. She sent 3, one at a time. Afterward, she showed up and asked for which one. I said none of them, I wanted to see more. Then she sent another 10 (after I heard what seemed to be grumbling in the backroom from her about it).

As for the last girl I had, I got to use full digits, as many in the pussy including a finger way up the asshole. Didn't bother trying DATY - as I don't do that unless the girl is completely shaved very very clean and has very thin pussy lips (I hate sloppy pussies, especially those with lots of hair, pussy lips that look like hanging liver flaps, etc). I don't think any of those BEX girls would allow DATY. The last one let me DFK her to my hearts content. I probably could have pushed for Greek, and she certainly enjoyed a doggy style pounding.

You should be able to press to see all the girls at Bex... just look like you expect it. Maybe when you first go in, say a few words to the mama-san like "who's here? Which girls are new... send them all by".

 

[sophiesmummy]

I've only been to a few MPs here (Happy Girl, etc. here but more internationally), but I think it is important to immediately request a change when things are not going the way you like. If you wait for things to get better automatically you are most likely going to be disappointed in some ways.

If they send in a girl, ask to see all the girls. If the girl turns down the lights, tell her you want them all the way up (or to your preferred level). If they refuse, polietly ask to see the mamasan, another girl, etc.

Also, luckily you had a good experience with the clock, but next time you go to a new place clarify if the shower is included in the time and ask if they make any notification calls some period before the end (some make 10 or 15 min alert calls and some girls will even try to stop then).

Finally, she gave you an opportunity to negotiate, so maybe try to use the opportunity (some places it is apparently possible to negotiate down to 120 or even 100, so you may want to try that). And just because the girl says a number, it doesn't mean that you can't propose a counter-offer if you are comfortable with that. Make sure you establish what that covers (CBJ, multiple positions, DFK, DATY, etc.). If you are looking for more (MSOG, etc.) negotiate for that up front.

Hope that helps.

 

[jacob]

I agree that all the good advice has been given. Being firm is not being rude...you're the customer; you pay, you say. As said, they probably sent in a random girl because you didn't ask, and it keeps the girls happy. So if they don't offer, just ask. This is a general routine for every MP I visit, helps cut down on being disappointed. =)

On the note of the massage itself, I actually value it...yes I go in part for the massage, and not just for the other services. =) There's something about being pampered and the sensual touch that lead up to the arousal...but maybe that's just me, so whatever floats your boat. If ya gotta go, ya gotta go, right? =) Also, since you're gonna tip her regardless of which service you choose, you might as well make it worth your while...but again, that's just my opinion.

 

[SARAHH]

I'm sorry but I kinda feel there's a negative vibe towards Bex. I just want to say that you can't blame Bex because they didn't round up the girls for you. You simply didn't ask..that is the disadvantage of being a newbie. I've been to many MPs and before I knew there were reviewboards like this I always got whoever they sent to me. I think that helps those "disadvantage" grils (ie. look, weight etc.) to have some businesses. Otherwise every customers will choose the prettiest or skinniest girl and everything else will have to sit out. Now Chris, you learned your lesson and you know what to do next time you visit one of those MPs.
Regarding to your massage question, I'm sure those girls would love to take your money and not giving you the massage. Massage drains their energy, and if the customers don't want to have one it will just make them happier. I remember a girl told me one of her customer came and went straight to FS. She put a condom on and stroked him a few times and maybe some bj, then he came w/o the insertion. They love to have this kind of customers, because they make the same amount of money in less amount of time. I'm sure you'll like the easy money like that. Anyway, the lesson here is you learn from mistake, and have fun next time.

P.S. I don't know if that customer paid the FS price or just the BJ, but that's not important.

 

[candy]

Hey Chris I agree with alot of the other guys here. And being firm is not being rude. Whoever is running the desk has to try and keep all of the girls in rotation. That and try to build a client base for the new girls. Tough to keep everyone happy. Generally you can't go wrong there. Just search the data base here and make a choice or go again and pick who you want to see.
As for parking in the back, it is actually on the side and under ground. The gate is locked but the desk has a camera down there and they will buz you in.
Lastly I love the massage. Always book 2 sessions at a time!

 

[Jewel]

The massage is sometimes a good leadup. It relaxes and arouses you, and occasionally is a good massage. Also, you take the time to chat with the gal, and sometimes really hit it off, which makes the FS part more enjoyable. If you've been to BEX before, they treat you well. Just request whom you want, or to see a lineup. Same goes in the room, just ask for what you like. I've had nothing but good service there, and feel like when I go there, I have an assurance that I won't get ripped off..plus, the quality seems to be pretty decent.

 

[mallos731]

It is not too late to ask for a different girl if you don't like the one that walk into the room either. You can always ask the girl to leave the room. I don't usually do this, but have done it a few times.

 

[Answers]

Ok, thanks for the responses. If I go again, I will insist on seeing who is available first, and then pick one myself. And I'll make the girl leave the light on

Also, lemme make sure this is right, it is ok to tell the girl to just skip the massage if I'm not in the mood for it?

 

[Zephyr - That Skate Kid]

Yeah adventurer, that sure was some very detailed info...it's almost like...you're in the business yourself.

Actually you know what works really well? While they're massaging your back, and they're standing beside you, start rubbing their leg lightly with your free arm and hand. I've found a lot of them like that "playfulness"....note that you might try this after you've established some sort of connection with them, mainly by making small talk and being just generally friendly. Happy pooning chris!

 

[MississippiQueen]

chris, i wanted to add that everyone's unique, duh. my impression of eewa (i reviewed her a while back) is that she's a bit shy, well at least until she gets going, hence the dark lighting. also, i agree it's clear she doesn't want to be banged for the full 45 minutes but i think she genuinely believes in the massage, it's an important part of what she does, and personally i thought her technique was excellent. she crunched me in all the spots my chiropracter does, and she does that intuitive connect thing with your body, not many people even try to do that. anyway, bex is an mp, it would be kind of silly not to get a massage.
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[lollipopsucker]

naiveguy, if you notice, I didn't say >anything< negative about eewa (iwa, however it's spelled). My complaints were about other aspects of the situation I didn't care for. I titled the thread "a review of bex", and not "a review of eewa", because it wouldn't be fair to blame her for those things I didn't care for which weren't her fault.

I guess I could blame her for turning the light off, but in retrospect it's my fault for just not turning it back on again

 

[red_writer]

Hi Folks;
I'm flying into town this week and I have a fairly long layover in Vancouver one evening. Could you folks help me out with some suggestions on what are my options and best bets for some R &R near to the airport.
Recommendations on both escot or m/p service would be appreciated. Thanks

 

[shawshank]

Last time I paid the room fee with Visa, I wasn't charged GST. I've paid with Visa a few times in the past and no GST.

 

[Papa B]

I've only paid room fee with visa.

 

[dobermann lover]

Always pay cash...if you card it, whether debit or credit card, they will almost always charge you a fee. With credit cards, there's usually a 'credit card transaction fee'...I forget what the percentage is...something like 5 or 10%. It's almost as if you put your bargaining skills to waste.

 

[Declan]

Whether it be a MP or SP, cash is always best for the following reasons.

1) if you card it, the girl could entice you for more and it is easy to go way overboard if it is on credit (had this happen to me a few times and I was using cash too!)
2) they may ding you for credit card fees as stated above, this is particularly possible with AMP
3) using a card would leave a record, and this indiscretion could come back to haunt you. Eg - if the place was busted, maybe LE could see who visited the place through credit card records. Granted that it is a stretch, but these credit records linger around for a very long time.

 

[Bubbly]

Will they really come back to haunt you and how like in a court case? That's sound scary enough to me. I used cc in several occasions last year. A few mps changed their names since then. Could they still have my record? I think then it is safer to visit independent sp then to mp.

 

[Snowy Betty]

Also, with these types of businesses, and the people who run them, lifting of your credit card number is a possibility - especially an AMP; had my number lifted a couple of years ago, but luckily visa did not charge me for their spending spree.